Trainwreck Alex Dacy / Alex Dzimtowicz / Wheelchair Rapunzel - 50% wholesome disability influencer, 50% that cash me outside girl

[Gaga]

Has it been confirmed via scans/testing that the twerk juice didn't cause complications in the baby? Sorry if I missed this in the thread...I have a primal fear of birth defects and this has been on my mind since I found out about this horrorcow (that's what she is imo).

I think she said before that she stopped taking it, as you can’t take it during pregnancy.

But she doesn’t seem very bright her sketchy at home IV service surely could’ve.

 

[Alamo basement dweller]

Has it been confirmed via scans/testing that the twerk juice didn't cause complications in the baby? Sorry if I missed this in the thread...I have a primal fear of birth defects and this has been on my mind since I found out about this horrorcow (that's what she is imo).

I asked the same recently and from the info I gathered, they can confirm that the baby does not have SMA and she does not have any major birth defects. Unfortunately, there are plenty of birth defects that can’t be clocked via ultrasound so it’s anyone’s guess until the little one is here.

 

[But What About The Frogs?]

A small part of me really, truly, genuinely wants this family to turn out all right and healthy. Give me my rainbows but I really do hope for everyone's sake that the two manage to get their shit together.

... But the bigger part of me knows it's just not going to happen. It's heartbreaking to know a child is being so carelessly brought into this world.

Time flies when you're concerned for someone else's unborn child, I guess. It's almost time.

 

[LonesomeDud]

Well, Kiwis, we called it.
BPD boy did indeed run many miles away and is partying it up, off his little melon on whatever substances he can score. Rehab my ass, sure he was inpatient on those videos, mmhmmm.

Meanwhile Alex is still spinning the narrative that he's the love of her life (his stuff is still in the wardrobe guise he totally still lives there), despite him confessing that he was a paid caregiver that humped her.

Holy balls. Such milk.

T minus 1 day until delivery.
May Godbear cherish and protect you dear Ari, because your parents have clearly never given a fuck about you thus far, and likely never will.

It is funny.

Purely saying it for the sake of saying it because it's not like Ari will ever read it, nor anyone who will ever care, but Ari is a special person. She has survived whatever physiological effects of the darling parents' idiocy has had on her, which was undoubtedly not insignificant.

God willing, she'll grow into someone who's a bright spot in this absolute mess. It would be a shame for her to go through so much in her life and have so much against her not to be the hero in her own story. I wish her well. I can't say I care about the outcome of her parents, beyond its effects on her.

 

[sorrycharlie]

Has it been confirmed via scans/testing that the twerk juice didn't cause complications in the baby?

I think she said before that she stopped taking it, as you can’t take it during pregnancy.

Sonograms appear normal, but they can’t see everything. A big risk with risdiplam is reproductive impairment, which might be hard to catch until she’s born or even later.

Women who take risdiplam need to take birth control the entire time they’re on it, and for a month after. If they plan to get pregnant, they need to stop taking it at least a month before. Alex claimed to have stopped taking it as soon as she found out she was pregnant, which is, what, 7–8 weeks?

So Alex stopped taking her birth control, Noah literally said “fuck condoms,” Alex potentially took her “twerk juice” for three months longer than she should have, and now here we are. She claims now that her doctors never told her any of this, because they’re ableist pigs who think disabled people can’t have sex or get pregnant, but that’s not true. She was warned. These are screenshots from a Reddit post (original, archive) that I didn’t see here; apologies if these are stale.




I also caught something funny on her subreddit before it was deleted. First, here is the original comment that led to the post (original, archive):

Spoiler: I went to college with Alex

Have to post this in the comments due to not having enough Karma to post on the page.

I went to college with Alex

I stumbled upon this subreddit randomly and it is awesome. I went to the same college as Alex and saw her out at the bars every weekend. She was an awful person and the people she surrounded herself with only encouraged her. I feel bad that she was dealt a shitty hand at life but that doesn’t automatically make you a saint.

