"That said, you aren't mono. You are in a now poly relationship."
It's the same shit that happens when someone in an established relationship troons out.
For the person starting it, wanting to have their cake and eat it too.
My understanding, yes. My mood, no.
You can put in time and effort to properly fix your car, or you can use a shit ton of duct tape to hold the fender on.
This. But you also forget the inverse strategy used by the poly cabal on unsuspecting single people, particularly those that are lonely, vulnerable and unlucky in love.
I will never understand why these people have so little shame... Forget "hide your power level", these people push the envelope and brag about it for attention... My god.
a lot of the time they're in weird "progressive" bubbles that assume anything normal or pre-established is traditional and therefore suspicious, bad, oppressive and so they're conditioned to believe that being queer and open-minded is good . Their culture encourages them to second-guess their instinct not to want the man or woman they like having sex with other people and dismiss it as oppressive societal programming.
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Yeah, you cannot rule out that for a lot of these people beyond the goonery/pooning is this Fuck You Dad attitude toward conservatism in the literal sense of, if people have been doing something for a while it's probably racist/sexist/homophobic [insert -ist statements as necessary] therefore we should tear it down! Yes, it's a weird coincidence that everyone doing this is a cucked leftist retard but those people are all right-thinking people so ergo, vis-a-vis, concordantly this must be the right thing to do to!a lot of the time they're in weird "progressive" bubbles that assume anything normal or pre-established is traditional and therefore suspicious, bad, oppressive and so they're conditioned to believe that being queer and open-minded is good . Their culture encourages them to second-guess their instinct not to want the man or woman they like having sex with other people and dismiss it as oppressive societal programming.
This is part of the assumption of a leftwing philosophical/political movement called queer theory.
Derrick Jensen: Anarchism and Queer Theory Jeopardy.
Careful with that Derrick in Eugene. Derrick Jensen's controversial talk at the Eugene Public Library in Oregon in 2018.
Attention seeking behaviour is a helluva drug.
its greed. a person who lets just say is struggling to make connections to people finally gets laid, but they've been pornsick'd so bad that theres no way just one person could ever fulfill all their desires or give them the luxuries of choice and variety. Its immature because those feelings are supposed to take a backseat when it comes time to emotionally commit to one partner (but thats just another of those everhated traditional cultural norms).
Do you know any videos or pages that go over the reddit schwartz stuff in detail? I've alsywas found it a rather murky thing to find info on.
I might be in the minority here, but I think that forms of polyamory or at least "ethical non-monogamy" have existed a long time and probably work just fine. There are a LOT of swingers out there doing crazy shit these polyamory idiots can't even dream of, but they aren't deluded enough to one, advertise it to those not in the "scene" and two, pretend it's anything other than fucking for fucking's sake. Key parties existed in the 60s and 70s, after all; it's not just a pornsick thing.
I mean the key part is that those more or less aren't real relationships, there's no intensive commitment involved. Sure, people can make swinger parties or fuckbuddies "work", but at the end of the day it's just getting your rocks off and fucking because you're horny. It's purely transactional, basically just fucking a prostitute you're acquainted with for free.
The "new relationship experience" they keep talking about should instantly set off every alarm bell possible. Relationships have their ups and downs and thinking you can somehow maintain your "main" relationship is insanity. Either someone will constantly chase that high of a new relationship and neglect the long term relationship. Or run away from the main relationship when things go bad. You see it all the time with love affairs monogamous relationships. Home life is boring and wife is getting prickly, husband spends more and more time with his girlfriend until the relationship completely implodes because he isn't investing/maintaining it. And the girlfriend is trying to get promoted to being the main woman. Or the wife is bored and fucks the personal trainer.
Funnily enough commies wanted to smash the family unit. Raise children communally in big sleeping quarters with a parents rotating as caregivers.
It was already over the second he didn't run like hell. You could tell him you'll be there once she starts splitting on him.
I really miss when the concern about your best friend seeing a new woman was that he wouldn't have time for bro stuff anymore. Now, I've had several friends cut me out entirely after they get a new girlfriend because actually, I'm a white nationalist neo-nazi rape-terrorist because I'm not shy about saying that men can't be women, actually, and he never noticed until Paige really opened his eyes about some stuff.
My condolences Sadly I've lost friends to this cult too. As for all cult victims, the best thing you can do is not cutting contact with them completely. This way if they want to leave one day, they can contact you for help.
