Amberlynn Reid - 600 pound pathological liar and U-Haul lesbian moving in with her next live-in maid/nurse/girlfriend.

[Awkwafina]

I'm unsure where the idea that women are easier marks for social parasites like AL comes from. If you're a disordered person like AL, everyone's a mark. If she was jadedly altering her sexual preferences in order to have access to people who are willing to take care of a massively obese woman who won't work and is a spendthrift, she'd be bisexual because there are definitely as many caretaker men out there as there are caretaker women and it would double her pool of prey.

Men take plenty of shit in relationships. Think of how many weak-willed and lonely men there are out there. Think of all the captain save-a-ho types, all the dudes who tolerate extremely unpleasant women because they watched their dads do it. There are memes about those men that are akin to the U-Haul lesbian memes. AL is huge, but there are men who like huge women. AL would have far more economic security if she went on a fat dating site and nailed down a dude who would want nothing more from her than that she eat and lounge around. Such men are generally not captains of industry but chances are they will make more money than someone like Becky and are going into the relationship knowing that AL will primarily be a consumer in the relationship.

If anyone here recalls Quirky Rosie, she was a body positivity girl around AL's age who is massive and ugly to boot. People discuss whether or not AL is pretty but compared to Rosie AL is a beauty queen with the taste and carriage of a queen. Rosie is unattractive, has visible fungal skin growths from not showering, weighs over 500 pounds, and has the charm of a dirty litter box but she went online and landed herself a whale lover and moved across country to be with him. AL could do that well very easily because although it seems like these huge women are everywhere, women AL's size are still relatively rare and most of them are not that fat so young. They bulk up after years of marriage and childbearing. Men who want a super-obese young woman have far fewer options than you might think and will tolerate lots of nonsense to obtain one (those who are keen observers of the fatosphere can likely think of other online famous fatties who are foul human beings who landed a man - Amber Sarah also comes to mind - over 600 pounds, crazy, useless, personality disordered and ugly and she never is without a man for long). A young, childless woman AL's size could also find some lump of a country boy who loves her for who she is inside and would let her sit around the house in some sort of misguided chivalry.

Men are as willing to tolerate and enable AL's shit as much as any woman.

Because it's scientifically proven that women are easier marks? There's a reason lesbians move in together so quickly and there's a reason lesbian bed death is a thing and it's because women are wired differently than men. You're naming women who WANT men to date. This is AL, her first time was with Destiny, and the men you're talking about are fetishists who would require a sexual relationship with her. Just because she's manipulative and had a horrible attitude, she's still clearly demonstrated her limits and that she has a comfort zone. She would have to specifically go out looking for the men who want a woman her size which would require her admitting her actual size.

You're trying to say she could find a man and that the theory of her just being with women is wrong except again, the women you're naming are women who admit their size and find men because of it. AL meets these women online which enables her to establish an emotional connection and cheat her way with angles that make it look as if she's thinner. By the time they meet in person there's already an emotional connect and a "love" between the two that carries their relationship until the girl can't take it anymore and finds someone else. You couldn't do that with a man. There's a reason most men cut the fatties on catfish off after they find out they're a fatty because regardless of the emotional connection men don't put up with as much shit as you're claiming they do - especially for someone who's unattractive AND fat. It doesn't happen. Women get more fullfilment out of the emotional love that AL is able to give them and will put up with her for far longer because of it. I'm pretty convinced she actually only had sex with Dustin because Dustin's sex drive seems like it's rather high judging off of her tweets abt Dana. She seems like she's really self conscious and she can't even do anything fancy or interesting except missionary. Bottom line is any man wouldn't want nor put up with her: she's an emotional mindfield, obese, and relatively unattractive. Any one of those is something that I think a guy could overlook, but all three??? Nah. Any self respecting PERSON shouldn't have to deal with that. However she can fandangle and manipulate herself into relationships with women because they're literally scientifically proven to be easier than man due to the way she operates and manipulates. It's just the way it is.

 

[Token_Texan]

Because it's scientifically proven that women are easier marks? There's a reason lesbians move in together so quickly and there's a reason lesbian bed death is a thing and it's because women are wired differently than men. You're naming women who WANT men to date. This is AL, her first time was with Destiny, and the men you're talking about are fetishists who would require a sexual relationship with her. Just because she's manipulative and had a horrible attitude, she's still clearly demonstrated her limits and that she has a comfort zone. She would have to specifically go out looking for the men who want a woman her size which would require her admitting her actual size.