My group of friends and I (all males) were walking out of a packed bar one night and and she was in the way of the exit, her chair was sticking out. I didn’t see her, due to it being so packed and me not looking down to see her chair. I whacked the absolute shit out of my shin and almost fell down. I got up embarrassed of kicking a disabled girls chair and immediately starting apologizing to her. She went off saying I was an asshole and a shitty human implying that I attempted to assaulted her. Her friends surrounded us calling me all sorts of names, demanding that I buy her a drink for being so rude then calling security over when I refused. I would have offered to buy her a drink out of guilt but after her initial reaction I said fuck that. Luckily the bouncer was a good friend of mine and saw the whole thing go down and told her and her friends that he saw it and it was an accident. They started calling him names and once he threatens to kick them out they stopped.

We also had a nickname for her: Hot Wheels

She was notorious for getting belligerently drunk and crashing her scooter into things, which always was funny to see. We didn’t feel bad laughing about it after that night.

I had a few more interactions with her during my time, if you enjoyed this let me know! I don’t mind sharing them.

Then, he made a post, which was later deleted by mods for ableist language (original, archive):

Spoiler: I went to college with Hot Wheels

Looks like I now have the karma.

Since my comment about going to college with Alex was very popular, here’s another story. It’s my favorite story to tell from college also.

This took place 2 years after tripping over her chair at a bar:

HW = Hot Wheels (Alex)

One Saturday my friends and I were out at the bar. My girlfriend saw HW by her self scooting around looking like she was too drunk, gf was in school to be a special ed teacher so she wanted to make sure she was safe and ok. Gf goes up to her and asks if she’s ok and needs water. HW was coherent and said she’s fine, just cruising around the bar looking for guys and says that those guys are hot and wants to talk to them (point to my group of friends). GF being kind says that’s my BF and his friends I’ll introduce you.

So HW rolls up and we introduce ourselves, myself giving her a second chance after my first interaction with her, and HW focused on my one friend. We’ll call him A. A is genuinely a nice person but also a really funny. So he talks with HW to entertain her and be nice (can’t be mean to a person in a wheelchair). HW is super aggressive right off the bat asking him if he was looking to go home with anyone tonight. A plays it off well saying he’s got a gf. HW gets offended pulls the cripple card and tells him “I like my guys built like footballs players with rock hard abs, you’re not my type anyways”.

A whispers in my ear “good I like my girls with working legs anyways”. I have to walk to the bathroom to laugh cause I WAS NOT EXPECTING him to say that. I come back and A was talking to our group and HW rams into the back of his ankles saying “I’m not done talking to you”. All of us are like A you’re stuck with her for the night good luck.

She hung around with us for the rest of the night, she kept up the aggressiveness towards all of us. She said “none of you could handle me in bed”, she was super raunchy too. We start to leave talking about our plans for the after party. We hit the liquor store across the street to grab beer. Walk outside and HW is waiting at the curb for us. I should mention she was drinking Long Island ice teas like it was water all night at this point she’s is sloshed. Now we’re concerned and we ask her where she lives. She named or apartment complex so we, being nice and concerned, offer to walk her home to make sure she gets home safe.

As we’re approaching we ask her what building she’s in and she started to stumble on her words (we start to realize she’s lying about living there at this point) and she blurts out a townhome building number. One of our buddies was from another country (FF) and was very blunt, also annoyed we had to babysit her all night, and yells at her “Bitch I know you’re lying there’s stairs on both sides of that building”. She confesses that she overheard the after party and wanted to joint. FF then goes “well it’s on the third floor and we’re not carrying you up there. You can’t take a hermit crab out of its shell”

All of us are trying to keep it together from that and again offer to make sure she gets home safe but she refuses saying that we’re discriminating against her for being disabled and scoots away into the night swerving all over the side walk. We watch her for a bit to make sure she’s going in the direction of where she said she actually lives, she swerved off the side walk a few times too.

We got back to our place and laughed about the whole night and how crazy she is. Confirming that just because you’re disabled doesn’t make you a saint.

Whenever we are together this story gets brought up and it’s one of my groups favorite memories from college.

All I can say is poor little Ari.

