If you'd read my posts, I made it very clear that people who publicize their fetishes (particularly disgusting ones) should expect to be shunned by society. That was never my argument. That's just how society works, and that's how society should work. Furthermore, someone shitting their pants at work and then serving you food is illegal (there are hygiene codes in any food establishment which employees are obligated to follow) in most every state anyways, so no, that is not okay and I never made any point to the contrary. You're completely missing my point. I'll do you a favor and repeat it:
Do you think every single person with a sexual fetish takes that fetish outside the bedroom? Do you have any idea how many completely "normal" people around you are into some extremely weird sexual behavior? Plenty of people with fetishes far more extreme than this one will keep their sex at home because MOST people, yes, even sexual "deviants", are logical people who don't want to endanger their jobs or their reputations.
For every 1 idiot who wears a diaper to work and shits his pants there, there's probably 100 with the same fetish who keep it in their bedroom, and making sweeping generalizations about an entire group of people is fucking asinine (particularly the ones who know to keep their sexual behaviors private). Even worse when those generalizations are very, very stupid ones (this fetish is the same thing as pedophilia). If that's the case, then rape fetishists are all rapists and people into violence are all abusive criminals.
Any sound-minded adult realizes that this is not the case. What people do in their bedroom, so long as they keep it in their bedrooms and with a consensual partner who isn't at risk of harm, doesn't concern anyone.
Because someone who likes wearing diapers to bed is the same level as a fucking child rapist? Are you out of your mind?
There's a reason I ignore you, and it has everything to do with you clearly being too stupid to speak intelligently, much less argue.