Trainwreck Alex Dacy / Alex Dzimtowicz / Wheelchair Rapunzel - 50% wholesome disability influencer, 50% that cash me outside girl

[Mum'sTheMunchie]

Ari appears to be developing some fabulous baby chunk! Those cheeks and baby rolls are actually comforting, I know there are so many concerns about her development. You can watch on mute, Alex is blabbing away at Ari in her ear drum busting voice

This not a mom, who spent one second on a maternity floor, sees a neglected, starving, and abused infant in the first insta story. They find it so hard to watch Ari just wasting away, neglected and abused (you are all aware that neglect IS a form of abuse, right?). This person spent a second on a maternity ward in nursing school and has not had a child. But TRUST them when they say that Ari is neglected ( a form of abuse)

 

[Simon]

Ari appears to be developing some fabulous baby chunk! Those cheeks and baby rolls are actually comforting, I know there are so many concerns about her development. You can watch on mute, Alex is blabbing away at Ari in her ear drum busting voice
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This not a mom, who spent one second on a maternity floor, sees a neglected, starving, and abused infant in the first insta story. They find it so hard to watch Ari just wasting away, neglected and abused (you are all aware that neglect IS a form of abuse, right?). This person spent a second on a maternity ward in nursing school and has not had a child. But TRUST them when they say that Ari is neglected ( a form of abuse)
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That's a cute baby. And jesus these Redditards are grasping at straws.

 

[glass_houses]

Ari appears to be developing some fabulous baby chunk! Those cheeks and baby rolls are actually comforting, I know there are so many concerns about her development. You can watch on mute, Alex is blabbing away at Ari in her ear drum busting voice
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This not a mom, who spent one second on a maternity floor, sees a neglected, starving, and abused infant in the first insta story. They find it so hard to watch Ari just wasting away, neglected and abused (you are all aware that neglect IS a form of abuse, right?). This person spent a second on a maternity ward in nursing school and has not had a child. But TRUST them when they say that Ari is neglected ( a form of abuse)
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Ah... don't babies 'play' with their mouths? They don't have any strength or coordination in their arms or legs yet, so they purse their lips and wiggle their tongues, and in general learn to operate their facial muscles and jaw.

 

[Mum'sTheMunchie]

That's a cute baby. And jesus these Redditards are grasping at straws.

I think most of the moderate snarkers have been driven out

Alex gained more attention just before Ari was born and the reddit group exploded with members. People who were like "yeah Alex sucks and seems like a narcissist but... you're really, REALLY reaching with this comment/post" were downvoted and driven out.

All that remains is mass hysteria. Though for a group of 16k, they don't get a lot of reactions and comments on posts. People might be there just to follow Ari and not engage in the hysteria

Edited, I had 15k before, it's now up to 16k members

 

[No thanks I’m good]

Lol. Bitchtits says "I'm not high, I have mental health issues. How do you want me to act?". How about normal? I've never seen a "man" "dance" like that. He looks so dumb. Got a terminal case of whititis. That being said, I wish that he'd do it more. It's hilarious! Does he think it makes him look cool?

More and more I'm thinking that Alex is a beard. She'll never be able to keep up with his extracurricular "activities". She's perfect for somebody still deep in the closet. He can't get it up? Must be ableism. Stays out late? Dealing with her disability. Dick smells like poop(ugggghhhh)? Alex will never know, she can't get down there anyway.

No straight man has an onlyfans where he's on his knees winking his chocolate starfish at the camera. But it's just him and all the... (gestures broadly) that makes feel this way. That "man" will be a "woMan" within 2 years.

Fuck you Noah. Stop stringing Alex along. She's still too naive to realize any of this. Give her a little real life and she will though. She will.

He’s never been in shape but he Definitely looks like shit now. Between his tit shaking , lady hips and his desperate attempts to pop his body into a grotesque jiggle reminiscent of a shitty gay stripper , I’d say you’re spot on.

y’all let me know when the betting pool starts on noah being a troon,

oh and Alex run for the hills, your spawn doesn’t deserve to look back at this one day and wonder why you stayed with such a piece of cluster b junkie scum.

 

[Gaga]

Sorry I just noticed the pic is blurry. I screenshotted a video.

