- Joined
- Nov 28, 2014
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No words.
All of this enabling is really unhealthy. If anyone ever criticizes Vade, instead of that criticism being able to (hopefully) plant itself in her head and make her consider it, someone always comes along and assures Vade that she's perfect and has done absolutely nothing wrong ever. This makes Vade instantly disregard everything that's critical of her.
I'm not saying that Vade wouldn't ignore criticism/advice on her own, because she definitely would (and has), but her small band of enablers really aren't helping anything. At all. They're not really her friends. Friends know that, sometimes, you need to give tough love to someone you care about because it's for their own good. Enablers just mindlessly validate whatever you do, no matter how self-destructive it is.