advices to get a bf

Jesus Christ, this entire thread (including OP) is overthinking the shit out of things. Let me simplify:

OP, unironically just bee your are self. Just be yourself. It's a big world out there, and when you commit to your interests, your community, and yourself, you will soon find you will meet a lot of people really quick. A lot of people of all kinds.

If you get your sleep, prioritize yourself, and prioritize things you value, you're gonna be fine.

Are you a comic nerd in college? Fucking fantastic. Study hard, join a club, and talk really fucking loudly about what you like.

Are you a stay at home religious zealot? Awesome. Set a good example, volunteer at your local church/chapter/etc., and spread the good word.

Me saying that you just need to focus on self-care because men will come to you is TRUE. You have the right to be picky because men secretly crave a woman who knows who they are and knows what they want to be in the world. Don't settle. You're going to be okay. Just be sure to be safe and have fun throughout.
 
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crazedaze said:
Except that as Sneed said, women are the sexual selectors, which is why approaching a man is dumb and caring about random guys' advice on how to make it easier on men is dumb. It's very telling that everyone wants to pretend we're equal on this and that femcels exist. Women are the selectors, men work to be chosen, and therefore one of us is not SUPPOSED to care what the other thinks. No equality.

"Both sexes because we are the same we are equal" "both sexes care about the birth rate first and foremost even though everywhere women have a choice in their lives the birth rates go down and we only came to billions upon billions through making women indentured sex slaves"
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So, why are you telling me this?
 
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Fleetwood said:
Is op's generation trained to not talk to women or it's rape? and black people cause its racist? Normally women can just stand around somewhere and will get asked out, something's off here.
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Yes. We Zoomers shit ourselves when we have to speak to a stranger on the phone, now imagine speaking to them IN REAL LIFE :O
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If you're not already a social butterfly then the idea of cold approaching women out on the street is not an option.
 
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starfirestellar said:
Btw my chances r already low bc me black girl in a white ppl school
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You kidding right? you're practically exotic, just dress like an e-girl and all the white boys will chase you, unless you're fat and ugly but that would be a problem no matter what race you're.

If you're that then try to max out all your other attributes, ie dress nice, be nice, try to be fun, and more importantly lower your standards: you're not gonna date chad. Odds are you're gonna have to approach men yourself, which I know is humiliating for women to do but that's the way things are in the post-metoo era.

Also don't act white but don't act like a trashy ghetto wannabe rapper either, seen some middle and upper class black kids who never been in the hood trying to pull that act and its just lame and pathetic.

Edit: if you're fat try losing some weight, being fit is a huge advantage now that most women are technically obese.
Lokenstien said:
In this day and age if you're the first one to approach there's like a 95% chance the guy will basically fall in love with you on sight.
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I know right? women just don't understand how unbelievably desperate young men are these days.
starfirestellar said:
(im not doing dating apps tho)
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Good, complete waste of time, plus its not any safer.
Lidl Drip said:
Just toss some dirty clothes all over the floor, put your dirty coffee mug on the table without a coaster and sprinkle some pubes on the toilet seat. Now it's just like you have a bf.
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Date shit, get shit.
starfirestellar said:
but no I don’t talk w guys they scare me
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You're going nowhere then...
 
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Overly Serious said:
A woman really shouldn't have to do this but men these days are so heavily messaged about not being sexual harassers that being the first to say "hello" is necessary.
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For the record the ratio of this versus the other thing you said about rejection/humiliation/whatever is 1000:1. The fear of rejection is negligible, the main issue is that misreading a situation has real social consequences like being labeled a creep or a sex pest or a stalker. In general when I'm weighing whether I should approach someone, the concerns going through my head aren't "b-but I might get my feefees hurt," it's shit like "am I going to fuck up this place/activity for her by making it awkward to be around each other in the future" e.g. the gym or other hobbies/shared interests, or "is there some implied dynamic where she'd have a hard time saying no" e.g. you're working and I'm a customer, or "will i come off as a threat" e.g. out on the trails or alone at night, or "has she been drinking," e.g. shows or social engagements, or "what am I a fucking retard" e.g. the workplace. There's a million ways to get branded a creep and it's seldom worth it. So yeah, you're going to have to be the one to say hello, because believe it or not, you have the upper hand in this power dynamic, in the sense that society exists to protect the weak (you) from the strong (me), and it's very eager to do its job.
 
