Trainwreck Alex Dacy / Alex Dzimtowicz / Wheelchair Rapunzel - 50% wholesome disability influencer, 50% that cash me outside girl

[Flourishing Pinecone ❧]

Alex says no, there are six adults in the house, which-- wait, there are? Mom Smith, Dad Smith, Alex, Noah, and I guess two of his siblings? I didn't even know there were two other adults there.

The photo you posted above of Ari in someone's arms, it looks like an elderly man, like over 60 years old (probably 70s) which would make them too old to be Noah's dad but could be Noah's grandfather. So there might be Noah's grandparents in the house.

 

[LonesomeDud]

The photo you posted above of Ari in someone's arms, it looks like an elderly man, like over 60 years old (probably 70s) which would make them too old to be Noah's dad but could be Noah's grandfather. So there might be Noah's grandparents in the house.

Looks like the guy has good muscle tone. Probably not 70s, or is in excellent shape. Anyone that fit is probably living alone. I'd say it's likely the dad who was about 40 when he had Noah. Might be Noah's grandpa, but that is my first read in it.

 

[glass_houses]

Looks like the guy has good muscle tone. Probably not 70s, or is in excellent shape. Anyone that fit is probably living alone. I'd say it's likely the dad who was about 40 when he had Noah. Might be Noah's grandpa, but that is my first read in it.

Forty or fifty year old fathers aren't that unusual, especially if they're cradle snatchers like mine.

 

[often puzzled]

The photo you posted above of Ari in someone's arms, it looks like an elderly man, like over 60 years old (probably 70s) which would make them too old to be Noah's dad but could be Noah's grandfather. So there might be Noah's grandparents in the house.

Looks like the guy has good muscle tone. Probably not 70s, or is in excellent shape. Anyone that fit is probably living alone. I'd say it's likely the dad who was about 40 when he had Noah. Might be Noah's grandpa, but that is my first read in it.

Forty or fifty year old fathers aren't that unusual, especially if they're cradle snatchers like mine.

For your arm debate consideration, here's Noah's dad in 2020:

 

[LonesomeDud]

Forty or fifty year old fathers aren't that unusual, especially if they're cradle snatchers like mine.

As long as he was a good dad and husband, lol.

For your arm debate consideration, here's Noah's dad in 2020:

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I guess he and Alex have their love of the sun in common. That's Grandpa's arm. He looks like a nice man. I hope he takes this do-over with Ari as seriously as he should.

 

[Flourishing Pinecone ❧]

Ha, I was actually going to add to my post "or they just have had a lot of sun exposure", that seems to be the case.

 

[The Judean People's Front]

For your arm debate consideration, here's Noah's dad in 2020:

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Jesus, forget gators. That iguana Could eat Ari.

One of the saddest things about the child services situation is that theoretically they're there to give resources and help. They generally only remove the kid in dire situations - think Trainspotting shit - but the rest of the time it's supposed to be about giving assistance and resources. Or maybe I'm totally off as I've had more experience with Adult Protective Services and obviously that works slightly differently, but my understanding is that at their core these programs are both about keeping families together and people in their homes.

Admitting she needs more help with Ari might actually get her some state assistance or a hookup to an NPO that can help or something. I mean, currently it seems they have it covered, but if her goal is to not live with The Smiths forever as she's said, then maybe accept some help? Put your pride aside for your child's sake?

As for Noah, I could see him being sober since The Incident happened. His parents seem like the non-bullshitting type and if there's a police report for him assaulting his Dad, then they aren't averse to trying to teaching their kid hard lessons (good! Although he's a fucking adult and Father a now and shouldn't need his mommy to keep him in line). I'm sure sobriety, childcare, and no BPD manipulation shit is part of their agreement for him living there with Alex (who I suspect has less rules, as they take her as part of the package for having their grandchild safely housed with them).

Edit to wish you beautiful Kiwifolk a happy 100 pages! Hopefully by page 200 Ari has driven Alex into a wall at least once.

 

[Breadbear]

For your arm debate consideration, here's Noah's dad in 2020:

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Was he in the military? That looks like an army undershirt.

