FL-300
FOR COURT USE ONLY FILED
BY SUPERIOR COURT OF CALIFORNIA.
COUNTY OF NEVADA
PARTY WITHOUT ATTORNEY OF ATTORNEY NAME FAITH CHOLE VICKES
STAGE BAR NUMBER
FIRM NAME
STREET ADDRESS 12071 ELNORA DRIVE
CITY PENN VALLEY
STATE: CA FAX NO:
ZIP CODE: 95946
TELEPHONE NO: (530) 305-8292
E-MAIL ADDRESS
faithchloevickers@gmail.com
ATTORNEY FOR (en)
SUPERIOR COURT OF CALIFORNIA, COUNTY OF NEVADA
STREET ADDRESS 201 CHURCH STREET
MAILING ADDRESS 201 CHURCH STREET
CITY AND ZP CODE: NEVADA CITY, CA 95969 BRANCH NAME: FAMILY
KIMBERLY FLENER, CLERK OF THE COU ANGELA AVINA, DEPUTY
PETITIONER: FAITH CHOLE VICKERS RESPONDENT ETHAN OLIVER RALPH
OTHER PARENT/PARTY:
REQUEST FOR ORDER
CHANGE
TEMPORARY EMERGENCY ORDERS
CASE NUMBER
FL21-016880
Child Custody
Child Support Property Control
Visitation (Parenting Time) Domestic Violence Order
Spousal or Partner Support Attomey’s Fees and Costs
Other (specify): mutal Stipulation
NOTICE OF HEARING
1.TO (name(s)):
ETHAN OLIVER RALPH
Petitioner
Respondent
Other Parent/Party
Other (specify):
2.A COURT HEARING WILL BE HELD AS FOLLOWS:
Dept:
3
Room:
a.Date: 08/16/2023
b.Address of court
Time: 9:00 AM
Same as noted above
Other (specify):
3.WARNING to the person served with the Request for Order: The court may make the requested orders without you if you do not file a Responsive Declaration to Request for Order (form FL-320), serve a copy on the other parties at least nine court days before the hearing (unless the court has ordered a shorter period of time), and appear at the hearing. (See form FL-320-INFO for more information.)
(Forms EL-300-INFO and DV-400-INFO provide information about completing this form.)
COURT ORDER FOR COURT USE ONLY)
It is ordered that:
4.
Time
For service until the hearing is shortened. Service must be on or before (date A Responsive Declaration to Request for Order (form FL-320) must be served on or before (date): 5.
):
The parties must attend an appointment for child custody mediation or child custody recommending counseling
As follows
(specify date, time, and location):
7. The orders in Temporary Emergency (Ex Parte) Orders (form FL-305) apply to this proceeding and must be personally served with all documents fled with this Request for Order,
Attachment 2c.
c.The orders that I request are in the best interest of the children because (specify): Mr. Ralph’s blatant abuse of the Talking Parents App, allowed by the court, places undo stress on me, which upsets the balance of a healthy household. Alexander deserves the healthiest household possible. The abuse of the Talking Parents app has been in complete control of father, who simply refuses to adhere to maintaining peaceful contact. What’s more, many of the communications in question, blatantly violate the standard DVRO, under which Alexander is also a protected party. Naturally, continued communication in this manner is not in the benefit of Alexander.
D . This is a change from the is a change for
Child
(parenting time)
The court ordered (specify):
(1)The order for legal or physical custody was filed on (date):
(2)The visitation (parenting time) order was filed on (date): 09/12/2022 The court ordered (specify) “Parties shall be limited to brief and peaceful contact only regarding the minor child. Parties shall use a parenting app such as Talking Parents to effectuate communication.
Attachment 2d.
10.
*FACTS TO SUPPORT the orders I request are are listed below. The facts that I write in support and attach to this request cannot be longer than 10 pages, unless the court gives me permission.
Attachment 10.
Mr. Ralph is a convicted sex offender, and I am his victim. He has continued to utilize the Talking Parents App outside of the allowable restrictions in an attempt to threaten me, harass me, intimidate me, and even at times make attempts at unacceptable familiarity. I have, through the same app, warned him on numerous occaisions when I believe he crossed the line, and was continually met with refusal to stop. I have attached messages on Attachment 10 to demonstrate Mr. Ralph’s ardent refusal to abide by the order as
Date:
FAITH CHOLE VICKERS
I declare under penalty of perjury under the laws of the State of California that the information provided in this form and all attachments is true and correct.
