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Hmmmmmmmmmmm I think I found yer problem right here. Its almost like people in these kinda relationship are much more prone to forming asymmetric bonds and some may feel left out.
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Hmmmmmmmmmmm I think I found yer problem right here. Its almost like people in these kinda relationship are much more prone to forming asymmetric bonds and some may feel left out.
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There's a story in The Sociopath Next Door that sounds just like this "depressed" guy. It was a guy that refused to work or do childcare after knocking up a woman with a good career. He claimed depression too but it was all an act, he moved in because he liked her swimming pool and knew the kid bought him a couple years of leusure. The poly guy knows the same thing about manipulating the woman in the house, as long as he can charm her he's got a free ride.
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“Since it might be relevant, I transitioned four years ago”
Yes, professor, that fact is important to discussions about your marriage.
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Everyone in that story may be found near a lamppost on the Great Day of the Rope.
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He ruined his relationship with his wife. He won't end the relationship, and is surprised that her shitty placeholder relationship is shitty and not entirely serious. I mean, why wouldn't she pick the shittiest man she could find, after the man she actually married trooned out?
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If they're in a liberal area/social circle, and I'm guessing they are (since polyamory and transitioning aren't problems for anyone except liberals), she can't actually express any upset with her husband without being called transphobic. It's a fuck of a thing to be the wife in that situation, she kinda out SJW'd him into boarding her boyfriend.
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https://www.reddit.com/r/polyamory/comments/9we6h2/this_is_unfair_for_me/
http://archive.is/k7eGa
Weirdly enough, the degenerates on r/Polyamory are actually in agreement:
I guess a broken clock is right twice a day
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They're all about having their degeneracy on full display and bullying partners into going along with it through emotional blackmail. You'll find that whenever someone makes a thread talking about someone outright lying to them, like in this case, they'll be quick to condemn them. That's the only sensible thing I've seen from them.
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I’m openly bi woman and have done some online dating in past. So naturally have been hit on by poly people kinda a lot. One consistently good side to them is that they eather come out immediately or at least before first date on the hole poly issue. I’m no way open to open relationships so I always turn them down but I appreciate that they generally get the hole not wasting my or their time. Some of these people (pretty much all men) have expressed annoyance on getting turned down when ever they do bring the poly up so I have no doubt that poly hider exists. Otherhand what do they think most avare people are looking for? Eather actual romantic relationship that can lead to a family of their own or just drama free hook ups.
Still a merit where merits are do, the current poly culture does promote honesty and openness about poly when seeking new relationships.
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I am guessing those poly degens often try to recruit you to be a sister wife or some shit, too
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Apparently on OKCupid there's a poly-only option for them? But, yes, they--especially the men--love to bitch about how hard it is to find a date. Gosh, I wonder why?
You have a good point about hook ups. Some people like being slutty and hey, live your best life. Polyamory is the worst aspects of being a slut and being committed put together.
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Casual sex isn't exactly safe to begin with, but people could at the very least have the STDs quarantined and not try to pass it off as commitment.
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"She was hiding from me the fact she's polyamorous." That's a pretty good way to spin infidelity. "I'm not a serial killer! I just wasn't out of the closet as a homicidist at that point."
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I'd say the wife is worse than the troon here. I can understand his troonism ruining their relationship and causing her to search for someone else. Hell, if it was just her, the troon and Charles, I wouldn't be as mad. But if she's letting a sociopathic, drug-dealing, parasitic prostitute live in the same house as her kids, and actively choosing him over her husband, then she's scum and the bigger degenerate. A troon is bad, but Charles here sounds like a budding child molester/serial-killer.
For the sake of the children, I hope that both them, and the husband gets the hell out of there.
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Sounds like NTR hentai, protag wants to be happy with his special other only for the other to be more happy than him. This guy truley, fucked up especially when the wife was very much against from the beginning. What a loser.
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This to me just makes it seem like they are just using a crutch to prop up a failing relationship. Both Jerry and Gretchen seem like they are being strung along while justifying to themselves why this is OK. It seems like only one party is getting to enjoy themselves while the other just gets to watch. Sad really that people can be such doormats to others.
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A couple I somewhat know (and avoid as much as possible) found a long-distance poly gf. They're hoping she'll eventually divorce her husband and move here to live as their sisterwife in an Onision-style holy trinity, as her being committed to someone other than them isn't "ideal," but they'll put up with it for the sake of the puss. I am very skeeved out.