advices to get a bf

starfirestellar said:
Lmao I ain’t underage and i don’t have much social medias. I just realized that ppl here are taking that forum really seriously. All I’m writing is purposefully cringe but yall are so serious 😭 it’s all fun and sarcasm for me
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You type like a Gambian exchange student, you admitted you're Black, and are asking an extremely personal question that you should sort out on your own time. Don't dox yourself sista, best of luck.
 
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Cirrhosis_of_Liver said:
When you say "don't be fat," it's important to be clear you mean "Don't have a BMI of 69." Somebody will fuck a chunky broad, so long as she doesn't have gut flaps bigger than her boobs.
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true, but the less fat you are the more guys who will want to put their penis in you therby increasing your chances of finding a bf. of course there is a limit to being 'not fat' eventually you get anorexic levels and it starts to wing back to guys not being interested in you.
 
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If you get a rich boyfriend, get pregnant to trap him. There's totally not a special fiery pit in hell for women who put a child into an unhappy home just so they can piss away money on fashion and makeup.
 
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15 pages of pure comedy gold. All in ONE DAY :story:

How did I miss this thread. Seems the average Kiwi is totally not down with the brown, or the wamen. Unless of course one is asking for advice and a bf. Suddenly everyone is interested! Glorious.

I figure I may as well throw my 2 cents in anyway @starfirestellar . Notice me Senpai! Don't know what your social situation is. You say you are in a "White People School". Which could mean anything. I would posit however that this definition of your social situation is part of the problem. You are either consciously or unconsciously categorizing yourself as "apart" from the other students in your social environment. This may in fact be the original sin. Despite our cultures claim to the contrary, skin color does matter and it automatically categorizes you. Especially in todays polarized racial climate where being black and female automatically categorizes you based on political position. You must be Pro-Abortion, Vote Democrat, Disdain White men, and anything you get in life career or education related is a diversity quota met.

Which if you are in a moderately conservative area, would be an immediate turn off to most of the men. Regardless of skin color incidentally. My suggestion would be to find something you enjoy, be it a sport, religion, a hobby/interest like hiking, shooting, cars or gaming, and then go from there. Any sort of social interaction will inevitably bring unattached men into your orbit. Eventually one will "go for it" as it were. The trick is to not seem completely unapproachable. Good grooming and fashion sense is good too. This goes for both sexes incidentally. No woman will give her number to a stinky man with a 5 o'clock shadow my fellow Kiwicels.
 
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How black are we talking here? There’s a YouTuber named Procrastitara and she’s ambiguously black but she’s one of those “I like anime and drawing cute drawings of fruits and veg with faces on them” black nerd chicks.

Also I think your racial hangups might be a bit more influenced by the internet than you think.
 
SuperConglomerateWhale said:
This is horrible advice if you consider todays dating trends for a couple of seconds

I'm a pretty introverted and an extremely quiet guy myself. I would be head over heels if someone told me they liked me. But unfortunately that's not the case because I'm unapproachable irl.
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Which part do you disagree with? Going out more, or being on dating apps?
 
Nate Higgers said:
drawing cute drawings of fruits and veg with faces on them”
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So she's a 'jakker?
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dick brain said:
This is not rhetorical, I am asking.
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In that case, no - it's not the only thing that motivates me to improve myself. And it's more about being a good partner than impressing. Though clearly things you do for the former will naturally contribute to the latter.

But do I think the attitude of "if people don't like you, you're meeting the wrong people" is pernicious and destructive, especially to young people? Yes, I do. People aren't jigsaw pieces and they don't all just suddenly fit together with the matching piece and just have to find it. Almost every relationship involves a little compromise to be what the other person needs from you, and if you're not compromising at all, then you're likely just expecting the other person to do all the compromising. Which isn't fair.

And besides, when you take that feedback on board, it's often a good way to learn how to be a better person. Just don't compromise principles.
 
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