(TYPE OR PRINT NAME)
(SIGNATURE OF APPLICANT)
Ethan Ralph on 6/1/2023 at 12:21:13 AM said:
I had to work all day. I kinda put this to the side for that reason and also I didn’t want it to distract. Plus I wanted to be thoughtful instead of reactive
I’ve been shown the things you’ve liked on Twitter. The Rari lies about my AA and sobriety. Stuff about protecting my daughter and/or keeping her away from me, and several other things. About my son hopefully getting good genes from you to make up for my evil or whatever, I take that exactly as it should be taken, tbh.
It is what it is. I kinda go back to what I said before. I see it as my fault for ever thinking it could be different. It clearly cannot. So, yea, that’s what I’m talking about. I’ve seen some other things as well but it’s not worth going into it all or getting worked up. That’s just how it is, I guess.
Ethan Ralph on 6/1/2023 at 12:50:39 AM said:
Oh, and not wanted credit fraud Imfao I saw that one, too.
Ethan Ralph on 6/1/2023 at 12:51:12 AM said:
Better luck next time, maybe.
Faith Vickers viewed this subject on 6/1/2023 at 10:35:23 AM
Faith Vickers on 6/1/2023 at 10:36:08 AM said: So I’m not allowed to like tweets?
Faith Vickers on 6/1/2023 at 10:38:11 AM said:
Ok. That’s your choice then. I’ve been overly nice during everything but the fact you continue to want to police what shouldn’t do on my private social media that you are blocked from then maybe it was a mistake to try and be supportive in any way. Good luck Ethan.
Ethan Ralph viewed this subject on 6/1/2023 at 10:38:30 AM
Ethan Ralph on 6/1/2023 at 10:39:24 AM said: I will ask for clarification with the court if you keep liking tweets by your father that discuss our private conversations and my visitation status. Fair warning. Do what you want.
Faith Vickers viewed this subject on 6/1/2023 at 10:39:26 AM
Faith Vickers on 6/1/2023 at 10:39:40 AM said:
Not to mention that I pretty mindlessly like tweets anyways based on who I’m following but again, it’s your opinion and choice.
Ethan Ralph viewed this subject on 6/1/2023 at 10:39:49 AM
Ethan Ralph on 6/1/2023 at 10:40:09 AM said: Also, there is no such thing as private social media. Good day
Faith Vickers viewed this subject on 6/1/2023 at 10:40:27 AM
Faith Vickers on 6/1/2023 at 10:40:28 AM said: I’m not allowed UNINTELLIGIBLE
Ethan Ralph viewed this subject on 6/1/2023 at 10:40:30 AM
Ethan Ralph on 6/1/2023 at 10:40:58 AM said:
I don’t have anything else to say to you. Only message me if it concerns my son Alexander.
Faith Vickers viewed this subject on 6/1/2023 at 10:41:05 AM
Faith Vickers on 6/1/2023 at 10:41:05 AM said: There is such a thing as blocking though. I don’t want you stalking my social media. It makes me uncomfortable.
Ethan Ralph viewed this subject on 6/1/2023 at 10:41:07 AM
Ethan Ralph on 6/1/2023 at 10:41:25 AM said: I don’t have anything else to say to you. Only message me if it concerns my son Alexander.
Faith Vickers viewed this subject on 6/1/2023 at 10:41:32 AM
Faith Vickers on 6/1/2023 at 10:41:46 AM said: Wow, Ok. Once again self destructing any support you have. Bye.
Ethan Ralph viewed this subject on 6/1/2023 at 10:41:50 AM
Ethan Ralph on 6/1/2023 at 11:36:39 AM said:
I saw your request. I’m trying to add money to my CashApp. It might take a day or two or be next week. My debit card was eaten by the ATM here after I forgot to get it out right away. My bank is shipping me another and I’m gonna try to deposit money through another method. I have the money, of course.