You're trying to say she could find a man and that the theory of her just being with women is wrong except again, the women you're naming are women who admit their size and find men because of it. AL meets these women online which enables her to establish an emotional connection and cheat her way with angles that make it look as if she's thinner. By the time they meet in person there's already an emotional connect and a "love" between the two that carries their relationship until the girl can't take it anymore and finds someone else. You couldn't do that with a man. There's a reason most men cut the fatties on catfish off after they find out they're a fatty because regardless of the emotional connection men don't put up with as much shit as you're claiming they do - especially for someone who's unattractive AND fat. It doesn't happen. Women get more fullfilment out of the emotional love that AL is able to give them and will put up with her for far longer because of it. I'm pretty convinced she actually only had sex with Dustin because Dustin's sex drive seems like it's rather high judging off of her tweets abt Dana. She seems like she's really self conscious and she can't even do anything fancy or interesting except missionary. Bottom line is any man wouldn't want nor put up with her: she's an emotional mindfield, obese, and relatively unattractive. Any one of those is something that I think a guy could overlook, but all three??? Nah. Any self respecting PERSON shouldn't have to deal with that. However she can fandangle and manipulate herself into relationships with women because they're literally scientifically proven to be easier than man due to the way she operates and manipulates. It's just the way it is.

I actually think that there are guys who would fetishise AL and put up with her for the sake of that. The thing is, I think AL is more comfortable being the abusive one in the relationship. She has some "sex isn't everything" videos, (possibly insecurities, or her rabidly declining health has left her with 0 sex drive and she thinks since she's cool with that, her partners should be cause her feelings are the only ones that matter to her.) I think she thinks she's too good to be in a feeder/feedee relationship, though. I'm not sure what scientific research you've come across that states women will tolerate more, but it's not that men who will be abused and manipulated don't exist, trust me, they do. I guess blue collar guys have more financial opportunities and independence than women, though. Maybe the number of women for her to use and abuse is higher, but I don't think a guy who's like dustin or someone would be too much harder for her to meet.

I'm not sure about her sexuality but I definitely think that you're onto something about her having a comfort zone. AL is a creature of bad habits. The first person she got with was a lesbian so maybe she thought only girls would like her? Or that girls would be more sensitive and understanding of her body? Then she dated Krystle and she found how easy autistic people were to manipulate and stuck with what's worked for her before. These are just speculations, of course. I can't demystify the bizarre behaviors of someone as profoundly fucked up as AL, but the patterns are definitely there and documented.

 

[phatbabezzz]

No more weightloss journey. I give her two more years. Tops.

 

[JayBlue]

I feel like actual LGBT YouTubers talk about their sexuality and use it to educate others, like sharing personal coming out stories. There is a HUGE difference between lesbian YouTubers and AL. I feel like AL is a "lesbian" out of convince. She needs a woman to be her caretaker and an enabler. I'm not saying that men don't do that, I'm just saying that women are more likely to be nurturing.

Also I don't want to think about a 500 pound girl and a 250 pound girl having sex. AL probably can't even wash her vagina which is beyond gross. Ok I made myself I'm done.

 

[pozilei]

New video

Summary:
- sharing her 'weight loss journey' is too hard for her because people gave her shit for eating corn (or rather: pointed out that corn is mostly starch and adding it to a soup full of rice and pasta and other starchy stuff isn't as healthy as she thinks it is but I'm getting sidetracked)
- people don't believe her when she claims she lost weight, this was unmotivating to her
- Weight loss is no longer a journey, it's her life
- she inspires people

tl/dr(or watch): she's not going to talk about her weight loss anymore because....reasons.

Eh, she's going to be back to talking about weightloss in about 2 weeks because what else has she to talk about? Chokers, her pets and a girlfriend that doesn't seem to want to be in her videos?

 

[Awkwafina]

I actually think that there are guys who would fetishise AL and put up with her for the sake of that. The thing is, I think AL is more comfortable being the abusive one in the relationship. She has some "sex isn't everything" videos, (possibly insecurities, or her rabidly declining health has left her with 0 sex drive and she thinks since she's cool with that, her partners should be cause her feelings are the only ones that matter to her.) I think she thinks she's too good to be in a feeder/feedee relationship, though. I'm not sure what scientific research you've come across that states women will tolerate more, but it's not that men who will be abused and manipulated don't exist, trust me, they do. I guess blue collar guys have more financial opportunities and independence than women, though. Maybe the number of women for her to use and abuse is higher, but I don't think a guy who's like dustin or someone would be too much harder for her to meet.

