I think that a lot of them have picked up on the progressive therapyspeak that's so common in those circles. It's very wishy washy language that distances subjects from one another/ the results of their actions and is popular with manipulative people for that reason.
I believe the Venn diagram of manipulative and poly people is not quite a circle, but pretty close to one.
How can you be sure you’re not poly if you haven’t tried it? Maybe your relationship isn’t strong enough. Maybe you have jealousy issues. Maybe you’re just boring? Would it hurt you to make your partner happy? (Same applies to kink people although that Venn diagram IS a circle)
As someone who lost their marriage to a faggot wanting poly I say the same out of hate and I think lethal injection is too good for them. I want them to fucking suffer: I fucking despise polys way more than troons and furries.
As someone who lost their marriage to a faggot wanting poly I say the same out of hate and I think lethal injection is too good for them. I want them to fucking suffer: I fucking despise polys way more than troons and furries.
When I was younger, the first thing I heard about polyamoury was how awful it always ended up and so on, mostly from online sources similar to this thread. So, when my friend and her husband announced they were going poly, I thought to myself "I guess I'll get to see if people are actually equipped to handle this type of thing or if it always ends in disaster".
They were divorced in 6 months cause he knocked up his new girlfriend lol.
Anyway this poly family show is disturbing as fuck and I hope all the people involved die.
I think reality TV people are still fundamental about having good looking people on TV though.. Or at least, people who look good on TV. Not often the same thing.
Are furries to spergy to provide entertainment? They seem to get up to genuinely gross, mad shit at their conventions. I'm really suprised it's never happened as a show. People love freakshows after all, that would get them over the ick factor of how dysgenic they are - but maybe it's that they are gross and also having sex.
Can't mix those two factors, without getting in trouble perhaps.
What are you talking about "having good looking people on TV", they literally featured a polycule with a grotesquely obese soyjak and two ultra processed food bloated hamplanets flinging their degeneracy in front of their kids (which one of them has blue hair btw)
That's an especially odd take coming from a member of the Farms. Does he think that our cows are especially good-looking? Or look at episodes of Jerry Springer and the like. Was the Kung Fu Hillbilly a stunner?
My ex wanted to be poly in all but name, rotten bastard convinced me to let him sleep around "because he just had a higher sex drive than me," and he STILL did things in secret. I don't put up with shit like that anymore and that's why I'm single lol
I was thinking I'm here because I love reading about freaks, but now that I think about it, I have had a few experiences.
I have a new coworker who identifies as poly. My work bestie and my pet theory is that this gal and her husband are spit roasting the adult child that works in the other wing of the building. In conversation she'll talk about how they went to his place to get baked and then try to tell us he's not that bad of a guy. Day one we warned her not to be seen with him since he's getting fired. I talked about her here before I think. Oh yeah, I called her husband a cave salamander lol. I do not want to imagine their sexual encounters.
We need more content in here. I submit this piece of shit, /u/MrDeuteronomy. He is 35 years old. Post history is focused on gaming, DND, and poly, with a couple of comments in wacky subreddits like /r/clowngirls and /r/ForcedFeminization. It also appears that he has dated men in the past. That's the nonbinary pride flag on his profile pic:
To give you an idea of what this guy is like, he """accidentally""" brought up his awesome poly lifestyle at work. OOPSIE! Tee hee! Aren't those coworker questions so annoying? (No, he loves it.)
Anyway, on to his Reddit post. He's been with his partner for ten years. They are married. They've been doing poly for two years. MrDeuteronomy claims [X] it was her idea and it "didn't go well for her" the only time she tried it.
They tried for a baby last year, but she found out she was infertile and was devastated. They agree to pause the polyshit while she recovers emotionally, then MrDeuteronomy starts it back up. He goes out on a first date and comes home to his infertile wife, burbling with excitement about how awesome the new chick is. He excitedly tells his wife all about the makeout sesh he had.
His partner is very upset by this. She makes dark jokes about divorce, about MrDeuteronomy "exchanging her for a newer model", and even makes a crack about murdering the new chick that MrDeuteronomy won't shut up about.
And what does this sniveling cunt do? Does he reflect on the wisdom of going out on a date with a younger chick then rubbing his wife's face in it? No! He runs to Reddit to scream about how his wife was THREATENING VIOLENCE!!!!!!!!!!11111!!!
Here's his post. Full text under the spoiler below.
Alright, so my partner and I are about to have our ten year anniversary. We've been open for about two years, but most of my relationships never got serious, and she hasn't even tried to date except for once, and it went badly.
