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- Dec 18, 2020
Chad doesn't use dating apps. He doesn't need the expanded dating pool to get a girl, he knows people can use filters on their pictures so he'd rather just go to a bar and see them in person.They suck if you're ugly, if you're chad I don't think they would mind it because to them its like uber eats for sex.
Also literally nobody has sex on demand like that except Jeffrey Epstein & pals.
Eat healthy, sleep well, exercise. You don't need to be buff, just be healthy. Learn an instrument, a language or anything you fancy in your free time. Meditate or pray. Be good to people, no matter who they are. Meet people. Talk to people. Learn how to talk better. Make friends. If they're male you have a wingman, if they're female you have a better wingman who can tell you what women really think. The friendzone isn't a failure, because you get a friend, and there's nothing saying you can't get closer later. Try and fail as many times as it takes, because nobody ever succeeds on their first attempt.I agree with @Mr Snek, forget about women, dating, and all that other shit and just make something of your time on this earth. Better than getting a hobby, get a craft, whether it be cooking, tailoring, programming, etcetera, it matters little; find some means of becoming an actor in the world, rather than just a covetous watcher in the wings. Telling an incel to pick up a hobby for the sake of attracting their desire is inherently foolish, for it frames the activity solely in the context of their desire, it asks them to merely don a mask. But what lies behind the mask? A jealous void. Can someone who's sole nature is resentment attain personhood? It is up for debate, but were it possible their spark of life, their meaning for living, must come from within, an inherent paradox.
And if you still can't get a girl, who cares, because none of these things are bad for you. Becoming a better person is a no-lose gambit, at worst you'll just be healthier and happier than you are now.