I'm not sure about her sexuality but I definitely think that you're onto something about her having a comfort zone. AL is a creature of bad habits. The first person she got with was a lesbian so maybe she thought only girls would like her? Or that girls would be more sensitive and understanding of her body? Then she dated Krystle and she found how easy autistic people were to manipulate and stuck with what's worked for her before. These are just speculations, of course. I can't demystify the bizarre behaviors of someone as profoundly fucked up as AL, but the patterns are definitely there and documented.

I never stated that research said women put up with more than men lol. It's like 20 year old research that states that women are wired differently than men when it comes to relationships. I'm on mobile and too lazy to look for it but it's literally common knowledge now. Women get more out of and feel more fullfilment from emotions than man do. That was my point of the post. It's not about whether she COULD find a man. She could. I never stated she couldnt. It's about the fact that AL as a person is incredibly manipulative and hides in her comfort zone. Her comfort zone is being the dominating one in the relationship and being in an establish emotional relationship as well. Men are incredibly intimidating and uncomfortable to someone like AL because of the power level she needs in a relationship. Everyone she's dated she's met on an app or online and that's because she can hide her true weight and her awful personality, too.

Bottom line: could she find a guy? Yes. Will she find a guy? No. Because again, it's proven that the way AL finds these relationships does not work for men. Even if she did connect with a guy on an app, he'd want to meet sooner then she'd be comfortable with, the whole thing goes on. It's about her needing to be the dominant one and going by her needs and her timeline. Men, even feeders and fetishistis, don't do that shit. They're almost always extremely doninant and the opposite of what AL is looking for. And as it's been pointed out earlier, she says incredibly homophobic things. As a lesbian she should be celebrating her butch girlfriend wanting to carry a baby and instead she makes incredibly heteronormative and homophobic comments essentially saying that because Dustin is the man and she, AL, is the woman (which is in itself problematic in a gay relationship) that she would be the one to carry and it'd look weird if Dustin did it. I don't know why people are arguing she's a TRUE AND HONEST lesbian. She's really not that's just the truth. All the evidence points to her being with women simply because she can be.

 

[Country Matters]

tl/dr(or watch): she's not going to talk about her weight loss anymore because....reasons.

Eh, she's going to be back to talking about weightloss in about 2 weeks because what else has she to talk about? Chokers, her pets and a girlfriend that doesn't seem to want to be in her videos?

I don't doubt she'll be back to talking about it eventually, but has she ever officially taken a break from talking about weight loss?

I mean there'd be times where she just wouldn't talk about it but I can't remember if this is the first time she's made an announcement like this

 

[Dog Prom 3D]

Because it's scientifically proven that women are easier marks? There's a reason lesbians move in together so quickly and there's a reason lesbian bed death is a thing and it's because women are wired differently than men. You're naming women who WANT men to date. This is AL, her first time was with Destiny, and the men you're talking about are fetishists who would require a sexual relationship with her. Just because she's manipulative and had a horrible attitude, she's still clearly demonstrated her limits and that she has a comfort zone. She would have to specifically go out looking for the men who want a woman her size which would require her admitting her actual size.

You're trying to say she could find a man and that the theory of her just being with women is wrong except again, the women you're naming are women who admit their size and find men because of it. AL meets these women online which enables her to establish an emotional connection and cheat her way with angles that make it look as if she's thinner. By the time they meet in person there's already an emotional connect and a "love" between the two that carries their relationship until the girl can't take it anymore and finds someone else. You couldn't do that with a man. There's a reason most men cut the fatties on catfish off after they find out they're a fatty because regardless of the emotional connection men don't put up with as much shit as you're claiming they do - especially for someone who's unattractive AND fat. It doesn't happen. Women get more fullfilment out of the emotional love that AL is able to give them and will put up with her for far longer because of it. I'm pretty convinced she actually only had sex with Dustin because Dustin's sex drive seems like it's rather high judging off of her tweets abt Dana. She seems like she's really self conscious and she can't even do anything fancy or interesting except missionary. Bottom line is any man wouldn't want nor put up with her: she's an emotional mindfield, obese, and relatively unattractive. Any one of those is something that I think a guy could overlook, but all three??? Nah. Any self respecting PERSON shouldn't have to deal with that. However she can fandangle and manipulate herself into relationships with women because they're literally scientifically proven to be easier than man due to the way she operates and manipulates. It's just the way it is.

I'd love to see the research that shows that women are easier marks when it comes to supporting useless partners in long term relationships. (This sounds snarky but it's not intended to be - if there is a study that shows that women will support a non-working spouse at a higher rate than men I'd be interested in reading it.)

