- Joined
- Feb 3, 2013
From what I've heard of him, he had two main things stopping him from getting laid:
A passive approach. He expected girls to approach him and do the work, get to know him. He probably had a few girls interested in him, but he never pursued them. Possibly this is linked to the intense need for approval he displayed. His ego perhaps required they approach him, because it would be more flattering. You seek a prize, the prize doesn't seek you out.
Second was the fantasy aspect and unreasonable standards. He specifically wanted a good looking blonde girl. I think this was driven more by an urge to attain status, to have a "trophy" than just a genuine preference, because it seems in the rich California culture blonde girls have a kind of status to them.
he also never bought a mail order bride