Is it just me or is baby Ari way to small for this babybjörn? Looks like she’s about to fall through.

PPD is brutal. Hope she’s getting help.

What is PPD?

 

[glass_houses]

What is PPD?

Postpartum depression. It's a combination of post pregnancy hormones fucking up the brain, stress, and chronic sleep deprivation. It can pass in a month or two, or linger for years gradually getting worse and worse. In rarer and more spectacular cases, it can evolve into Postpartum Psychosis, where the mother becomes so disturbed she starts to hallucinate.

So much can go terribly wrong with human pregnancy and birth, but having PPD or PPP after having a healthy baby with no complications, is proof that there is a God and he fucking hates us.

 

[Gaga]

Postpartum depression. It's a combination of post pregnancy hormones fucking up the brain, stress, and chronic sleep deprivation. It can pass in a month or two, or linger for years gradually getting worse and worse. In rarer and more spectacular cases, it can evolve into Postpartum Psychosis, where the mother becomes so disturbed she starts to hallucinate.

So much can go terribly wrong with human pregnancy and birth, but having PPD or PPP after having a healthy baby with no complications, is proof that there is a God and he fucking hates us.

I she feels better soon

 

[Oracular Slug]

Sorry I just noticed the pic is blurry. I screenshotted a video.

Is it just me or is baby Ari way to small for this babybjörn? Looks like she’s about to fall through.
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Yes, clearly she’s just wasting away. No one has ever fed her. Those adorable chubby cheeks are, uh, um, well clearly Alex is a terrible parent! /sarcasm

Ari’s adorable and I hope there’s at least one adult in her life who’s actually looking out for her best interests.

 

[SpiceyHuman]

Postpartum depression. It's a combination of post pregnancy hormones fucking up the brain, stress, and chronic sleep deprivation. It can pass in a month or two, or linger for years gradually getting worse and worse. In rarer and more spectacular cases, it can evolve into Postpartum Psychosis, where the mother becomes so disturbed she starts to hallucinate.

So much can go terribly wrong with human pregnancy and birth, but having PPD or PPP after having a healthy baby with no complications, is proof that there is a God and he fucking hates us.

Theres also the wonderful PPA, post partum anxiety. When I had my first boy, I developed this and it was absolute hell. I was convinced something terrible and irrational would happen to my baby and he would die. I couldn't even let anyone else hold my baby because I had convinced myself they would drop him (intentionally, of course) and his head would shatter. And of course, because I didnt trust anyone to watch or hold my baby, I was doubly exhuasted because I was scared to ask family members for help while I was recovering from post partum issues.

I don't wish any of the Post Partum spectrum disorders on anyone, even the narcs. And I really wish there wasnt a stigma on getting help if you need it. Pregnancy hormones really can wreak havoc on your mind.

 

[LonesomeDud]

Imagine being so miserable it ruins your day for some woman you don't know to enjoy her baby. That's pretty funny, actually.

I enjoy the "Alex wants her baby to suffer, starve, and die" narrative because it's so insane. In the mine of a Redditor, a mother can only be a most virtuous Virgin Mary or an evil whore who just wants to eat babies Lilith style to rustle Redditor jimmies.

 

[Poop Shoot]

I don't wish any of the Post Partum spectrum disorders on anyone, even the narcs. And I really wish there wasnt a stigma on getting help if you need it. Pregnancy hormones really can wreak havoc on your mind.

An ugly little statistic they don’t like to mention is that 38% of ppd/papa cases are permanent. And that fucking sucks.

 

[ZB927]

Theres also the wonderful PPA, post partum anxiety. When I had my first boy, I developed this and it was absolute hell. I was convinced something terrible and irrational would happen to my baby and he would die. I couldn't even let anyone else hold my baby because I had convinced myself they would drop him (intentionally, of course) and his head would shatter. And of course, because I didnt trust anyone to watch or hold my baby, I was doubly exhuasted because I was scared to ask family members for help while I was recovering from post partum issues.

I don't wish any of the Post Partum spectrum disorders on anyone, even the narcs. And I really wish there wasnt a stigma on getting help if you need it. Pregnancy hormones really can wreak havoc on your mind.

