Here's my final thoughts on FO4:
The game has quite a few flaws, but it makes up for aplenty for its flaws by just how entertaining and engaging it is. The combat, while not the greatest thing ever, is a massive improvement from FO3, with VATS not being the supreme way to dispatch your opponents. The world is fun to explore and has plenty of fun surprises, even though 90% of the time, there's just things to fight. However, the combat was solid and entertaining enough to prevent it from becoming stale too rapidly.
However, the hatejerk does have quite a few things right:
1) The dialog wheel. It wasn't godawful, but it was unnecessary as hell.
2) There is a culling of RPG mechanics which I hope Bethesda doesn't continue with. Just don't.
3) The writing still isn't up to Obsidian's or CDPR's level. It's miles better than Fallout 3 though.
In the end, while I did find the game to be a little bit disappointing for some, I was overall satisfied by it. While it isn't really a Fallout game, it's still a fantastic game notherless.