 

[often puzzled]

I agree that the arm belongs to Noah's dad. Noah's mom is from England, and both her parents appear to be deceased. I haven't looked into his parents yet, but I'm not aware of any indication that they live in the house. Noah does have three siblings. One is married with children, but the other two are younger and may still be living at home. His siblings don't have the online presence that Noah does, but they appear to be normal and well-adjusted. It really looks like Noah is just a bad apple, and even good parents can have a child with issues.

From what little we see and hear, Noah's dad appears to dote on Ari, which is heartwarming. He apparently takes her for a walk around the neighborhood every morning, and Ari has been seen gazing at him worshipfully and sleeping contently on him. Noah's mom apparently doesn't want to be seen or talked about on Alex's social media, which I just take as a sign that she's sane and level-headed.

Now that we have the heartwarming stuff out of the way, let's talk about Alex and sex toys. First, though, I'll get us up to date.

Spoiler: Ari on stories

Video still. You'll have to take my word for it that she was happy in the actual video; she was bouncing so much that all of her freeze-frame expressions look odd. It's hard to believe that she was once so listless.



Text: "someone's ready for a nap."

Spoiler: new nails, hair update

Text: "alright guys here is the finished result."



Text: "I don't know how like how to do life in these." (it's transcription of her talking)



text: "my hair literally feels so much healthier."

Spoiler: wig grid post

Caption: "it's giving Daphne."

Spoiler: sex toy grid post

Teased in stories. Link to vendor's site, text reads "sign up for free vibes here."



Caption reads: "A vibey giveway! EVERYONE who signs up to my giveaway will receive either a free toy or a gift card! All you have to do is:

Click the link in my Instagram bio
Sign up with your email
See your gift from @ / bellesaco

100% discreet shipping & billing. Ships worldwide. Tag someone who deserves a vibe! # / partner"

Interesting mix of comments. She does seem to be losing some supporters. Haters continue to hate. Some defend her.









Image:

Spoiler: Bellesaco

Bellesaco Instagram account stats:



A look at their grid:



Alex shared a "personalized" link, aka some kind of affiliate link. It goes here:

I'm not at all savvy enough to know how this influencer stuff works. She hashtagged partner but didn't say it was an ad or sponsored, for whatever that may be worth. From a glimpse at this company's social media, it appears that getting influencers to do a free vibe giveaway is a big thing for them, and they give away many vibrators a day. I wouldn't be surprised if her payment was the free vibrator itself, but I really don't know.

She and her fans accuse people of not liking this because they're prudes. I think it's more the mixed messages, the baby photos interspersed with vibrator photos, and also the fact that she just had a CPS visit (again). It's just kind of the whole thing.

NOAH WATCH: I hope he's taking the vibrator pictures and that she isn't making his parents take them.

 

[Barbarella]

he and her fans accuse people of not liking this because they're prudes. I think it's more the mixed messages, the baby photos interspersed with vibrator photos, and also the fact that she just had a CPS visit (again). It's just kind of the whole thing

Agreed. Plus the whole thing about her not being able to wipe her butt, shower or do any self-care-along with being broken up with Noah. So who wants to think about how she’s managing that device?

It’s all so NOT a #vibe.

 

[often puzzled]

I've got quite a few days of Alex content backed up; not sure how that happened. She didn't do anything major, but she's teased Halloween stuff, so maybe she'll end the month with a bang. Here's hoping she doesn't put Ari in an inappropriate Halloween costume. I've got grid posts and story posts, and she did post another YouTube video (more nontent).

Spoiler: Noah fists a pumpkin

Still. Video at end of post, under spoiler.

Spoiler: Ari posts from stories

Editor's note: Ari. Is. So. Stinking. Cute.



Text: "I can't express how much this human is loved by me. My daughter, my world."

Spoiler: grid post: feeding Ari

Text: "One of my favorite things to do with Ari is feed her and figure out what foods she likes, currently she is absolutely loving avocado avocado is great to feed babies that are developing at this age because they are high in iron and fats that they need!"



Still. Full video, which is worth a watch, under spoiler at end of post.