 

[AssignedEva]

I'm not looking forward to this thread when I open it this time tomorrow.

Did we find out if that TV show is actually going to film her?

 

[Jimmy Dean Bowl]

A small part of me really, truly, genuinely wants this family to turn out all right and healthy. Give me my rainbows but I really do hope for everyone's sake that the two manage to get their shit together.

... But the bigger part of me knows it's just not going to happen. It's heartbreaking to know a child is being so carelessly brought into this world.

Time flies when you're concerned for someone else's unborn child, I guess. It's almost time.

I, and a lot of people here, feel that the further Noah is from Ari the better.
He is completely unstable, potentially dangerous and can only bring harm to her.
Addiction has its own set of issues, and he is a consistently relapsing addict. Combining that with Borderline Personality Disorder results in a person not at all equipped to deal with the stresses a newborn will place upon him.
A perfect storm for a shaken baby or other abuse, as other Kiwis have worried about throughout this thread.

So while I wish I could be as optimistic as you about the family being together, in reality I think that would be the worst thing for all involved.

 

[A tree]

16 hours. Good luck bebe. Alex has said they won't update for a while after the birth until both of them are stable so who knows when we will actually get news. Alex herself may be out of it but presumably will instruct her caregiver to update social media at some point.

 

[LonesomeDud]

I, and a lot of people here, feel that the further Noah is from Ari the better.
He is completely unstable, potentially dangerous and can only bring harm to her.
Addiction has its own set of issues, and he is a consistently relapsing addict. Combining that with Borderline Personality Disorder results in a person not at all equipped to deal with the stresses a newborn will place upon him.
A perfect storm for a shaken baby or other abuse, as other Kiwis have worried about throughout this thread.

So while I wish I could be as optimistic as you about the family being together, in reality I think that would be the worst thing for all involved.

I think I probably have one of the most liberal views about Noah, but I would love to see him in Ari's life after a year of sobriety. It takes your brain about a year to reset its dopamine regulation after addiction, and he's a young healthy guy. Get some physical job where he's outside and great shape; get him in church volunteering in a shelter/soup kitchen/food bank as a hobby. If he does it for a year and puts his heart into it, I think he could be a guy worth being around, but I don't think rehab alone will do that for him. All rehab will do is give him a tight leash until he should theoretically be able to get a grip on himself so he can start to do the work. Rehab doesn't fix people; it just lets people get to a point where they can be fixed, IMHO.

 

[TheCakeIsALie]

I think I probably have one of the most liberal views about Noah, but I would love to see him in Ari's life after a year of sobriety. It takes your brain about a year to reset its dopamine regulation after addiction, and he's a young healthy guy. Get some physical job where he's outside and great shape; get him in church volunteering in a shelter/soup kitchen/food bank as a hobby. If he does it for a year and puts his heart into it, I think he could be a guy worth being around, but I don't think rehab alone will do that for him. All rehab will do is give him a tight leash until he should theoretically be able to get a grip on himself so he can start to do the work. Rehab doesn't fix people; it just lets people get to a point where they can be fixed, IMHO.

I would love for Noah to get better. I have a soft spot for addicts. The issue is that he a personality disorder. BPD is a hell of a thing to have and it takes some intense dbt to make progress.

We also don’t know the dynamic between Alex and him. It could be Alex is a trigger for him and that they’d be better off separate, but co parent. I dont see her as a kind and supportive partner.

 

[Ivan Daniloff]

I would love for Noah to get better. I have a soft spot for addicts. The issue is that he a personality disorder. BPD is a hell of a thing to have and it takes some intense dbt to make progress.

We also don’t know the dynamic between Alex and him. It could be Alex is a trigger for him and that they’d be better off separate, but co parent. I dont see her as a kind and supportive partner.

It's very sad. It doesn't seem likely that he'll have the time/resources to commit to outpatient DBT (3 sessions per week; it's intense). BPD softens as people get older, for the most part, whether due to acclimation or physiology or both. But Noah is a kid, in BPD terms. If it's an accurate diagnosis (BPD is frequently misdiagnosed), he's at an age where his BPD will be peaking for the next decade or so ie, the most important years of his child's life.

