Hello folks, I used to be a member of this forum a few years ago, before it was on yuku, but under a different name. Hope everyone I used to chat with is well.
Anyway since I've been processionally piercing since early 2006(when I started an exceptionally intense 18months of training), and up til May I had my own studio so I can weigh in here!
I only once pierced a guiche and twice I've done a fourchette(female equivalent...sort of) ...
I've had some real horror stories mainly due to hygiene issues and the lunatics and perverts with them...
Coping mechanism....hmmm....plenty of booze and a Valium then just shurg it off and laugh about it!
You treat any kind of intimate piercing as you would others. As a doctor or nurse would.
I usually set my tray up and call the person in, but if it's a nipple or a genital one I'll call them in and turn my back nand set it up while they get undressed and comfortable for example, standing there staring at them isn't something I'd do
. I just concentrate on doing a good job, always wear a face mask and have a packet of baby wipes(wet wipes to ye Americans) handy to let them give themselves a clean before I start. Little things like that help to make it a more pleasant experience.
I've heard of greasy scumbags preying on young girls getting stuff like that done(I'd never pierce a tongue,nipple or genital without photo I.d confirming anyone young was over 1

and it's something I abhor.
Bad hygiene more so and I've kicked people out and refused to do piercings even when I was just starting out. For the life of me I cannot understand why someone would bare their bits to a stranger without fresh underwear and a good wash...but believe me it happens. Things like bits of toilet paper stuck or a tampon are fine, but unwashed, dirty, stinky bits encased in well worn underwear turns my stomach and seriously isn't worth the money.
As for the unclit piercing, which cracked my better half up, I've done one like I said and positioning the guy was ...well a rock and a hard place. Fortunately he was very clean, very pleasant and had a good sense of humour so it was a good experience.
I doubt anything about the one done to Chris was a good experience.
His track record of hygiene and that repulsive twerking video showing his frayed,greying underwear would have me 86ing his fatass quicker than he can say unclit!
EDIT
I'll just say that to position someone, guy or girl for that piercing, its either pull the bed(like a massage table) out and get them to get on all fours, ass in the air, and hold their cheeks open, or like scoot to the edge of the table and pull their knees up to their face and hold them with their arms...I mean it's incredibly incredibly 'intimate' ...I wouldn't like to do them very often to be frank. I was lucky that the two female ones I did, one was my girlfriend at the time and then the second was my missus,and the male, like I said was very clean, polite, and saw the funny side when trying to position him. Plus he tipped me like twenty quid, which is cool because tipping isn't done here.