Spoiler: grid post: Lord Farquaad

Text:

"Rebranding from wheelchair rapunzel to Lord Farquaad

Kidding. Still in disbelief that I chopped off my hair.. honestly I’m not mad about it!

During my pregnancy, my hair thinned and became brittle — plus I colored it a lot & essentially it became very damaged.

Feeling very refreshed with my new cut

Also, I want to thank everyone who has subscribed to my YouTube channel, I am excited to keep posting videos and have fun editing! It has been a really fun hobby for me. When you start a new platform, it is always very exhilarating… & yes, I have had my YouTube for five years, but I really wasn’t posting regularly until this month!

Thank you to everyone who has been on this journey with me for the past several years "





There were a ton more pictures, but they were snapped off back to back and are just more of the same.



This one is about one inch away from being the full OnlyFans experience, and I did not consent.

Spoiler: story selfies

Text read "Morning biz meeting."

The video is called "I live with my ex-boyfriend's parents | talking about my living situation."

• We get to watch the haircut. Noah has no idea what he's doing and uses desk scissors. She's obviously not pleased with the result. He says very little and is offscreen.
• Lots of chit chat about the hair. Not interesting. She does show herself trying to use a comb on it, and it's not something she can really do. She can't hold her hand in the way you usually would to comb your hair-- you can see the same issue in the screenshots of her eating and manipulating a fork.
• Moves to her feeding Ari with Ari sprawled on her stomach like a seal as Alex attempts to force a bottle in her mouth. She admits that this isn't comfortable. Can't imagine it's comfy for Ari, either.
• Singsongs: "your mom is feeding you and driving you around in a dirty wheelchair!" And she is scooting around as she feeds Ari, and she's mocking things that people have criticized her for. Might as well display the CPS number on her video and cut out the middleman. And no, no one should call CPS about this. But will they? Welcome to the internet.
• Moves to the garage, which is hyper-organized. She credits Noah's dad but marvels at how organized everyone in the household is and how smoothly everything runs. It's actually kind of depressing to see her go on and on about how organized and efficient the house is, because we know she grew up in chaos and a nasty house. It's obvious that she's truly never seen a house like this before.
• Also says the house is like a Costco, because they always have whatever you could possibly need and know exactly where it is.
• Says again that it's really different for her to be in a household with a lot of people, since she grew up as an only child.
• Note from editor: there are toys for bigger kids in the garage. The Smiths already have a couple of grandsons from their oldest son (older than Noah), and they apparently keep toys and such in stock for when those kids visit.
• More about her hair. She's not happy with the cut, obviously, even if she pretends to be.
• Says people criticize her for putting her kid (transcript reads "k") on the internet and that CPS has been called 4 times (I think it's more than that now?). Defends herself and says she has "a right to create content and make content about being a mom."
• Starts yapping about trolls again. The usual.
• Says she told Noah's dad that she wanted him to organize her future house.
• Skips to showing her nails, which she says always have crud under them. Shows her nails-- and yes, they actually do have visible crud under them. Ew. She describes them as "crusted."
• Shows the press-on nails from Walgreens. Puts them on (off-camera, I assume because someone did it for her) and says she can barely operate her chair with these.
• Helpfully clarifies that she does not wipe her own butt, so that's not an issue. Yes, she did say that.
• Goes on about her oily skin. Goes on about her content. It's just rambling.
• Starts talking about her nostrils. Says she doesn't know why they're so big now and that they weren't always. Says it's maybe the BiPap, maybe that your nose just keeps growing as you age, maybe it's genetics.
• Rambles about nose piercings. She must be trying to make this long enough for ads.
• Says she loves Florida. SMA causes poor circulation, so she's always cold. Therefore, the Florida climate suits her.
• Ends with shots of her struggling to eat macaroni and cheese in a restaurant. Open mouth chewing, yay. Struggles to chew, struggles to get fork in her mouth. I assume this unnecessary display is because people don't like to watch her eat. Maybe she could be ODD buddies with Chantal.
• Fin.

Spoiler: video info

Spoiler: some video comments

Spoiler: haircut stills from video

Desk scissors. Her O face?

