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I started doing some self-reflection lately. Is it normal for a guy to enjoy playing as women? I’m not even talking about ERPs. Out of the characters I’ve enjoyed playing as and/or creating the most, two of them were guys. The rest were a cowgirl themed magical girl thats just Regina George but southern, a magical girl who’s still traumatized after her mom’s ex boyfriend’s abuse, a pixie corrupted by dark magics, and the rape child of a wealthy merchant’s wife (who was happily adopted by said merchant).

Now I’m legit wondering if playing as any of these characters is normal at all, and since most of /tg/ is nogames, I figured here is the only other place I can talk to about it.
Oh yeah, your the guy that has the magical girl game. I also played a few female characters, though they've mostly been jokey kind of characters, with the exception being the one in my own magical girl game, and even then I'm essentially rping a schizo half the time.
 
4 sessions of Cyberpunk and for some reason more than half of them just made futuristic waifus
Considering how Japanese-infested the whole cyberpunk genre is, do you really need to ask why?

That said, I think its close to 50/50 for me with waifu characters in RPG's. Now, granted I tend to play elves so its hard to tell sometimes what they have between their legs, but I do have a very gendered take on it. My female characters tend to be more charismatic and skilled, male ones more outright violent and physically capable.
 
I don't know if any of my players browse the farms but if they do, Armada crew, please do not click the spoiler below.

Currently planning out a player versus player play by post mystery game. My six players will be investigators in the fictional town of New Providence in 1972, with one of them actually being the serial killer they're supposed to be tracking. It's my most ambitious game yet and I have no idea if it'll work out but I'm excited. I roped the most level headed player in my group into being the killer so hopefully they'll make a good challenge. Has anyone done anything like this before? If so I'd like to hear how it went.
 
I don't particularly think liking playing a girl means anything. I think more HOW you play them says something about you. I've played women before in several different contexts and backgrounds, same as my other chars. I know some people(It's always guys) who play men 99% of the time, but when they do play a women always tend to over exaggerate stuff like 'sexiness'', often having them use their body to try and get things. And they'll do this with all their female chars, not just say the one built to be a seducer. Legit once knew a player who thought any problem could be solved by flashing their tits, and they were dead serious about it, like they were shocked the mindless golem didn't want sex.
 
Aside from my group's semi-annual sessions of maid rpg (which is used as a release valve for terrible player behavior fueled by alcohol), the last time I played a female character was in a Curse of Strahd game and in hindsight she was basically high elf wizard Bea Arthur that kept getting mistaken for a guy.
 
Oh yeah, your the guy that has the magical girl game. I also played a few female characters, though they've mostly been jokey kind of characters, with the exception being the one in my own magical girl game, and even then I'm essentially rping a schizo half the time.
Had. It fell apart fairly quickly thanks to a tranny entering and then being kicked, a guy leaving because we @'d him too many times (in a pbp discord game!), and the GM admitting he wasn't prepared for this (and in hindsight, I did kind of pressure him into GMing).
 
Had. It fell apart fairly quickly thanks to a tranny entering and then being kicked, a guy leaving because we @'d him too many times (in a pbp discord game!), and the GM admitting he wasn't prepared for this (and in hindsight, I did kind of pressure him into GMing).

Told you bro. Trannies ruin games.

I don't particularly think liking playing a girl means anything. I think more HOW you play them says something about you. I've played women before in several different contexts and backgrounds, same as my other chars. I know some people(It's always guys) who play men 99% of the time, but when they do play a women always tend to over exaggerate stuff like 'sexiness'', often having them use their body to try and get things. And they'll do this with all their female chars, not just say the one built to be a seducer. Legit once knew a player who thought any problem could be solved by flashing their tits, and they were dead serious about it, like they were shocked the mindless golem didn't want sex.

This is true. And dudes who play exclusively female characters in online games are all coomers who make them slutty lesbian to wank to. I see those dudes a mile away. They aren't subtle with their RP and their aggressive lesbian always reads like a dude with tits. They just wanna ERP. Ironically they usually end up ERPing to another gross mouth breather dude.

Are there rare cases of yaoi girls who play male characters like cute uke uwu types? Yeah but it's not as aggressively stupid and usually they play to another girl also doing a dumb yaoi RP thing. I tend to see the dudes playing slutty lesbo thing far more though.

