everything is lesbian - a subculture on tumblr that 'headcanons' everything as lesbian

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http://archive.is/67tSA
https://art-by-mia.tumblr.com/post/177710348869/idk-what-adventure-time-is-but-congrats-on-the

LOL, yelnatszeroni was at it again. Unsurprisingly, it's about the Aventure Time finale. :story:
 
Stock Image Photographer said:
How old is this person? There's a stage of development in gay people where they're completely obnoxious about their sexuality (this is something that's recognized by social science), but normally you're supposed to grow out of it by your mid-20's at the latest.
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I’m really curious about that being recognized by social science- do you have sources?
 
Cynthia said:
I’m really curious about that being recognized by social science- do you have sources?
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I don't have access to papers that talk about it, but I can explain it in more detail. The basis of the model is that people with non-standard (i.e. non-straight) sexualities go through different steps to square their sexuality with the rest of their identity because the world operates on the idea that being straight is the norm and a lot of what we think of as "standard growing up stuff" is subtly based in heteronormativity. The sequence goes something like this: realization -> rejection -> inner conflict -> acceptance -> isolation -> integration. Realization is the person realizing that they might not be straight, rejection is them initially saying "but I can't be gay", inner conflict is the transition phase before acceptance, at which point the person finally accepts their sexuality. Isolation is the step that pretty much all of the people documented in this thread are locked in. This step is characterized by the person making their sexuality the thing that defines them and the person preferring to only interact with other non-straight people. No one's really sure why this phase is a thing, but one idea is that it comes from wanting to form a community with other people who have gone through the previous phases. Integration is when you realize that you were acting like a dickhead during the isolation phase and become a normal member of society. It's worth noting that some phases may be shorter or longer, or might even get skipped altogether, depending on the environment the individual lives in and how homophobic that environment is. It's also possible to regress to previous phases that you've already been through if you go through some sort of life-changing event, but generally people who reach Integration don't regress.
 
Stock Image Photographer said:
I don't have access to papers that talk about it, but I can explain it in more detail. The basis of the model is that people with non-standard (i.e. non-straight) sexualities go through different steps to square their sexuality with the rest of their identity because the world operates on the idea that being straight is the norm and a lot of what we think of as "standard growing up stuff" is subtly based in heteronormativity. The sequence goes something like this: realization -> rejection -> inner conflict -> acceptance -> isolation -> integration. Realization is the person realizing that they might not be straight, rejection is them initially saying "but I can't be gay", inner conflict is the transition phase before acceptance, at which point the person finally accepts their sexuality. Isolation is the step that pretty much all of the people documented in this thread are locked in. This step is characterized by the person making their sexuality the thing that defines them and the person preferring to only interact with other non-straight people. No one's really sure why this phase is a thing, but one idea is that it comes from wanting to form a community with other people who have gone through the previous phases. Integration is when you realize that you were acting like a dickhead during the isolation phase and become a normal member of society. It's worth noting that some phases may be shorter or longer, or might even get skipped altogether, depending on the environment the individual lives in and how homophobic that environment is. It's also possible to regress to previous phases that you've already been through if you go through some sort of life-changing event, but generally people who reach Integration don't regress.
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This makes a lot of sense for a lot of genuinely gay kids I’ve seen- but I really have my doubts most of the examples in this thread are genuinely gay- this behavior reeks of snowflakeism and doubling down.
 
Cynthia said:
This makes a lot of sense for a lot of genuinely gay kids I’ve seen- but I really have my doubts most of the examples in this thread are genuinely gay- this behavior reeks of snowflakeism and doubling down.
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I definitely agree with you that a lot of this behavior seems more like snowflakeism, but I wouldn't doubt if there were some genuine lesbians doing this. I've met quite a few gay women who have said less abrasive versions of sentiments catalogued in this thread in casual conversations. Adding in that the internet tends to encourage extreme behavior, and some of these could be from misguided young lesbians. That doesn't mean we shouldn't laugh at them, though.
 
IdaRita said:
https://twitter.com/harleivy
Who is that gabi person? Why she has so many followers?
She seems like personification of this thread.
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I followed this bitch for a while and I can confirm, this is the only fucking thing she talks about. Its either lesbians or women she finds hot. Sometimes it's the most useless kind of feminism (The kind that bitches about boob windows in video games) and alot of the time it's marvel.

