Trainwreck Alex Dacy / Alex Dzimtowicz / Wheelchair Rapunzel - 50% wholesome disability influencer, 50% that cash me outside girl

So , kind of by accident like with penicillin? That is actually interesting.
Ah, I correct myself slightly - the Nursery Sister was taking babies into the sunshine outside!

"Sister J Ward was in charge of the Premature Baby Unit at the hospital and believed in the benefits of fresh air and warm sunshine over the confines of a stuffy incubator. She would take babies outside on warm summer days, bringing them in quickly before the consultants were doing their ward round. During one of these rounds, a Dr Dobbs noticed a triangular patch of skin on one of the jaundiced babies which was much more yellow than the surrounding skin. Dr Dobbs asked about this, to which Sister Ward replied she thought it might be an effect of the sun. Upon further interrogation, she confessed that she’d been taking the babies outside, and it was actually that the baby was less yellow than before: the triangular patch was where the sheet had covered the baby"

and then this was paired with what was seen in the lab:

"... a pathologist, Dr. Perryman, who noticed that a vial of blood left in the sun had turned green. Drs Cremer, Richards and Dobbs put together these observations,[29] leading to a landmark randomized clinical trial which was published in Pediatrics in 1968; it took another ten years for the practice to become established."
 
It BLOWS MY MIND that he didn’t really try, even with a wrangler to be there
Really? I'm completely unsurprised by this. If anything, I wonder if he's privately relieved to have been well out of it — he clearly has no sense of the meaningfulness of what he's missing, or the long-term implications of having made this child. BPDs tend to be pretty immature and emotionally stunted anyway so it's no surprise that he's got bigger dramas on than the birth of his first kiddo, really.


No. He should have to live with the shame of what he's done as long
I know you well enough to know you mean the shame of having missed the birth, but my unkind brain at first read this as the shame of having knocked up Alex in the first place! That or the shame of having sent that paltry single flower with a non-hamdwritten note with it (:_(

I wonder how long before she can't stop the twinges of regret at picking this prince as a sperm donor creep in at the edges of her payche.

As someone a page or two back said, she doesn't yet seem to grasp or at least publicly acknowledge that she's functionally a single mum from hereon. While she will have to deal with that soon enough, I hope she can keep all that at bay for a few days and just enjoy the fact that she and Ari have come out of this intact. I can't stand her but also I hope she's blissed the fuck out rn with her new bebe, and the cognitive dissonance is killin me.
 
I want to show the last few pages of this thread to the people who claim the 'Farms are wishing genocide on trans/disabled/etc people 24/7. Bless y'all, we're a bunch of softies really.

I know Alex said her current care assistant was willing to look after both her and the baby, because she had prior experience as a nanny or something. It's far from my area of expertise, but I feel like nannying is worlds away from (effectively) singlehandedly caring for a newborn and a physically incapacitated grown woman...
 
I know you well enough to know you mean the shame of having missed the birth, but my unkind brain at first read this as the shame of having knocked up Alex in the first place! That or the shame of having sent that paltry single flower with a non-hamdwritten note with it (:_(
I meant really just the whole failure at being a man: Choosing drugs over his child, taking advantage of a disabled person, not managing his own virility with condoms, not taking responsibility for his life or Alex's. Does that help?

Edit: It's not that admitting she is his child is inherently shameful, but it seems wrong to me that a man can have a child and walk away, and be permitted any plausible deniability for his actions. If Ari didn't have his last name, I feel like it allows room for Noah to deny she's his daughter, and that personally offends me.
 
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Unless theres something wrong, wouldnt she at least be producing her colostrum? Or is it different with a preemie and they need the extra nutrition right away? All my babies decided to stick around a week or so later than delivery date so I honestly dont know :(
Depends on the person, actually! But yes, it isn't uncommon for premie mothers to struggle having enough milk, even weeks after, because premies are hard on the body for both the fetus and woman.
 
Alex got to hold Ari for the first time and we also get to see her face for the first time.
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On IG stories Alex shared posts from different people congratulating her. There were around 10 posts like the one below. She posted also a video taken right after they extubated her.
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The big announcement that Alex hinted at earlier (not related to the birth) is a partnership with Focus Features who produced the movie Champions that will be released in theaters on March 10. Alex bought out an entire theater in Chicago for a screening this Wednesday, so people can just reserve a ticket for free and see the movie.
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Part of noahs live from last night. He says hes coming back in a week all fixed from his crippling ADHD medication and kratom addiction.
Sure buddy.




