I don't find it all that surprising that a mother or father would choose protecting their kid from autism over protecting a bunch of other kids from death. Some mothers (parents) are just really crazy/selfish. Who here has seen Torchwood: Children of Earth? Small spoiler if you haven't but might want to.
This scared me because it was very plausible. I can see people being selfish enough to not want to have to deal with autism in their life (remember, they don't think THEIR kid will die) and not care if there are a few dead kids because of it. But I don't know, I'm not a parent and I hate kids so I don't know what goes through these peoples heads. One more reason not to become a parent imo.
The aliens in the series were going to kidnap ten percent of all the children on Earth and whisk them away to a fate basically worse than death. One father who knew what was going to happen to his kids shot and killed them to save them from it. Anyway, the Torchwood team figured out a way to save all these millions of children, but it would cause the death of just one of them, and the mother of the kid freaked out and did everything possible to stop it and was basically like fuck all those people and those millions of kids, even after she saw exactly what was going to happen to them.
This scared me because it was very plausible. I can see people being selfish enough to not want to have to deal with autism in their life (remember, they don't think THEIR kid will die) and not care if there are a few dead kids because of it. But I don't know, I'm not a parent and I hate kids so I don't know what goes through these peoples heads. One more reason not to become a parent imo.