Man, I remember my own freak-outs well. Wanting them out of my body and into the world because of all the things that can go wrong in there (cord around the neck, eclampsia, failing placenta, etc.) but then realizing that so much more can go wrong out here and wishing I could put them back in the relative safety of my womb but then still freaking out about how it could have gone wrong in there, and around and around. I too don't wish that on anyone. Absolute, torturous hell.

 

[Bakarina]

The hospital I gave birth at would encourage evaluations for post partum disorders, especially if you have a family history of them. Counselor would come in, ask if you'd want one and if it was a good time for you, and just talk for about 15-20 minutes. Afterwards, they'd leave pamphlets about options and tips on what to do (plus phone numbers in case you needed to call someone).

Thing is, you can give everyone all this information but sometimes the person suffering doesn't realize something is wrong. Being a parent -especially a first time parent- is difficult. I thought it was normal to feel exhausted but the feeling of sinking further under water and being unable to free myself wasn't something I realized was happening until it stopped when the bub was 3 months old and I went back to work.

 

[Barbarella]

I don’t know who is taking care of Ari; Noah, caregiver or both. But they are doing a fine job, she’s looking good, chunking up and growing normally. Since Mom probably gets plenty of sleep, I’m sure she’ll recover from PPD quickly. Noah on the other hand, may need to find some adderall. He may be on day AND night duty.

 

[glass_houses]

So, I just remembered that this thread exists. Has anyone been keeping up with Alex? I can't stand either Tic Tok or her voice, one makes me want to stab out my eyes and the other makes me want to stab out my ears, so if some brave soul could update that would be brilliant.

 

[often puzzled]

So, I just remembered that this thread exists. Has anyone been keeping up with Alex? I can't stand either Tic Tok or her voice, one makes me want to stab out my eyes and the other makes me want to stab out my ears, so if some brave soul could update that would be brilliant.

Ask and ye shall receive! I'd been curious myself and had previously tried to view the Reddit to see what was up, but I didn't follow half of what was going on. I never followed her in any capacity before this thread (wasn't even aware of her), so I really don't know her deep lore and was apparently lacking context to understand the Reddit discussions. I really hope the usual updaters for this thread come back once we've returned to clearnet.

I hope the mods don't kill me, but I'm going to update over multiple posts and may end up double-posting. I've had such iffy luck with image uploads that I don't want to try to squeeze it all into one post. All these updates are strictly from her Instagram grid: I don't follow her, so I'm out of the loop on her Instagram stories (which is apparently where she posts a lot of dodgy stuff when she's been drinking). I started to screenshot every picture on her grid but quickly realized that there's just too much.

The posts I'm sharing go from most recent to least recent, so beware of confusing chronology. The "Nana" who is visiting is Noah's mom. She was apparently drunk in some recent Instagram stories, but I don't know details about that. I'm hoping our more Alex-literate regular posters can fill us in.

Spoiler: most recent Instagram post, hair stuff

Alex gets her hair done for the first time since her pregnancy. Her "uterus [is getting] accustomed to unhousing life." She says that gestating Ari brought new life (Ari's) but sapped her own (Alex's) vitality. Multiple pictures of gettin' her hairs did, one picture of Ari-- who is a cutie-- at the end.











That's a cute facial expression on Ari.

Spoiler: next Instagram post, with Nana

I didn't screenshot all the photos from this post, because Alex post a lot of pictures that are just of herself. I get that it's her account, but she really doesn't take photos of much of anything else. Anyway, we all know Noah, and the older woman with the blonde hair is his mom, aka Nana. Nana has been visiting and, in the way of grandmothers everywhere, rarely seems to put Ari down.



Someone in the comments asked what these things were, and I was curious myself and looked up the bar. It's Bar Mar in the Bank of America Tower in Chicago. They have a whole bunch of cones-- caviar cone, $12/each; hamachi cone, $8/each; bagels & lox cone, $7/each-- so I guess it's one of those.



Nana and Ari. I have no idea if Nana is somehow problematic or not and again hope that the regular posters will be more informed. For all I know, she could be a total trainwreck of a person who made Noah in her own image. Or she could be the embodiment of sweetness and light-- I really don't know, and of course you can't tell from Instagram photos.



Alex and sleepy Ari.

Spoiler: next post, beach trip

People in the comments worrying about sun exposure, as did Reddit. There was only this photo.