That said, I play a lot of dude characters. Most people assume I am also a dude until they either hear my voice or I confirm what I am. Doesn't really matter what people consider me (unlike troons) but I take it as a compliment that at the very least, I play a realistic enough man that doesn't feel like a woman trying to play a experience she doesn't have. That's my only goal in RP as a player. To make characters that feel like a whole actualized person and not just a puppet I move around.
 
This is true. And dudes who play exclusively female characters in online games are all coomers who make them slutty lesbian to wank to. I see those dudes a mile away. They aren't subtle with their RP and their aggressive lesbian always reads like a dude with tits. They just wanna ERP. Ironically they usually end up ERPing to another gross mouth breather dude.
The ones that aren't into it specifically the lesbian ERP can usually be spotted easily, too. They're the ones playing the "badass" female characters that are basically just dudes with tits who are guaranteed to punch/stab/shoot/hex/inflict grievous harm upon anyone trying to hit on them.

Are there rare cases of yaoi girls who play male characters like cute uke uwu types? Yeah but it's not as aggressively stupid and usually they play to another girl also doing a dumb yaoi RP thing. I tend to see the dudes playing slutty lesbo thing far more though.
It's much easier to see the yaoi things in communities where there are more female players than average. Back when I played World of Warcraft, before everybody and their grandmother was genderspecial or transgender, roleplaying servers were well above average in female player population. I know because I talked to them both over voice and in person at the guild meets. Most of them were 30-something (40-something now, I guess) and they were some of the thirstiest fujos I've ever met in my life. Like, I'm sure a good 80% of them didn't have a female character. It was all gay guys, and only two stereotypes: young twink, and (occasionally grizzled) older gentleman.

And yes, they usually just RPed with one another.

That's my only goal in RP as a player. To make characters that feel like a whole actualized person and not just a puppet I move around.
Amen to that.
 
Had. It fell apart fairly quickly thanks to a tranny entering and then being kicked, a guy leaving because we @'d him too many times (in a pbp discord game!), and the GM admitting he wasn't prepared for this (and in hindsight, I did kind of pressure him into GMing).
Shame, I've been having issues with my own game, but nothing like you've had. I'm mostly annoyed with the GM since we're kind of repeating the same basic plot and the tone of the game is a lot darker than I like.
 
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I can only think of two worlds where races were hardcoded with alignments, Oerth and Abeir-Toril (which by the way, also has an Africa like continent where humans first appeared). That's because the gods mean more in those two worlds and have more of a hands on approach with their followers and the world as a whole more consistently (unlike in the Dragonlance series where you get a war every so often, or the gods leaving because Chaos decided to destroy everything because the gods of that world are huge fuck ups).

If you weren't part of the status quo you were hunted down like Drizzt and Liriel, that also meant you have to follow the one god of their species (Lloth for the Drow), or be executed or worse. Orc never got much love in novels due to their low intellect. The smart ones tend to set up Hordes every few decades. I can think of at least one tribe that were more civilized and that's the Too Many Arrows tribe and why is that? This is due to WotC slowly making their races neutral so that Evil doesn't truly exist. That shit started in 2008 just as 4th Edition was hitting store shelves.

I'm not sure what they mean with "freakshit". Despite my occasional ranting in defense of human characters, I genuinely don't mind people playing non-humans. Even the really weird and exotic races. If they have an interesting character concept to play with, they can go ahead and play it with my full blessings.

What annoys me is when they make characters that are literally only the sum of their class, race and pronouns. Or characters that don't fit in the setting. Or when they complain that their highly exotic character is being treated differently just because they are (gasp!) different. People who just want the good without the bad (or worse: the looks without anything else) annoy me to no end, because it's so much more interesting to take the whole package and make it work.

You want to play a Tiefling? A literal demon-blooded creature with magic in your veins? Expect to be treated with mistrust. That's not a problem, either. You can play it off in so many different ways, you'd be spoiled for choice. You could have your character be annoyed by it and try to prove the commoners wrong. You could have your character revel in that mistrust. You could have your character be bitter. They could try to hide their demonic ancestry. Or they could flaunt it. Or they could try to pass it off as a curse. So many fucking options, you could make a whole party of the damn things and have them all have completely different outlooks about their own existence as Tiefling. But nope, most just play them as humans with horns and tails.

Shit, even just playing a bog-standard high elf. You're likely older than everybody else in the party, combined. You don't need to sleep. All other races feel clumsy compared to your natural elegance. You were raised among the trees and the other races' buildings all look crude and bulky to you. There is fey blood coursing through your veins, granting you powers the mundane races don't have. The children of other races might even learn how to handle a weapon, but every child around you was trained in the blade and the bow, with great skill to show for it. Everywhere you go, humans stare at you with awe, fear or envy in their eyes. All together, elves can be extremely alien creatures. But no, everybody just plays them as effete humans with pointy ears.