Faith Vickers viewed this subject on 6/1/2023 at 11:46:20 AM
Ethan Ralph on 6/1/2023 at 12:39:39 PM said: It says the transfer will go through tomorrow. If it does, I will send then.
Faith Vickers viewed this subject on 6/1/2023 at 2:05:11 PM
Faith Vickers on 6/1/2023 at 2:39:32 PM said:
K.
Ethan Ralph viewed this subject on 6/1/2023 at 2:39:47 PM
Faith Vickers on 6/2/2023 at 10:38:47 AM said:
Payment received. Thank you
Ethan Ralph viewed this subject on 5/2/2023 at 12:51:01 PM
Faith Vickers on 6/17/2023 at 3:21:50 PM said:
Weekly update that Xander is fine.
Faith Vickers on 7/4/2023 at 10:04:53 PM said:
You’re talking to the wrong person, and again, this involves matters with nothing to do about setting up visitation. I don’t care what you do. I have zero feelings about you and your life. Because no matter what you paint me as a villian despite the fact I’ve taken care of Xander. Now. Stop. Final warning. Leave me alone. I am not listening to your fake peace offe offerings.
Ethan Ralph viewed this subject on 7/4/2023 at 10:05:24 PM
Ethan Ralph on 7/4/2023 at 10:09:46 PM said:
I’ve taking care of him to the tune $8000 or so. So whatever. It’s not a fake peace offering. I gave you another one last time and you weren’t interested. I’m not trying to fight. I actually love my son. Also, you dishonestly paint me as a villain literally 24/7. So whatever.
Fine, I wonder badger it. Something to think about. You don’t seem to want me around him anyway. Not even trying to fight.
Faith Vickers viewed this subject on 7/4/2023 at 10:09:46 PM
Ethan Ralph on 7/4/2023 at 10:11:45 PM said:
Like there’s no part that wants to make things better? Won’t send anything else. But this is just so nasty and it involves our son. Hopeful, one day we can figure it out.
Faith Vickers viewed this subject on 7/4/2023 at 10:30:00 PM
Faith Vickers on 7/4/2023 at 10:33:23 PM said:
You released Revenge Porn of me. You are a villian to me. Do not speak to me further. I’ve given you numerous chances. Last one you tumed down by stalking my private Twitter that I have blocked you on. I am not interested in your opinions on the matter. Do not contact me unless about visitation. No more responses. Leave me alone.
Ethan Ralph viewed this subject on 7/4/2023 at 10:53:30 PM
Ethan Ralph on 7/4/2023 at 10:54:35 PM said:
You’ve told lies there. I won’t let them go unanswered. You’ re the biggest liar I’ve ever known in my life.
Good night, madam.
Ethan Ralph on 7/4/2023 at 10:57:16 PM said:
No more responses needed, although I had to answer that lie. I’ll let you know when I wanna my son Alexander.
Have a good day. I hope your heart softens someday. If not, oh well.
Faith Vickers viewed this subject on 7/4/2023 at 11:00:19 PM
Ethan Ralph on 7/4/2023 at 11:03:10 PM said:
Can I ask you a question? I won’t if not. But I’ve answered a lot of yours.
Ethan Ralph on 7/4/2023 at 11:03:10 PM said:
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Faith Vickers on 7/4/2023 at 11:06:19 PM said:
I gave you fair warning and now I’ll be filing additional contempt charges. My dad apparently made an offer on Twitter. That is all.
Ethan Ralph viewed this subject on 7/4/2023 at 11:12:40 PM
Ethan Ralph on 7/4/2023 at 11:13:26 PM said:
I simply asked a question, Faith. It had to do with my son. You asked me all kinds of questions. I hope we can leave it here but it’s up to you.
Ethan Ralph on 7/4/2023 at 11:14:43 PM said:
I’d just like to talk as adults. This chat isn’t just about visitation. It’s also about our son. File what you want but that’s what it states in the agreement. I just wanted to ask you a simple and non controversial question.
Faith Vickers viewed this subject on 7/4/2023 at 11:15:38 PM
Ethan Ralph on 7/4/2023 at 11:15:42 PM said:
How does this help Xander? Can we just get back to some sort of uneasy peace? I’m tired of court.