Seriously, do you really think that AL could not find a man who makes more money than Dustin/Becky who would be willing to tolerate her various problems and is pretending to be a lesbian as a result? Do you really think that potential dates don't Google her before hand and have a pretty good idea that AL isn't some sassy size sixteen - you really think she's pulling the wool over people's eyes about her size when even her good angles show a woman severely overweight?

This notion that people have that women are less picky, always nurturing, willing to believe in true love based on emotional connection may be true for some but it isn't confined to one sex/gender/orientation. Caretaker men exist. For every ten men who demand no fatties on their dating profile there is one who will consider a cute fat girl. And women are just as fussy as men when it comes to appearance. Plenty of women will reject a man who is obese or misrepresents himself as fit in order to get an emotional wedge in the door, hoping the women will overlook his lies and bulk because fairy tales and rom-coms have taught him that women will love him if they just get to know him. Women aren't these Disney-esque sweethearts who will always love the Beast just because we have ovaries.

You don't need to keep fetishists in the equation to see AL snag a man, but if AL is sex repulsed, a fetishist may be the way to go. Fetishism with men into SBBWs isn't always about sex - for some the satisfaction comes from watching the woman gorge, providing the food, cuddling the fat. If AL wants to avoid a traditional sexual relationship a fetishist would fit the bill

Men are not a static roster of uniform behaviors. Men are victims of Nigerian love scams. Men fall victim to financial predators. Men take care of borderline women from a misplaced sense of chivalry. Men stay in sexless relationships. Men raise other men's children after their wives cheat. Men support wives who don't want to work. Some don't but many do. Men do all sorts of emotionally and financially irrational things when it comes to love and attachment and it's bizarre conspiracy to insist that this girl who has not shown any interest in men in the last few years is passing herself off as a lesbian because no man would ever tolerate the boundaries she sets or meet the emotional needs she has.

If AL were heterosexual she could easily find a low-value man who is into her just as easily as she finds low-value women. Women far fouler than AL pull it off and pull it off often, and the lesbian pool is much smaller than the heterosexual male pool of potential victims. Based on her behavior and based on the behaviors of men as individuals, there is zero reason to believe that she did some sort of relationship math and jadedly decided to pretend to be gay.

 

[GORL]

A

New video

Summary:
- sharing her 'weight loss journey' is too hard for her because people gave her shit for eating corn (or rather: pointed out that corn is mostly starch and adding it to a soup full of rice and pasta and other starchy stuff isn't as healthy as she thinks it is but I'm getting sidetracked)
- people don't believe her when she claims she lost weight, this was unmotivating to her
- Weight loss is no longer a journey, it's her life
- she inspires people

tl/dr(or watch): she's not going to talk about her weight loss anymore because....reasons.

Eh, she's going to be back to talking about weightloss in about 2 weeks because what else has she to talk about? Chokers, her pets and a girlfriend that doesn't seem to want to be in her videos?

Anything to avoid the scale for a while.

 

[JayBlue]

Oh god her new video. I wonder how many subs she will lose. But honestly though this woman can spin anything to make it look like she's the victim. I guess when people give her advise she gets triggered. This wasn't a weight loss journey at all. She's done 5 weigh in videos.

 

[Bitchboy95]

Why do you guys argue about which sex she prefers to be with? She would be with any living being that takes her in, and whoever that happens to be is just as fucked up as she is.

 

[NemmaSis]

My favorite line of the video, "I'm doing something for myself for ONCE in my life." Is she that unaware? When has it not been all about Amber?
Well she is right about one thing, trying to document her weight loss will set her up for failure. She's been trying this for 3 or 4 years and just keeps consistently gaining. I mean, she'd probably gain regardless.

 

[Awkwafina]

I'd love to see the research that shows that women are easier marks when it comes to supporting useless partners in long term relationships. (This sounds snarky but it's not intended to be - if there is a study that shows that women will support a non-working spouse at a higher rate than men I'd be interested in reading it.)

Seriously, do you really think that AL could not find a man who makes more money than Dustin/Becky who would be willing to tolerate her various problems and is pretending to be a lesbian as a result? Do you really think that potential dates don't Google her before hand and have a pretty good idea that AL isn't some sassy size sixteen - you really think she's pulling the wool over people's eyes about her size when even her good angles show a woman severely overweight?

This notion that people have that women are less picky, always nurturing, willing to believe in true love based on emotional connection may be true for some but it isn't confined to one sex/gender/orientation. Caretaker men exist. For every ten men who demand no fatties on their dating profile there is one who will consider a cute fat girl. And women are just as fussy as men when it comes to appearance. Plenty of women will reject a man who is obese or misrepresents himself as fit in order to get an emotional wedge in the door, hoping the women will overlook his lies and bulk because fairy tales and rom-coms have taught him that women will love him if they just get to know him. Women aren't these Disney-esque sweethearts who will always love the Beast just because we have ovaries.