Spoiler: feeding Ari stills from video

Spoiler: garage chat stills from video

View of the hyper-organized garage. Wonder how the Smiths really feel about having this chaos gremlin in their space?



Text is pros of the haircut. They are: "healthier hair, less maintenance, less work, lighter disabled head."

Spoiler: bits of the transcript

Spoiler: nail talk from video

The "crusted" nails are visibly nasty-- that's actually what she's showing on purpose.



The press on nails.

Spoiler: nostril talk from video

Spoiler: eating in video

Does she kind of chew off to one side?

Spoiler: video: Noah fists a pumpkin

Spoiler: video: Alex feeds Ari

 

[SpiceyHuman]

Not letting me quote, but she looks absolutly grotesque in the most recent videos.

And I am not talking specifically about her disability.

Her attitude is repulsive. Her crusty ass fingernails. Her slack jawed, cow chewing cud mastication.

Its also so obviously hilarious she completely regrets the haircut and is trying to rationalize all the benefits of doing so.

Even if you have extremely damaged, hay like, frizzed out hair, you do not need to chop it all off. Get the edges professionally trimmed, and start a deep conditioning treatment plan at least 1-2 times a week. Continue getting the edges trimmed maybe half an inch per month. Invest in some leave in conditioner or hair oil and within a few months your hair will be fine.

 

[Flourishing Pinecone ❧]

Starts talking about her nostrils. Says she doesn't know why they're so big now and that they weren't always. Says it's maybe the BiPap

no shit Sherlock, what else is it going to be? is she really this dense?

 

[glass_houses]

Even if you have extremely damaged, hay like, frizzed out hair, you do not need to chop it all off. Get the edges professionally trimmed, and start a deep conditioning treatment plan at least 1-2 times a week. Continue getting the edges trimmed maybe half an inch per month. Invest in some leave in conditioner or hair oil and within a few months your hair will be fine.

The issue here is that someone else needs to do this for Alex, it's not something she can do herself. She needs someone to take her to the hairdressers, and she needs someone to put the treatment in her hair and wash it back out again. Noah is BPD, and they can barely look after themselves at the best of times, and on top of all that, there's a bub/soon to be toddler that he has to contribute to at the very least. Alex's hair is the last thing that anyone has to think about.

 

[For The Internet]

Because I can't directly reply:

I'm not at all savvy enough to know how this influencer stuff works. She hashtagged partner but didn't say it was an ad or sponsored, for whatever that may be worth. From a glimpse at this company's social media, it appears that getting influencers to do a free vibe giveaway is a big thing for them, and they give away many vibrators a day. I wouldn't be surprised if her payment was the free vibrator itself, but I really don't know.

It depends on the platform as to how strictly they enforce FCC regulations regarding disclosures of paid content. On Youtube they're pretty strict about enforcing it. Instagram is a bit more lax. TikTok is basically the wild west and the FCC guidelines haven't caught up to bring it properly in line.

The idea is that you have to make paid content explicit, so that it is clear and obvious to anyone watching the video/looking at the post that it was paid content. This includes things like hashtags like #ad and #sponsorship but the word influencers love to use is 'partnership'. In a video it's not enough to just hashtag, you're supposed to verbally state that the content is an ad or sponsorship and in some cases add visual disclaimers.

Influencers do all they can to avoid using those terms because 'partnership' is more ambiguous than terms like ad or sponsorship. A partnership doesn't always imply that someone is promoting something in exchange for money or free products. In turn, that makes it seem more like they're promoting the product because they love it and so naive followers will trust them and buy what they're shilling because they don't realise they're being paid to praise it.

Typical influencer shit includes burying the required hashtags at the end of a long string of other hashtags so it's not easily visible, not putting visual disclosures in videos (or if they do, making them appear as unobtrusive as possible and for just a second or two) and if they're not on youtube, straight-up just not verbally disclosing either.

Sex toy companies like Adam & Eve often sponsor influencers, but it's unlikely she was given free products as payment. She would have been paid and also given product she was contracted to use in her social media promotion.

 

[The Judean People's Front]

SMA causes poor circulation, so she's always cold.