Faith Vickers viewed this subject on 7/4/2023 at 11:15:42 PM
Ethan Ralph on 7/4/2023 at 11:17:00 PM said:
I don’t hate you even tho I know you hate me, I’m just asking. I’m doing the best I can. Paying child support, etc, even with my marriage battle. I’d just ask you to have mercy tbh. I’m sorry I’m frustrated with you. I shouldn’t have said that. But it’s very hard. I love him too, you know.
Ethan Ralph on 7/4/2023 at 11:19:48 PM said:
Idk what the offer is. Man I’ve literally been trying to ignore it all. I just want to be a part of our son’s life.
Faith Vickers viewed this subject on 7/4/2023 at 11:30:04 PM
Faith Vickers on 7/4/2023 at 11:30:04 PM said:
You can’t hide behind good for Xander as an excuse to do whatever you want. He isn’t your shield. I’ve been more than kind and overly nice to you, I’ve given you adequate warnings, you ignored them because you couldn’t let something go unanswered. Something which you were convicted for. An offer was made. You can make your decision as you see fit, and since it does involve Xander, post it here. Just do it civilly or don’t do it at all. Until then, I will give you a weekly update as normal. You discuss ONLY visitations with me. It’s that simple. You want to stop Court then stop breaking orders you willingly agreed too.
Ethan Ralph viewed this subject on 7/4/2023 at 11:30:16 PM
Faith Vickers on 7/8/2023 at 7:47:44 AM said: You were told an attorney would contact you.
Ethan Ralph viewed this subject on 7/8/2023 at 7:47:45 AM
Ethan Ralph on 7/8/2023 at 7:48:29 AM said:
Is it still on? Cause im amenable and yall want me gone. It’s either that or 16 years. I’m just trying to hammer out the details.
Faith Vickers viewed this subject on 7/8/2023 at 7:48:31 AM Faith Vickers on 7/8/2023 at 7:49:06 AM said:
You don’t need to contact me to do that you had my dad’s attorney’s info.
Ethan Ralph viewed this subject on 7/8/2023 at 7:49:08 AM
Ethan Ralph on 7/8/2023 at 7:49:36 AM said: Dude I’m not doing a thing to you lol. Would you rather me contact him? It’s Sunday
Faith Vickers viewed this subject on 7/8/2023 at 7:49:37 AM
Faith Vickers on 7/8/2023 at 7:50:51 AM said:
I told you not to contact me. You are claiming to want to fight the papers. We had no intention of backing out of signatures. Your conspiracy theories have no basis in reality.
Ethan Ralph viewed this subject on 7/8/2023 at 7:50:54 AM Ethan Ralph on 7/8/2023 at 7:52:01 AM said:
OK, fine. I apologize. There’s no trust here. Do you all want to continue? I don’t trust easily and I want to stay out of court
Faith Vickers viewed this subject on 7/8/2023 at 7:52:04 AM
Ethan Ralph on 7/8/2023 at 7:53:11 AM said: I’m contacting about the papers which you said I could do, I thought. I’m not saying anything bad wth
Faith Vickers viewed this subject on 7/8/2023 at 7:53:37 AM
Ethan Ralph on 7/8/2023 at 7:54:31 AM said: I put the one paragraph cause I think he may have hurt our chances with that. But that’s it
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Faith Vickers on 7/8/2023 at 7:54:47 AM said: Nope. I said do not contact me unless needed.
Dad is still out and that it’s too late for him.
If you’d like my stuff dropped you can still sign the papers and deal with my stuff. But dad is a no go.
Ethan Ralph viewed this subject on 7/8/2023 at 7:54:48 AM
Faith Vickers on 7/8/2023 at 7:55:20 AM said: I am not your legal expert and you should’ve just emailed the attorney.
Ethan Ralph viewed this subject on 7/8/2023 at 7:55:23 AM
Ethan Ralph on 7/8/2023 at 7:55:38 AM said:
Which stuff? The future stuff?
Faith Vickers viewed this subject on 7/8/2023 at 7:55:49 AM
Faith Vickers on 7/8/2023 at 7:55:57 AM said: The contempt yes.