Spoiler: next post, Rapunzel in a tower

That first comment is VERY VERY LONG. Noah is helping steady Ari while Alex "holds" her, I think? She seems to have missed making any cracks about being Rapunzel in a tower, which is just a missed opportunity.





Is it just me, or does Noah look less strung-out that usual in these photos? Maybe his mom has a calming influence.





Second City is a (renowned) comedy club.





Again, he looks more with it and together, at least to me. She always kind of looks the same, but faces also aren't my thing, so I could be wrong.

Spoiler: next post, eww

I don't like the PDA posts.



I sometimes lose sight of how physically small she is, but you can really tell when she's sitting on him like this.





I had to see this, and so do you. I hope Nana didn't take this one.

Spoiler: next post, more Nana

Some comments referencing the drunken story. There's also apparently some question (at least on Reddit) about why his mom hasn't visited before now. The "batbenner" person seems potentially insane.



Sweet photo.

So, that's some. Uploading the images was slow, but I'll be back later with more from her Instagram. I do get the impression that her Instagram is the curated images, and the more unfiltered (exciting) stuff happens in her Instagram stories and on TikTok.

Apologies again for making this into more than one post and posting back-to-back. I'm just not having great luck with uploading.

These are still in backwards chronological order. This is part 2 of what I posted above, essentially. I think her comments are probably a goldmine, but I didn't delve too deeply. You often see people reference things that don't appear in her grid, like drunken posts (I assume they're story posts). Lots of references to online bullies-- talking about Reddit, of course. At a very superficial glance, no one mentions this site.

This set includes a sponsorship and clapbacks, plus all the usual stuff. Lots of people in the comments are telling her what she's doing wrong, which is pretty typical for motherhood in general. People in the comments reference videos of her being drunk, which are apparently separate from the videos of her being drunk that people were talking about in my previous post.

Spoiler: first post of batch

"Nasty bullying," comments about how to support Ari's neck.



I liked the first comment, and more pleas to support Ari's neck.

Spoiler: next post, "disabled motherhood"

Nudity, plus some comments. It's not so much that skin to skin contact is weird; it's more that posting lots (and lots) of nude photos to your extremely large Instagram audience that includes the deviants who pay for your OF content is pretty questionable.

Spoiler: next post, holding Ari

bae caught me slippin'

Spoiler: next post, Ari throwback

We've seen this entire video before, when it was originally posted.

Spoiler: next post, clapback

She can never decide if she wants to be the poster girl for disabled motherhood (see posts above) or if she doesn't represent anyone but herself and so on.



She says it's a cropped top and shorts. Could've fooled me, and I can see why anyone would have the impression that she's shopping in her undies.

Spoiler: next post, "holding" Ari

I love that Ari appears to be having an infant existential crisis. I'd be interested to hear what the experienced parents and caregivers have to say about the way she's holding Ari. You can also see the dog in the background of a couple of these, so he's still around.

Spoiler: next post, with Noah and friend/caregiver

I swear she wears skintone clothes on purpose, so she looks naked at first glance.



I think, without being sure, that "megs.barth" was one of the people who was with Alex the night Ari was born and was possibly the one who updated for Alex. I can't remember if we know if she's doing any caretaking duties or if she's just a friend. Alex blurs those lines, and it gets confusing.



Aww, sweet photo.





Looks like the dog and Ari both do well with this person.



Noah and Alex got flak in the comments (and probably on Reddit) for feeding her in the carseat and at this angle.

Spoiler: next post, Ari at birth vs now

She's really come along!

Spoiler: next post, more nudity

Mother's Day and a please to stop giving "mom's" unsolicited advice. Welcome to motherhood, Alex.

You cannot possibly tell me that posting this with the barely-blurred nipple was done with pure intentions.





I agree with the comment above: this just doesn't exactly to compare to skin to skin or breastfeeding when you consider the context of how it's being presented. There's a linktree in her Instagram bio that goes to her OnlyFans, for crying out loud. And these pictures are more of Alex than of Ari. And I am going to remove them from my computer ASAP.

Spoiler: next post, Alex in a pool, healing update

Back on twerk juice, vague health update, reference to DCFS visits.