You don't need to keep fetishists in the equation to see AL snag a man, but if AL is sex repulsed, a fetishist may be the way to go. Fetishism with men into SBBWs isn't always about sex - for some the satisfaction comes from watching the woman gorge, providing the food, cuddling the fat. If AL wants to avoid a traditional sexual relationship a fetishist would fit the bill

Men are not a static roster of uniform behaviors. Men are victims of Nigerian love scams. Men fall victim to financial predators. Men take care of borderline women from a misplaced sense of chivalry. Men stay in sexless relationships. Men raise other men's children after their wives cheat. Men support wives who don't want to work. Some don't but many do. Men do all sorts of emotionally and financially irrational things when it comes to love and attachment and it's bizarre conspiracy to insist that this girl who has not shown any interest in men in the last few years is passing herself off as a lesbian because no man would ever tolerate the boundaries she sets or meet the emotional needs she has.

If AL were heterosexual she could easily find a low-value man who is into her just as easily as she finds low-value women. Women far fouler than AL pull it off and pull it off often, and the lesbian pool is much smaller than the heterosexual male pool of potential victims. Based on her behavior and based on the behaviors of men as individuals, there is zero reason to believe that she did some sort of relationship math and jadedly decided to pretend to be gay.

Do you have to be right about everything or do you just like hearing yourself talk? I honestly only read the first paragraph you wrote before I realized you wrote 6 more and stopped reading lmao. I've made two posts about this now and won't make any more because it's just kind of redundant and dumb. Irdc what opinion you have on this because everything else points to the opposite, not to mention many others have echoed these same thoughts or feel like @Bitchboy95 feels. End of story.

My favorite line of the video, "I'm doing something for myself for ONCE in my life." Is she that unaware? When has it not been all about Amber?
Well she is right about one thing, trying to document her weight loss will set her up for failure. She's been trying this for 3 or 4 years and just keeps consistently gaining. I mean, she'd probably gain regardless.

The difference is so astounding.

 

[Fresh Grown Breasts]

Big AL lost any kind of sexuality a good 300lbs ago.

 

[EH 110]

"I'm not just some chubby girl. I'm a morbidly obese woman!"
You don't say! wow

"For me, brown rice is okay. For me, corn is okay."
But how many servings are you eating in one sitting?

Then she says she's inspiring, and how millions of people can watch her. Millions!

 

[wahhhmbulance]

This entire 12 minute eulogy for the death of her preemie diet, when she could have already lost 100 lbs just by eating 8 servings a day instead of her usual 15. SMH.

Anybody have this big bitch in their 2017 death pool?

 

[Rotogravure]

This entire 12 minute eulogy for the death of her preemie diet, when she could have already lost 100 lbs just by eating 8 servings a day instead of her usual 15. SMH.

Anybody have this big bitch in their 2017 death pool?

My death pool only allows actual famous people, not people famous in their own mind, sadly.

 

[Octomet]

Does she believe this "strategy" will stop people from picking on where and what she eats, because she's no longer holding herself to a public weight loss regimen? C'mon AL. Better stop Snapchatting all those buffets then.

 

[frootloops]

I feel like actual LGBT YouTubers talk about their sexuality and use it to educate others, like sharing personal coming out stories. There is a HUGE difference between lesbian YouTubers and AL. I feel like AL is a "lesbian" out of convince. She needs a woman to be her caretaker and an enabler. I'm not saying that men don't do that, I'm just saying that women are more likely to be nurturing.

Also I don't want to think about a 500 pound girl and a 250 pound girl having sex. AL probably can't even wash her vagina which is beyond gross. Ok I made myself I'm done.

Thank you for that mental picture.. ugh lol

 

[ADHD]

- Weight loss is no longer a journey, it's her life

LOL more like weight gain is her life.

Anybody have this big bitch in their 2017 death pool?

Nah, she's young enough that unless she gets hit with something that kills her immediately, she can probably recover to an even shittier quality of life.

Hamber, you don't need to talk about your weight. We can see you're getting bigger. (She claims she's gotten batteries for her scale, weighed herself, and that she is losing weight, but she doesn't say how much she weighs). But do keep in mind that as a 26 year old unemployed hambeast, your life isn't interesting enough for people to keep watching your videos once you take away the weight loss story.