We set up rules and boundaries, we talk openly, and it's been nice.
Except that about 10 months ago we went to a fertility doc and sshe got bad news. We closed up and stopped until she said she was okay.
I have met several people and have been talking with this one woman for three months, we had our first date last night, and she was supportive right up until I left.
And the date was amazing. We really clicked. We were super touch and kissing, but that's as far as my partner and I agreed was okay on a first date, and she respected that. I was so happy when I got home and talked about it, and my partner was suddenly distant.
This morning, I was met with jealousy. Comments about abandoning her for a younger woman, jokes about divorce, and even jokes about murdering the person that I went on a date with.
She is not taking the quick connection well at all. And I am feeling like re-opening the relationship was a bad idea. This is also the first time I have really clicked with someone on this level.
And I don't know what to do. No matter what I do or say, I don't feel like I can get past the insecurities that built up in her head when she was told that she was told the news from the doctor. I have made so many changes to meet her needs and make her feel secure.
And I thought we were okay.
But now I feel like I need to tell the person that I went on a date with that there won't be another because she is obviously not ready for this.
I don't want to lose the woman who knows me more than anyone. But I don't want to shove this part of me away.
I know, I need to talk. I need to communicate. But I feel like I have exhausted all of my talking points at this time. I don't know how to make her feel safe. And I don't know how to tell this new person, "Ha, yeah, so my partner is jealous and making jokes about hiding your body, maybe we shouldn't."
Edit: (Update) So I talked to her. I let her know that the joke wasn't okay and that it made me feel unsafe bringing her,let alone anyone else around. I also pointed out that the vetting thing was kind of sketch and called out some behaviors not mentioned here.
I reassured her that I love her and then some ugly truths came out. Some really ugly ones. And ... I am not sure how I feel about it. For now, I am going to tell my date that it's not a good time and give her a heads up on my wife's comment. I still want to be friends, but I can understand if they want to stay far, far away from this situation.
I also found out that she made those rules out of her own guilt, and my trust in her is a little shaken.
And I recommend therapy. Apparently, her trust issues are at least partially rooted in her violating my trust. I have been in therapy for years, but she has never been once.
I know Reddit is probably going to just tell me to divorce her. That is easier said that it is done, emotionally and financially. But I am aware of the unhealthy nature of the situation and will bide my time until it is safe to ge out or until therapy seems to be working.
Notice that he is now planning to tell the new chick that his wife THREATENED VIOLENCE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!111111!!! He's just gotta sell out his wife to milk as much drama and attention out of this situation as possible.
Murder is bad, I'm sure we all agree. But look how this weasel describes the situation, being careful never to reveal the exact words. I guarantee that whatever his extremely upset wife said, after her sniveling husband came home bragging about making out with a younger, better woman, was absolutely nothing like a credible threat of violence and he knows it.
All these dipshit polytards know it too, but look at them all clutching their pearls about THREATS!!!!!! and YOU NEVER JOKE ABOUT THAT!!!!!!, giving the craven MrDeuteronomy all the validation he could ever desire.
Confidential to MrDeuteronomy: stop running to Reddit to workshop reasons why your wife is a terrible person for being upset about you rubbing your side piece in her face. Faggot.
Bonus post from MrDeuteronomy. He claims that his wife discovered her infertility ten months ago. He made the below post on /r/polyamory nine months ago. It seems like "Willow" must be the wife, but he must be obfuscating or lying about some of the details.
tl;dr Willow finds somebody she wants to date. Highly evolved polyamorous king MrDeuteronomy has a tantrum and says Willow can't date THAT person cuz...um, because they were totally abusive to MrDeuteronomy. The manipulative smarm just oozes off of this guy:
I (34M) am in a relationship with a few other partners, but the relationship between myself and one of them, we'll call her Willow (28F), has gotten more serious over the past year. To the point where we were talking about moving in together as she's already over at mine most of the time.
We hang in the same circles and she is dating somebody that I had a fling with, no issues there, but I noticed them flirting with one of my more toxic exes. I asked them to not pursue that relationship because it made me uncomfortable to have a person that had been so abusive towards me close to a person that I love. I know this might seem unreasonable to some people, but she said that was fine.
Today I found out that they've been hanging out (not a big deal), and that they've still been being flirtatious (definitely a boundary cross), and when I confronted them about it they mentioned that they didn't want to impose on me while I had work things happening. But also confessed about them getting some matching jewelry. As far as she has confessed, they haven't been intimate and are not officially dating, but some of what she has confessed definitely crosses lines for what I would call flirting.
