Going off a post I read in another ALR thread the other day, one thing I've always thought was weird was people's comments about how Amber would be so attractive/pretty, but for the fat. We've seen photos of Amber from the time she was a toddler to now and they've all been exceedingly average (to below average, the 500+ years) photos. But, for some reason, people think there's a gorgeous woman hiding just beneath the fat. Where's the evidence to suggest this? You don't win a new face when you lose weight, you still have to deal with whatever genes your parents passed down to you. Her parents are average.
This isn't an insult, there's no shame in being ordinary, but at some point it has to become condescending when fat people, especially women, are told they have, 'such a pretty face!' I guess if you're ego is big enough, it may just be confirmation that others are seeing what you see. She can barely look away from herself on camera, despite claiming that she think she's ugly. No one eye bangs themselves like that if they think they're hideous.