She's always cold, yet always dressed like someone pulled a fire alarm and she had to evacuate before she could find a shirt and pants.


Holy Basal Cell Carcinoma, Batman!

I know Alex acts nonchalant about her skin damage, so I hope she goes through the inevitable MOHS forehead flap surgery nonchalantly.

Spoiler: This is really stupid, don't read it

Recently I watched a lot of the American Horror Stories anthology series; I don't recommend this unless you have someone to laugh about them with because they're truly terrible. One of the stories is called "Bestie" and aside from being really stupid and pointless it features a manipulative character with gross physical deformities who I thought kinda reminded me of someone but I couldn't place it - until I started watching the new videos and my husband said "gross, her voice sounds like that deformed chick in AHS." And my friends, it's like EXACT. I'd link to an example but FX seems to have that shit locked down. Don't go try to watch it, it's so bad, but anyway. End sperg.

 

[often puzzled]

Alex unveils Ari's Halloween costume. To my personal surprise, it's not a baby stripper costume or something equally inappropriate. We don't get to see much of Ari in her costume, because Alex is too busy posting herself. I have some TikTok live stuff that I'll post when I figure out the best way to do that.

Related question: does anyone have tips on how to view TikTok lives on desktop, without an account? I love you guys, but I'm not downloading that app.

On a completely unrelated note: switching to the Netherlands seems to help with the current site accessibility issue. Just FYI.

Spoiler: misc story stuff

That's definitely either a takeout OJ or a restaurant. Text reads "freshly squeezed."



Looks like fun, but someone has to do this for Alex.





No idea who this is in the chair. Also can't tell if the chair is hers or if she's just sitting in Alex's chair for some reason.



I don't think it's Noah's sister, but I'm not good with faces. For reference, here's Noah's sister (from mom's Facebook) from 2021:



Back to stories: a still from a random video that was filmed at this angle. No explanation given but probably related to the party she apparently attended later.

Spoiler: Halloween costumes: Noah, Alex, Ari

Text: "Ari's first Halloween." This is actually cute for a family costume idea.



Text: "dressed up with mom & dad!"

Spoiler: Halloween grid post

Caption: "meet the Flintstones." She posted Noah to her stories but not to her grid. Make of that what you will.



So we have four pictures total. All four have Alex. One has Ari. Two have randos.

Spoiler: grid post

This was posted a few days ago, so before the Halloween stuff.

Caption: "being your mom is the best thing I'll ever do."





Still from video of her driving around with Ari. The normally-smiling baby was not smiling.

edit: I've got the TikTok live stuff. It's coming up but will be a separate post. Complete trash fire, and I hope the Smiths dump her in the desert.

 

[often puzzled]

Apologies for the second post. This one covers her TikTok live from Saturday night (her time). There was another from Sunday morning (her time), but that one will come later. I'm doing a second post for clarity and because it's image- and video-heavy: the site sometimes hangs up if I try to deal with too many attachments.

She went live on Saturday night in Noah's parents' garage, where she spends a lot of her time. She appeared drunk and denied it at first but later confirmed she'd hate one-- no, two-- White Claws (alcoholic beverage). She was slurring and having noticeable trouble swallowing (which has been happening a lot lately).

I'm relying on Reddit for the summaries and for the video clips, because TikTok doesn't like you to view lives without an account. They also don't appear to be saved anywhere (or maybe she's choosing not to save them). Redditors screenrecorded and uploaded the whole thing, so shoutout to them. I'm going to upload the clips here as well, just because the long-term existence of subreddits and Reddit accounts is always in question. Kudos to them for the archive work: this is just an archive of the archive.

But first, there are several users on her sub that also have SMA. Their general attitude is understandably "my god, we are not all like this bitch," which is understandable. They often come through with medical insights, and several of them have recently expressed a lot of concern about her swallowing difficulty. Alex doesn't seem to go to medical appointments herself very often and has been known to neglect her own care. Here's a bit about that:





Now, on to the live!

Spoiler: part one

Alex is drunk in the garage but says (at first) that she's only drinking Spirte. It's very obvious that's not the case. Says she wants to have more babies.