Re the movie Alex didn't buy out the theatre the company is doing these screenings across the country. Alex announced the paid promo differently on tiktok and insta knowing one platform will check and one won't.
She's just using the traffic to her pages because of baby Ari to get paid. Exploit that baby from day one. The movie is about mentally disabled people which Alex isn't.

Here's Alex mocking mentally disabled people. She does that a lot.
 
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Ari is cute! I’m happy for them, and totally in awe of the human body + modern medicine.
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Studies in 2000 and 2007 in Evolution and Human Behavior showed that most newborns actually tend to resemble the mother, but mothers were more likely to say the opposite:
During in-hospital visits, mothers were significantly more likely to ascribe resemblance to the domestic father than to themselves. This bias was exaggerated in the presence versus absence of domestic fathers. Yet, judges matched photographs of these mothers to their newborns significantly more frequently than they matched domestic fathers to newborns. Thus, the bias in how mothers remark resemblance does not reflect actual resemblance and may be an evolved or conditioned response to assure domestic fathers of their paternity. The low rate with which newborns are matched to fathers may be biologically significant. Concealment of paternity may be favored when suspicion of cuckoldry leads fathers to abandon or harm newborns.

This 2018 study from the Journal of Health Economics found that newborns who do look like their father are better off a year later:
Data from the first two waves of the Fragile Family and Child Wellbeing study indicate that infants who look like their father at birth are healthier one year later. The reason is such father–child resemblance induces a father to spend more time engaged in positive parenting. An extra day (per month) of time-investment by a typical visiting father enhances child health by just over 10% of a standard deviation.
 
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Noah went live on IG last night (my time) and he said he had gotten a little gift from his mother, based on his description of it - this could be it.
So the gift that we were mocking him for sending Alex turned out to be a gift for HIM? He sent Alex NOTHING, not even a single flower?
Stunningly self centred behaviour. I really hope he's not serious when he says he's coming back in a week.
 
I got kicked out of my halfway house three times, knocked up a woman with severe disabilities the second night we met, became her full-time paid caregiver, spent her money on drugs, and missed the birth of my firstborn, and all I got was this shitty t-shirt Edible Arrangement.
 
I got kicked out of my halfway house three times, knocked up a woman with severe disabilities the second night we met, became her full-time paid caregiver, spent her money on drugs, and missed the birth of my firstborn, and all I got was this shitty t-shirt Edible Arrangement.

It‘s not even the type of edible he’d prefer.
 
Smith is such a common name it wouldn’t be obvious to anyone who her dad is… Alex might’ve not given her her last name as it’s going to be obvious her mom is WR, and I don’t think Alex is such a big fan of her last name since she goes by “Dacy”
 
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A name you have to spell out and pronounce a million times in your life is a hassle. I’d go with Smith too. Especially since it’s so common and doesn’t have to be tied to Noah. . She did her daughter one small favor.

She could have gone with Dacy though. I don’t know if it’s required that you put a parents name as last name, or if you can just start fresh?
 
Soo..... do you think anyone warned her that she'd still have all the post partum bleeding and the giant clots from her Vajayjay, despite having a c-cection?

Or just that there is super heavy bleeding for up to anywhere from 4-8 weeks after is considered *normal*... and it WILL be happening.

I say this not to say she's stupid, but because I know many first time Moms who are shocked by how much blood they shed post partum, and a few who firmly believed it would all be "like vacuumed out by the Dr" during their section. Ladies who are well educated with many friends and family who tried telling them otherwise. Alex seems stubborn enough to just pretend it won't happen.

Heaven help the caregiver. I'm praying they've also hired several nannies.. ie night/ day shift bc she obviously can't do squat right now and after surgery she'll be more than a handful alone. Her poor Mom is probably getting roped into raising a 2nd generation, that's hard.
My sister-in-law wore Depends for the first week or so, on the advice of many people, and she had two uncomplicated vaginal births.

That Ari has tubes is not unexpected, for being a 33-weeker. She's probably on oxygen, and may have a feeding tube if her sucking reflex isn't fully developed yet.

ETA: Back in the day, parents were advised to give their babies a daily "sun bath" to prevent jaundice. Baby care books up to the 1970s recommended it.

As for the baby's name, I also remember a family in my area from Thailand, whose names were each about 15 letters long, and they had a baby boy whom they named Ronald Smith. I definitely remember that - Ronald Smith.
 
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Couple of new pics of Ari, one showing off the comedy that is Alex's wheelchair tattoo. Just why? It's not like you'd need reminded that you're in a wheelchair...
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Also just realised I've been phoneposting pics wrong like a spaz, now doing proper thumbnails so as not to give Dear Feeder apoplexy)
 
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