Ethan Ralph viewed this subject on 7/8/2023 at 7:56:00 AM
Faith Vickers on 7/8/2023 at 7:56:41 AM said: I will still drop the child support and get rid of the stipulation and let go of my property that was never returned if you sign the papers.
aderation Dad will not drop his thought after this interaction.
Ethan Ralph viewed this subject on 7/8/2023 at 7:56:44 AM
Ethan Ralph on 7/8/2023 at 7:57:45 AM said:
Dude can I talk to his lawyer? I wasnt being offensive. I was saying his tweet sounds like extortion and the judge may reject. I was funny on board
Faith Vickers viewed this subject on 7/8/2023 at 7:57:47 AM
Faith Vickers on 7/8/2023 at 7:58:01 AM said:
Feel free. Don’t think it’ Il change his mind
Ethan Ralph viewed this subject on 7/8/2023 at 7:58:04 AM
Ethan Ralph on 7/8/2023 at 7:58:08 AM said: The adoption papers?
Faith Vickers viewed this subject on 7/8/2023 at 7:58:09 AM
Ethan Ralph on 7/8/2023 at 7:59:09 AM said:
I wont sign those without a 0 lawyers fees from your father. I also live in Mexico lol and my property is in a trust for my daughter. So good luck for him on that.
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Ethan Ralph on 7/8/2023 at 8:16:14 AM said: And I will be bringing up his extortion tweet this Friday. Not a good look!
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Faith Vickers on 7/8/2023 at 8:21:25 AM said:
While I hate you I can also deal with you for less than 16 years because we both know you won’t make it that long with a few visits every few months. You made this happen because you couldn’t even be patient enough to just wait for papers over the weekend. You have no one to blame but yourself.
And continuing to try and bully/panic me isn’t going to work either. From now on confirm visitations with parenting times and they will confirm with me. I have no intention of speaking further with you because you will continue to try and hurt me through any means you feel necessary
Unlike you I have the support network of family and friends so that even when I am exhausted with you I am willing to fight because they love me and Xander. So trying to get me into submission to you will never work.
You had an out. You blew it.
Ethan Ralph viewed this subject on 7/8/2023 at 8:21:53 AM
Ethan Ralph on 7/8/2023 at 8:22:48 AM said:
Nah, I kept my son in my life. And I won, loser.
Ethan Ralph on 7/8/2023 at 8:23:53 AM said:
My uncle has more money than your father can dream of. You really think you can break me lol? Ok, try it. You’ve already moved to extortion.
Faith Vickers viewed this subject on 7/8/2023 at 8:23:55 AM
Faith Vickers on 7/8/2023 at 8:27:17 AM said:
You’re pathetic Ethan. You don’t scare me. I expect child support on the first of August like every month.
And if I’m a loser I’m not sure what you’d call the sex offender who did the sex offense to the loser. I’m sure it’s not nice though.
All goes forward. Bye
Ethan Ralph viewed this subject on 7/8/2023 at 8:27:46 AM
Ethan Ralph on 7/8/2023 at 8:29:10 AM said: I’m not a sex offender, lady. Incorrect, I won’t contact you again. Constant victim lol. Anything but!
Ethan Ralph on 7/8/2023 at 8:30:35 AM said:
Oh, and a few visits a year doesn’t negate your parental rights. Not sure where you heard that from. Thinking of moving to Reno anyway!
Faith Vickers viewed this subject on 7/8/2023 at 8:34:11 AM
Faith Vickers on 7/8/2023 at 8:37:48 AM said:
I wouldn’t move too soon. I’m getting married and will be moving soon enough. Though I’ll be sure to update with a mailing address within 10 DAYS of that
Ethan Ralph viewed this subject on 7/8/2023 at 8:48:25 AM
Ethan Ralph on 7/8/2023 at 8:49:24 AM said: Yea be sure to. Cause I’ll be visiting there as well. And if it’s out of country I will fight it.
Ethan Ralph on 7/8/2023 at 9:06:03 AM said: Oh and more think, I am entitled to updates on my son on this app, health, school, and otherwise. If you refuse to do so, I will take it to court asap to get clarification
Faith Vickers viewed this subject on 7/8/2023 at 9:17:48 AM
Faith Vickers on 7/8/2023 at 9:19:55 AM said: Unlike you Ethan I don’t need to run out of the country because I’m scared of the repercussions of my illegal actions.
