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- Sep 6, 2013
Absolutely. Of course Chris thinks this is terribly unfair and he is suffering more than any person ever has in the entire history of the universe.Chris has had little idea what responsibility is until the fire. Now he has some. He's been doing HARD AND HEAVY LIFTING and making sure everything is going smooth. That's more than he's ever had. To most of us this would, of course, be stressful. To him it's not just STRESS but also learning that he actually has to do things in life and not fuck around with legos in his room, carefree. He's getting a taste of what it means to be an adult. He's still the same idiot we all know and love but he's finally getting a taste of life outside the Chandler bubble of enabling.
And that's another aspect of Chris' failure to be responsible: actual responsible, mature people not only act responsibly, but also accept that responsibility as a simple, necessary fact of life. Even though Chris has had some responsibility dropped on him, as soon as he can go back to playing with his legos in his bedroom while ignoring the outside realities, he will.
Yeah, people do it all the time, and usually they get away with it for small, inconsequential jobs like kitchen remodels (assuming there isn't a lot of complicated plumbing or wiring). But re-framing and roofing after a fire? Bad idea. It definitely costs more to hire qualified, licensed, bonded, and insured professional contractors, but that extra cost isn't for extra work. The extra cost is for your warranty and especially their liability. When you hire a licensed contractor, they are responsible for workplace safety and workman's compensation. If you just hire any old hammer jockey off the street, you are (in most states - certainly every one I can think of).It's not unusual for people to hire unlicensed contractors when money is tight. It's an incredibly silly thing to do liability-wise, especially if structural work is involved, but it's pretty common.
So if Barb is going it alone and hiring unlicensed labor to repair 14BLC, she is taking a sickening risk (I'm not saying she is doing that, just that I suspect it as a possibility). Quite apart from the questionable quality of the work done, if one of those workers should happen to fall off the roof, or electrocute himself, or have something fall on his head, or have any of literally thousands of possible serious accidents happen to him whole on her job, Barb could find herself in the hole for possibly hundreds of thousands of collars or more in medical costs, lost wages compensation, mental suffering, and on and on and on… And given the struggle she's had with her insurer so far, it's very possible she doesn't have any homeowners liability insurance to cover it, either.
Yeah, Chris has definitely fought long and hard all his life against both responsibility and growing up. My only point is that it's possible to do one without necessarily doing the other. One of the most responsible, mature people I know still acts like a 12yo girl most of the time. Even at her age she still plays with her toys and doll houses (some very expensive doll houses, mind), but if the chips are ever down, I'd trust my life to her to make the right, responsible decisions. At the same time I know people who are into very adult things like golf and scotch and literature who I wouldn't trust to safely watch after a hamster.Yeah. Well, Chris has fought responsibility, but in many ways he has fought growing up. It may be the autism, but he clings to Lego, MLP, Sonic and Pokemon without developing any interests more complex or refined. Yeah, its fine to be into some of that shit when you're an adult, but Chris takes it to a creepy level. He doesn't have many age-appropriate interests.
So again, the two are separate; Chris just happens to be neither. He's not an adult and he's not responsible. And most importantly, he doesn't want to be either. It's really, really sad when you think about it.