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Overly Serious said:
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I don't know how you retards are reading "don't pretend to be someone you aren't to impress people" and interpreting it as "never improve".

Like, is that the only thing that motivates you? The perception of others? Do you have no intrinsic desire to better yourself? Are you telling me that if it wasn't for the sake of impressing other people you'd just be a piece of shit?

This is not rhetorical, I am asking.
 
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dick brain said:
For the record the ratio of this versus the other thing you said about rejection/humiliation/whatever is 1000:1. The fear of rejection is negligible, the main issue is that misreading a situation has real social consequences like being labeled a creep or a sex pest or a stalker. In general when I'm weighing whether I should approach someone, the concerns going through my head aren't "b-but I might get my feefees hurt," it's shit like "am I going to fuck up this place/activity for her by making it awkward to be around each other in the future" e.g. the gym or other hobbies/shared interests, or "is there some implied dynamic where she'd have a hard time saying no" e.g. you're working and I'm a customer, or "will i come off as a threat" e.g. out on the trails or alone at night, or "has she been drinking," e.g. shows or social engagements, or "what am I a fucking retard" e.g. the workplace. There's a million ways to get branded a creep and it's seldom worth it. So yeah, you're going to have to be the one to say hello, because believe it or not, you have the upper hand in this power dynamic, in the sense that society exists to protect the weak (you) from the strong (me), and it's very eager to do its job.
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> In general when I'm weighing whether I should approach someone, the concerns going through my head aren't "b-but I might get my feefees hurt," it's shit like "am I going to fuck up this place/activity for her by making it awkward to be around each other in the future" e.g. the gym or other hobbies/shared interests, or "is there some implied dynamic where she'd have a hard time saying no" e.g. you're working and I'm a customer, or "will i come off as a threat" e.g. out on the trails or alone at night, or "has she been drinking," e.g. shows or social engagements, or "what am I a fucking retard" e.g. the workplace.

Bro just don't try to pick up total strangers like a weirdo. See women as HUMANS. Talk to them as equals. Once they are an acquantance, if you vibe with each other, take it from there and shoot your shot. No drama if they are not into you at that point. It's not like anyone other than PUAs trying to sell you a course actually approaches complete strangers to try and pick them up.
 
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starfirestellar said:
Why is everyone assuming I’m fat
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Because most women are nowadays, even more than men.
starfirestellar said:
and I’m looking for a bf not for 23 guys to jump on me because I’m the only woman they’ve met
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Then you're screwed, like 30% of zoomer men between 18 and 30 are virgins.
starfirestellar said:
Being tall is not a advantage AT ALL
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Yes it is, tall women are rare, its only a problem when you're freakishly tall but even then there are men into that, but you're probably not gonna want to date a shorty dude either.
starfirestellar said:
but why is yall saying young men are desperate and available????
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Because they are, see the numbers above, see all the women predating on these men thru social media and onlyfans, the amount of zoomer men giving thousands of dollars to egirls and even literal anime avatars.
starfirestellar said:
WHERE AFE THOSE MEN
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Everywhere, problem is you're likely only looking at the top men, like all other women do now, so those men at the top get to pick and choose so they only pic the hottest women around.

Post a pic of the bare minimum kind of guy you're willing to settle for.
starfirestellar said:
If someone approaches me in class or when I’m at the library/museum it would be nice.
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Yeah tons of guys got labelled as rapists on social media for doing that.
 
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First, congrats on not living next to niggers.

Second, focus on dropping nigger speech and adopt sophisticated academic speech.

Third, don't be fat.

Fourth, straighten out your hair.

Fifth, don't color your hair and be a faggot.

Sixth, don't be fat.

Ive seen this chink chick who looks like a man and have zero female quality snatch a soy white boy & carried her marriage in a white male SUIT.

So yes. Anything is possible.

Focus on your confidence and carry yourself with dignity. Talk to men with respect and openness and there will always be someone who will find commonality with you.

I turned a conservative white dude into a conservative faggot. You can too n
 
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starfirestellar said:
next semester starts in 1 day I need to know y’all’s technique to get a guy interested.
Btw my chances r already low bc me black girl in a white ppl school and I’ve never talked romantically to any guy in my whole ass life.
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It's not me'all's technique but do not cut off your dick.
 
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