 

[LonesomeDud]

I would love for Noah to get better. I have a soft spot for addicts. The issue is that he a personality disorder. BPD is a hell of a thing to have and it takes some intense dbt to make progress.

We also don’t know the dynamic between Alex and him. It could be Alex is a trigger for him and that they’d be better off separate, but co parent. I dont see her as a kind and supportive partner.

I'm hopeful that because so much of BPD looks like addiction and vice versa, the BPD is a misdiagnosis. I'm at least as likely to be wrong as I am right, but I think the cautious optimism that after a year of sobriety that we'll have good evidence he can do this isn't totally out there.

 

[Chongqing]

Addictions to stimulants (specifically something like Adderall that can be taken daily while the addict still has some semblance of function) are identical to BPD diagnosis. It seems like, usually after they get clean, they grow out of the black and white thinking.

 

[Quack_Quack]

I think I probably have one of the most liberal views about Noah, but I would love to see him in Ari's life after a year of sobriety. It takes your brain about a year to reset its dopamine regulation after addiction, and he's a young healthy guy. Get some physical job where he's outside and great shape; get him in church volunteering in a shelter/soup kitchen/food bank as a hobby. If he does it for a year and puts his heart into it, I think he could be a guy worth being around, but I don't think rehab alone will do that for him. All rehab will do is give him a tight leash until he should theoretically be able to get a grip on himself so he can start to do the work. Rehab doesn't fix people; it just lets people get to a point where they can be fixed, IMHO.

Hell if he gets help and gets clean, stays clean and gets therapy I think he could be a decent dad. He has potential, it's just smothered

 

[A tree]

Hell if he gets help and gets clean, stays clean and gets therapy I think he could be a decent dad. He has potential, it's just smothered

Sizing Noah up against the "recovering junkies and assorted waifs and strays I have had stay here in a trailer and do paid yard work for us to give them a chance to get back on their feet scale" he reminds me most of the one with FAS who is still out there kinda trying his best and hasn't been back to jail but never properly clean and I had to kick him out because he was abusing pharmaceuticals. He calls me every so often to offer me a scrap vehicle or something. Never stolen just life stuff. I think absent of Alex and this situation Noah could probably recover to that level of being a silly little retard taking his meds bimbling around listening to his rap music able to do odd jobs for people and have his own trailer and not being a nuisance to society but the difference is that Noah is a spoilt rich boy with an enabling family and now a toxic disabled social media famous ex and a possibly disabled baby hes responsible for and that all goes against his chances.

 

[Gaga]

Ofc Noah is nowhere to be seen.

 

[Jane Eyre]

It's 5am by Alex and she's up already and about to soon head to the hospital. Paige tagged in the videos below will be the one giving all the updates and she's also baby A's godmother. Alex had to prepare for the delivery by taking a shower with an antiseptic soap and it's the first time in 3 weeks she's had a proper shower. Up until now she's only had bed baths because it's been too uncomfortable for her to be lifted up.

 

[Gaga]

It's 5am by Alex and she's up already and about to soon head to the hospital. Paige tagged in the videos below will be the one giving all the updates and she's also baby A's godmother. Alex had to prepare for the delivery by taking a shower with an antiseptic soap and it's the first time in 3 weeks she's had a proper shower. Up until now she's only had bed baths because it's been too uncomfortable for her to be lifted up.
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She's been prepping for surgery and hasn't showered in three weeks??!!!! EEUUUUWWWWWWW. It's becoming more and more evident that she won't be able to care for Ari the way she thinks she will.

 

[SpiceyHuman]

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Ofc Noah is nowhere to be seen.

Why the fuck is she always nekked fr it's just so unsettling.

 

[Gaga]

Why the fuck is she always nekked fr it's just so unsettling.

HAHAHAHAHAHAHA true. I think she said she finds wearing clothes uncomfortable during pregnany, but she's always been this way.

If I was her caregiver/assistant I would feel really awkward and uncomfy, dude (Alex favorite word).