Eh, hospitals like UCSF are definitely not bring-your-own-drugs as a rule. You can sometimes--if you cleared it beforehand--bring your stock of something that's a specialty item, the kind of thing you have to go to a compounding or specialty pharmacy for, but UCSF is one of those places which likely has it on hand or has somebody who can whip it up at need.
Fun fact! One of the most common EMRs out there lets you flag patients, and it is very commonly policy to flag somebody who is caught with mystery drugs. This flag means a pop-up will happen every time somebody opens the patient's chart, meaning that even the office staff may end up knowing.
Nobody gives a fuck why you chimped out. You're probably going to find the staff avoiding you, though, because the pay does not actually go up if you're dealing with a combative patient.
I'll agree with the first part--nurse told him firmly no outside pills--but I suspect he sincerely believes that it was because the nurse is a TERF & he's a poor innocent troon who dindu nuffing.
This is a huge part of why you'll get TERFs and TERFy types at places like UCSF. Troons are probably the worst thing around for trans rights, and could do a lot for their fellow transfolx by just...41%ing themselves. Or not being troons, but they're more likely to manage the first option...
Yeah, and honestly I would be okay with them having a thing for imagining themselves as a chick (hottie or nottie) if they weren't insisting I play along. I mean, my tolerance is pretty much fully set by how much you respect my right to not be involved in your kink without my consent.
You leave me alone? As long as you're not harming kids or animals, nor raping and/or murdering people, I don't give a fuck. If you insist on involving me? You skipped asking me if I was down for it. It won't even matter if I might like the kink, you didn't ask.
There's a reason I think it's very interesting that the Tumblrinas were so regularly reminding each other what consent is, given that they and their diaspora on Twitter have a tendency to suck at it.