Also you have his doctor’s info to contact for his health info and he’s too young for school. I have no reason to update you and gave weekly ones as a courtesy.
Ethan Ralph viewed this subject on 7/8/2023 at 9:27:22 AM
Ethan Ralph on 7/8/2023 at 9:28:49 AM said:
Fair enough. When he starts school. I would appreciate updates if that is amenable to you. It’s in the stip. We’re not supposed to fight we’re supposed to work together or our son. I realize you don’t think he’s my son, but he is.
Faith Vickers viewed this subject on 7/8/2023 at 9:41:09 AM
Faith Vickers on 7/8/2023 at 9:41:25 AM said: He’ll be homeschooled.
Faith Vickers on 7/8/2023 at 9:41:43 AM said:
So that’s all you need to know.
Ethan Ralph viewed this subject on 7/8/2023 at 9:50:44 AM
Ethan Ralph on 7/8/2023 at 9:51:07 AM said: Could I please have the information for his medical?
Faith Vickers viewed this subject on 7/8/2023 at 10:09:22 AM
Faith Vickers on 7/8/2023 at 10:11:47 AM said: REDACTED
Ethan Ralph viewed this subject on 7/8/2023 at 10:25:40 AM Ethan Ralph on 7/8/2023 at 10:27:10 AM said:
Once i go on this air, they is no turning back. I’d like to settle it. Talk to you father. Is it really worth it? And thank you for than information
Ethan Ralph on 7/8/2023 at 10:29:02 AM said:
I’ll have messages open. Up to you two.
Faith Vickers viewed this subject on 7/8/2023 at 10:30:54 AM
Faith Vickers on 7/8/2023 at 10:32:02 AM said:
Nope. I told you drop mine. I don’t control my dad. So drop that fantasy.
Faith Vickers on 7/8/2023 at 10:37:06 AM said:
But obviously I’m not dropping it without those papers signed so.
Ethan Ralph viewed this subject on 7/8/2023 at 10:37:45 AM
Ethan Ralph on 7/8/2023 at 10:39:45 AM said:
No befit to me if the possible 8 grand isnt dropped. Settle it all. He’s that mad at Perpacity? You can get right of me right noe. But 200K plus on top 8k, no. That’s not was offered. He backed out
Ethan Ralph on 7/8/2023 at 10:40:58 AM said:
So when your kid can’t have the last name of his “father, blame him. Cause I’m still willing for about 30 more mins. Is he that harddeaded lol? I am too.
Ethan Ralph on 7/8/2023 at 10:44:41 AM said:
Can we please just settle this? I’m asking. I have too much going on. I know you hate me. I actually don’t hate you. I feel sorry about everything I know you believe me lol. But I do.
Ethan Ralph on 7/8/2023 at 10:46:28 AM said:
Do you want me to contact his lawyer? I did.. it was bantz on twitter, i didnt know it was cause an international incident. i had already agreed with dax. Idk man if you wanna keep it going, ok, but its not good for xander.
Faith Vickers viewed this subject on 7/8/2023 at 10:50:03 AM
Ethan Ralph on 7/8/2023 at 10:54:50 AM said:
I have to go on air soon. if we could just clear it all thats seems to be best for xander, if you cant get your dad to do it maybe but that wast the origial deal. And im gonna have to comment on it in like 15 mins
Ethan Ralph on 7/8/2023 at 10:55:34 AM said:
I mean maybe we still could but its just basically unfair
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Ethan Ralph on 7/8/2023 at 4:43:05 PM said: REDACTED
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Ethan Ralph on 7/8/2023 at 5:06:01 PM said:
Do you even want to so you deal? Maybe that will show I’m serious, idk.
Ethan Ralph on 7/8/2023 at 5:06:19 PM said:
Want to do your deal*
Faith Vickers viewed this subject on 7/8/2023 at 6:54:06 PM
Ethan Ralph on 7/10/2023 at 1:48:45 PM said:
Draw up the papers for Xander. I just want to get away. If your father could find it in him since I’m capitulated.I just want to go away. Would help if possibles.
Faith Vickers viewed this subject on 7/10/2023 at 6:22:38 PM