Everyone with a brain is aware that all these instances aren't "police not doing their job." It was intentional sabotage of political enemies while enforcing laws against one group and letting the other get away with whatever it wants.
I think your analogy is bad since clothing largely has value due to brand name while payment processors are far far behind the scenes, but the answer is simple - the clothing company just tells people they didn't have a choice and not to blame them
That's an interesting theory but the fact still stands that unite the right 2 still happened because the government cannot legally stop it. I personally don't buy the "it was intentional" angle, especially because I doubt the city of Charlottesville for example wants to deal with that kind of shit storm.
I think you're naive if you don't believe brand equity matters to stuff like the payment processors, especially if businesses are worried they'll be guilty by association. The left has weaponized this to an incredible degree but if businesses are threatened with boycotts for using a certain processor, that will in turn flow down and hurt the processor. That's the world we live in now.