I swear to fuck she is absurdly obsessed.

edit: Here's an answer to your question.
 
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In also extremely certain these people have never had a female friend or any friends for that matter.
 
I took a shit this morning and the turd identified as a lesbian and started posting on Tumblr, thank fuck I flushed it and ended it's miserable life before it got a thread on here.
 
Is there even a reason how and why lesbian fetish became so rampant? I honestly don't get why it's so popular if its not for 'muh representation points'.
It's even getting into children cartoons, for fuck sakes.
 
Does porn and Dobsonian attitude have anything to do with it?
 
aFairlyOddFaggot said:
so could it be possible that most of these kind of nice girls skipped the integration part and is just stuck in the isolation part instead?
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Assuming that most of them are real lesbians and not weird trendhoppers, it's moreso that they're stuck in isolation and unable to reach integration. Like I said before, unless you're a late bloomer in terms of discovering your sexuality, most people should be through this phase by their mid-20's. I'm hoping that the actual lesbians that are featured here are younger than that, but some of them seem much older and I'm not sure what's wrong with them.
 
Stock Image Photographer said:
Assuming that most of them are real lesbians and not weird trendhoppers, it's moreso that they're stuck in isolation and unable to reach integration. Like I said before, unless you're a late bloomer in terms of discovering your sexuality, most people should be through this phase by their mid-20's. I'm hoping that the actual lesbians that are featured here are younger than that, but some of them seem much older and I'm not sure what's wrong with them.
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http://archive.is/nGO4n
http://incorrectlovenikkiquotes.tumblr.com/post/177639458843

Well, at least OP admits that she and the Love Nikki ~lesbian fans~ cling to this "KIMI MUST BE A LESBIAN" bullshit because they don’t have any actual personality and need to project their thirst on the nearest ~sapphic~ girl they find.

And of course, they have to cry about ~not wlw~ aka THE ICKY STRAIGHTIES calling them out on their creepy crap. Yanno, what about gay people who don't like this Kimi girl or don't ship her with girls? Do they exist or are they ~honorary cishets~ that don't belong in LGBT+ spaces?
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Plus it's so very obvious that the OTHER reason why they insist on Kimi being a lesbian is so they can ship her with the main character Nikki. ~Canon representation~ my ass, it's all about self-insertion and shipping.
 
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Stock Image Photographer said:
Assuming that most of them are real lesbians and not weird trendhoppers, it's moreso that they're stuck in isolation and unable to reach integration. Like I said before, unless you're a late bloomer in terms of discovering your sexuality, most people should be through this phase by their mid-20's. I'm hoping that the actual lesbians that are featured here are younger than that, but some of them seem much older and I'm not sure what's wrong with them.
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Mostly loneliness plus social awkwardness and/or mental illness but probably also getting caught up when they were vulnerable. Everyone has periods of heavy stress. Stuff like moving to new city, getting fired, serious illness, break up, death of a loved one etc. People in these situations are easy targets to be exploited, especially if they don’t have sturdy social safety nets.

Art and heavy social media use are both outlets and escape for uncomfortable feelings. One way this can be good. Finding resources for help, getting mental break to calm down, way put feelings into words and just having something fill time. But of course this can go wrong. Nobody needs any qualifications to give advice in internet, so there is going to be a lot “fake news”, echo chambers, getting attention for harmful things and being around mentally unhinged people is exhausting. This added that all communities have some requirements. Yes you might only need to register to post but to be truthly accepted in the club and praised you need to show that you get the community. It’s easy to lie in internet, good lies are based on truth, being unsure of ones ownself worth, nobody likes to see themselves as the bad guy like a lier, mind always tries to solve and avoid confusing and conflicting ideas... Well, it’s easy to see how snowballing can happen if there is no healthy and normal people and environment able to put things in perspective.

LGBT is especially vulnerable to this because it has always been about people who by definition don’t fit into norm and only qualifieder is being LGBT. One being LGBT doesn’t really reguare having visible signs, it’s based on selfreporting so people who are desperate to have community are very drawn to it ever since it became cool. You can see it as these virtue signalers are also very vocal about “the community”.
 
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