They want to keep it going, but include my other ex in their network, and I love them, but this all feels a lot like cheating and that they could not see them crossing the boundary until it went as far as it did, and them not being honest about it because "I was too busy" while continuing on with it has left me feeling as if they had betrayed my trust.
I will admit, the formerly abusive ex does not seem to be repeating past behaviors at the moment, so it may be a healthy relationship and my fears may have been unfounded, but my partner's dishonesty and disloyalty and poor communication has left me feeling in a pretty bad headspace.
Idk if I'm really looking for advice or anything. I just wanted to type this out to get the feelings out. I feel as if this is repairable, but my trust has taken a major blow.
Checks out as weasels do practice polyamory. Honestly, it's nice that things get documented here as this would go a long way to fuck him over in a divorce.
What are you talking about "having good looking people on TV", they literally featured a polycule with a grotesquely obese soyjak and two ultra processed food bloated hamplanets flinging their degeneracy in front of their kids (which one of them has blue hair btw)
It's actually interesting to witness how well polyamory seems to illustrate (if not at times even exacerbate) the differing selection preferences (and consequent dating options) that men and women have.
As a general rule, I've noticed that gender parity within an exclusively heterosexual polycule only tends to hold when the participants are of a similar level of (generally below-average) attractiveness. The more attractive ones tend to just end up practicing a form of polygamy (one guy sharing a bunch of women), while the seriously unattractive ones overwhelmingly tend to consist of a bunch of unappealing men sharing an even less appealing woman.
It's actually interesting to witness how well polyamory seems to illustrate (if not at times even exacerbate) the differing selection preferences (and consequent dating options) that men and women have.
As a general rule, I've noticed that gender parity within an exclusively heterosexual polycule only tends to hold when the participants are of a similar level of (generally below-average) attractiveness. The more attractive ones tend to just end up practicing a form of polygamy (one guy sharing a bunch of women), while the seriously unattractive ones overwhelmingly tend to consist of a bunch of unappealing men sharing an even less appealing woman.
The examples I've seen boil personally down to 4/10 broads bullying their cuck husbands/long-term boyfriends into this because they lack the spine to say are you out of your fucking mind. And at risk of starting some sort of flame war or gender fight, everyone here knows it's way easier for a 4/10 broad to go out/online and find some dude to fuck her than some 4/10 guy.
Regardless the amount of self-induced misery and anxiety I've seen generated from these lifestyles is something to behold.
Okay, time for threadtax:
Yet another example of a broad (I'm assuming based on writing, personal experience) building a harem with two dudes happy to share a hole. Early stages here, all signs point to more low self-esteem nerds.
Excellent post that I think a lot of people in this thread should read and is genuinely thoughtful. The final paragraph sums up a lot of the buy-now-pay-later attitude these people have but do not understand. Hilarious that the page is locked.
And on a funnier note:
Comments are all telling the guy to unpack his homophobia:
Well, a weasel looks like a cross between a kitten and a snake, so we could forgive them because they have a cute face. They also eat rats and mice so unlike the average redditor weasel's are a net boon to society.
Excellent post that I think a lot of people in this thread should read and is genuinely thoughtful. The final paragraph sums up a lot of the buy-now-pay-later attitude these people have but do not understand. Hilarious that the page is locked.
The post hits harder if you've experienced that kind of love for someone, and may hopefully be a deterrent to someone out there who might even consider such a damning affair
Overall, the OP also highlighted some of the wonderful things you get out of steady and dedicated monogamy. Naysayers will believe that monogamy is some outdated concept we impose on ourselves, but I'll believe that no one who has embraced polygamy has died happy
Excellent post that I think a lot of people in this thread should read and is genuinely thoughtful. The final paragraph sums up a lot of the buy-now-pay-later attitude these people have but do not understand. Hilarious that the page is locked.
That's the insidious nature of reddit. They murdered Aaron Schwartz in prison because they did NOT want the discovery from that trial to get out, and if they dropped the charges it would also have looked bad, so they murdered him, and gave reddit over to psychopaths who thought they could take over the internet. The original front page of the internet was supposed to be excite, and Ghisline Maxwell's sister, isabel maxwell, bought it up when she was running magellan. So if you wonder if U/maxwellhill is ghilsine maxwell, that's a strong possibility because the OTHER sister christine was also heavily investing into the internet with the goal of creating one site to control information. All THREE of them were pioneers into web based media, and i have this dark suspicion that they are why CASM or 'p as the soy teens call it was proliferated on the early web.
Anyway, back to the regularly scheduled programing of gawking at disgusting degenerates who ruined their lives with degeneracy.