Says "people drop their babies all the time." Ma'am. Reddit takes this as confirmation that Ari gets dropped. I certainly can't disagree.



Asks: "why do you guys keep asking where my frigging baby is?"



They're not exaggerating. It takes multiple swallows for her to get down even a small sip. Denies she needs thickener for her liquids.



This was just funny. Someone in the live chat asks if she sleeps in the chair. Redditors theorize that they just throw a blanket over her, and she falls asleep like a bird. I laughed, because I'm a bad person.



Finally shows the White Claw. First says she has one, then says it was two. Actual number is anyone's guess.



She'll have to wake someone up when she wants to come out of the garage and go to bed. Charming, very considerate.

Spoiler: part two

During part of the live, she was live with someone who goes by Lil Daddy (not Noah), who she apparently knows IRL? And was maybe one of the people she'd been out partying with? I was confused about this. At any rate, he says she's definitely drunk and that he's seen her "pretty shitfaced" before. He tells stories about about how, in the past, the cops have made him take her home because she was too drunk to manage on her own. He implies that she and Noah are not actually broken up, and he thinks they're working on it and "getting back to normal." Whoever Lil Daddy is, he should tell us more.



Admits to the White Claws, compares herself to Jake Paul. Great.



Pauses live, looks like she's about to be sick. Tries to send a viewer $5 via Venmo but is unable to do so. This may mean she's got no cash, or it could mean she was too drunk to manage.



About to hurl? Screenshots also via reddit.



She confirms she was at a party prior to going live, so it's a safe bet that she's really drunk. Someone hears a noise that sounds like fluid hitting concrete. Did she pee herself?



Redditors think there's someone offscreen. If it's Noah, seems safe to bet that he's drinking too. hashtag recovery!



There's a TikTok battle. These sound very stupid.

Spoiler: part three

More about the battling. Announces that she's going to talk about her "shit life" on live. Much gratitude. Says she's "disabled and hot."



Begs for gifts (monetary rewards) on TikTok. Says she'll give the dirt on Mikey if she wins. This would be extremely stupid, because Mikey already has all the dirt on her (some of which he's shared).



Caption on her drunken TikTok: "I'm a mom." A mom who's drinking alone in a garage, that is.



Someone asks who will get up with Ari in the morning, since she's getting sloshed tonight. She says it'll be Noah.

Spoiler: part four: BRIEF SUMMARY

Someone did a nice summary of the live:

Spoiler: party five

More about the swallowing.



Says she makes too much money to qualify for WIC, which seems pretty unlikely. People ask if her previous (alleged) fraud could affect her WIC eligibility. My guess is she's too dumb and lazy to apply and doesn't care because the Smiths are footing the bills.



Venmo doesn't go through.



Says she hasn't dropped Ari because "Noah and I are, like, overly cautious about that baby." That baby. Mom of the year!

Spoiler: part six

More about swallowing. Says her parents were heartbroken when she left Chicago. Some guy named Travis was with her on live, and she keeps trying to get him to take his shirt off.



More about WIC eligibility. I do think it varies by state, so personal experience may or may not apply.



More about the possible fraud. There's also the question of whether or not she's taking Ari to the mandated appointments (required for WIC).



Someone notes things about the live that are odd remarks.



Announces she's a single mom with a "shitty life." No gratitude. It may be shitty, but you don't say that out loud.

Spoiler: first four parts of live

I have the whole thing but am afraid to upload too much at once, in case I break this whole website. I'll upload the rest when I cover the other live (which won't be today). This kind Redditor screenrecorded and edited the whole damn thing, so props to them. I'm not trying to steal their content-- just provide an additional backup, since it's entirely possible that Alex could report them or something similar.

 

[SpiceyHuman]

I didn't realize her swallowing was that bad.

Shes on borrowed time for a feeding tube. How the fuck does she eat?

 

[Barbarella]

I watched a couple to see what the swallowing problem is. It’s not just swallowing drinks, it’s the normal swallowing we all do every minute. She’s having major problem. I’d consider it a medical emergency at this point. I just don’t know if there is a fix. They can tube for nutrition what about for normal saliva swallows. How scary.