Spoiler: next post, Ari is 2 months old-- lots of Ari pics

People in the comments note that the way she's wearing the dress makes it look off-the-shoulder

Spoiler: next post, more Ari pics

From a video: Noah is reading Green Eggs and Ham to Ari, complete with turning the book around for her to show her the pictures on each page.

Spoiler: next post, sponsored content and an interesting video

I need to figure out how to grab this video. If anyone has any recommendations for the best way to do that from Instagram, please let me know. Anyway, it's interesting because you really really see how little function she has in her left hand. She's trying to dab the product on Ari and can only make a stab at it. She often tries to portray herself as being very capable of caring for Ari, but, as anyone can see here, she's not capable of doing much of anything. I know we knew that, but seeing it does drive it home. She either normally tries to hide how little she can do with her left hand, or it's just not something you notice because she automatically never uses it.

 

[Friend of Dorothy Parker]

Nana and Ari.

The first photo, followed immediately by one of Alex, reveals an uncomfortable resemblance between them.

Possibly unrelated, Noah looks so feminine sometimes. Maybe it's the shortish shorts and soft thighs combo, I don't know.

 

[often puzzled]

Miss Dacy can't go five seconds without a controversy. Since I last posted, she's managed to draw more ire. This time, it's because she posted a video of herself driving her wheelchair alongside a pool with Ari wrapped in a sling that's tied around Alex and then around the back of her wheelchair. In other words, they're both tied to the chair.

The post:

The text (the remainder of the caption is under the spoiler, with the comments):





In the picture above, you can see the tying arrangement I was trying (probably unsuccessfully) to describe. As you can also see, she's tooling around the pool at her apartment.

Spoiler: comment bonanza

Remainder of the post, beginning of comments.



This person seems to know what they're talking about and presents her information in a non-confrontational way:



Some random criticisms, plus some butt-kissing:



More criticisms, plus YOU ARE TOTALLY GOING TO DRIVE INTO THE POOL AND KILL EVERYONE I'M CALLING CPS NOW NOW NOW THIS IS SUICIDAL BEHAVIOR OH MY GAWWWWD. The second comment is interesting, though: there were apparently cans of "drink" (beer, I guess-- I didn't see what drink it specifically was) under Ari's seat. Classy.



Another person who speaks knowledgable and politely. This person offers a valid critique:



More safety concerns:

Spoiler: Ari pics

I know Ari has her fans, so I've been screenshotting those photos. I skipped taking shots of Alex's selfies, because there was nothing new there.



I noticed in other pictures that she has redness and flakiness between her eyes. Looks like eczema? Nothing major, of course, just an observation.

Spoiler: Alex claps back

You may have a weak neck, but Ari is a baby. She really needs to talk to some other parents; she doesn't seem to realize that you're never going to do anything right as a parent. Someone's always going to have something to say, and that multiplies a thousandfold when you've got a social media platform.



This was a story of her talking, and I just took a shot. In it, she says she "finds it interesting" to see what people latch onto to critique-- each time she posts a video or picture, she says, it's always something. People were concerned about her steering a wheelchair with baby Ari tied in as she drove next to the pool, and she says she's been doing this her whole life and has never yet piloted into a pool. Basically, she knows what she's doing.

I'm not sure she really understands that the concern is the added factor of having a baby in the picture. Sure, you do what you want, when it's just you, but a baby generally makes you more cautious (we wish), and having a wiggling, living human tied to your chest adds a different and unpredictable element to the equation.

Alex continues to make questionable choices and continues to be surprised that everyone knows best when it comes to childrearing.

Spoiler: a very short Q&A

She says she'll answer questions, provides a box, and then answers only two.



The first, which I'm sure she totally didn't send to herself:



Second, generic question about SMA:



Then there's no more. I guess she didn't like the questions she got, or perhaps she had beer with that Mexican and zonked out. Or both.

In short: the Internet overreacts, but Alex also makes bad choices.

 

[Octopi]

Uhh, I swear there was a story a while back where she did (nearly?) drive her chair into a pool while shitfaced.

Edit: not quite how I was remembering it, but for posterity:

Bonus:
Alex is in the pool, drunk, falls backwards and would have hit her head if her friends wouldn't have caught her. The next day she doesn't remember a thing because of how intoxicated she was, but she's good.
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