Likewise, you want to make a character with a sexual orientation outside the norm? Man up and play the consequences. Put some effort into it, you fucking hacks.
These comments really go together for me, because I've played some "less-standard races", and had DM's good/mean enough to expect me to deal with the consequences of rolling up a Flind fighter, or a half-orc bard; you can play anything you want, as long as you can roleplay it as more than "this is my self-insert, rolled to validate me vicariously, now reward me with zero challenge and Monty Haul loot!"

Except Kender, I have never met anyone that played Kender that wasn't a complete waste of oxygen, and I say that as someone that put up with a 6 month long campaign with a fat retard that wanted to have his "totally-not-Drizzit" Drow ranger, complete with mega-autistic levels of minmaxing.

A popular D&D Twitch streamer is getting cancelled for (based on my current reading) being a creepy turbo-coomer who tried to pressure basically every single one of his past and current female players to ERP with him and supposedly rubbing himself on some girl IRL.
Dude was a male feminist, wasn't he?
 
I started doing some self-reflection lately. Is it normal for a guy to enjoy playing as women? I’m not even talking about ERPs. Out of the characters I’ve enjoyed playing as and/or creating the most, two of them were guys. The rest were a cowgirl themed magical girl thats just Regina George but southern, a magical girl who’s still traumatized after her mom’s ex boyfriend’s abuse, a pixie corrupted by dark magics, and the rape child of a wealthy merchant’s wife (who was happily adopted by said merchant).

Now I’m legit wondering if playing as any of these characters is normal at all, and since most of /tg/ is nogames, I figured here is the only other place I can talk to about it.

For a more serious answer to all the crossplay chat now that I have time:
If you are making a character you think you can have fun with and works with the game world, no one will give a shit. It doesn't mean anything. The GM has to play females all the time. I am not a 600-year old forest guardian but my druid is.
But if you are doing it to get your rocks off, even a little, everyone can tell. You are creepy and please stop.
(unless its a specific ERP game. In which case you're probably still creepy, but so is everyone else so shine on you crazy freaks)
Basically its not weird unless you make it weird.

I had a Fujo player who has put me off having women playing guys who are not straight or asexual. I think I haven't had the inverse experience because A) No dude wanting to lesbian ERP wants to listen to my giant nerd voice doing a girl B) Better RADAR for dudes starting down the creeper path and stopping shit that before it starts.

I'm going to assume some context & nuisance may have been lost, but I agree with @Dr. Pasquale that characters listed sound sort of degenerate and (again, without the context) I'd be giving a guy long, hard look if he was wanting to play those last three.

A popular D&D Twitch streamer is getting cancelled for (based on my current reading) being a creepy turbo-coomer who tried to pressure basically every single one of his past and current female players to ERP with him and supposedly rubbing himself on some girl IRL.

Hilariously, I hadn't even heard of this guy until a few hours before your post and it was for reasons unrelated to his being canceled.

I don't have time to read all this horseshit; he was a stage-5 creeper, but why is he getting thotted just now?
 
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I don't have time to read all this horseshit; he was a stage-5 creeper, but why is he getting thotted just now?
These days it usually happens when someone with enough autism goes through the trouble of writing a callout document. It seems those are mandatory and without one unless you get some type of media attention your cancelling won't go anywhere.
 
I don't have time to read all this horseshit; he was a stage-5 creeper, but why is he getting thotted just now?
Apparently his GF saw his DMs to all these women and made him sever contact with all of them at once which is when they all started talking to each other and put together what was going on.
 
A popular D&D Twitch streamer is getting cancelled for (based on my current reading) being a creepy turbo-coomer who tried to pressure basically every single one of his past and current female players to ERP with him and supposedly rubbing himself on some girl IRL.
Dude may have been a sleazeball but the chick who wrote that blog post is mentally ill and will probably be accusing someone else of this kind of thing within two years.
 
Dude was a male feminist, wasn't he?
Yes and looks the way you think one would look.

These days it usually happens when someone with enough autism goes through the trouble of writing a callout document. It seems those are mandatory and without one unless you get some type of media attention your cancelling won't go anywhere.
It also depends on how popular the guy is getting and what the woman can get out of it.

Such women are ruining the hobby for other women. Why let them join your group if there's a high probability that they'll cancel you?
 
Picture of this guy...

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