Probably one of the few times I actually disagree with some of your sperging. You're talking very exceptional cases at different ends of the extremes and, I can tell you right now as someone who formerly was a hardcore Tank raider having to carry for lackluster DPS, that's not a very fun position to be in for the extended amount of time that goes into progging and clearing. "A clear is a clear even with greeding" gets really fucking tiresome, really fucking quickly when you are constantly having to make up for shitter DPS and, as such, the entire group puts the responsibility on you, and pretty much only on you, to keep going above and beyond to compensate for the shitters, instead of harping on the shitters to get their shit together. It's not hard for me to see why even a lot of our thread regulars have finally been broken as of this expac on the raid scene.
So, while, yes, "greeding like a sweatlord" does indeed have its practical usage, it's not going to keep the people having to do all that greeding playing the content. Might even ward them away from trying it again in the future if all they ever have to look forward to is having to carry a bunch of no-effort crybabies who'll blame you for not carrying hard enough.
How dare you disagree with me, I thought we were kiwi frens. My point isn't so much "It is okay if the tank/healer carries bad dps" it is that
you can have trashy dps/grey dps who suck get carried by the tanks/healers. So this idea that "Well the grey clear is still a clear and that means something" to me is wrong, because dps-wise you can carry anyone with at least 1-2 good dps and good tanks/healers especially by month 2-3 of the content existing. I am actually against that position being the expected norm, my point is more so "A purple tank can carry a grey dps" in parser terms. This is true to the point where even a fucking post HW Bard can end up in second place on the parse because the Bard can pewpew without thinking much while the Dragoon plays bitch boy cuck because he's too scared of orange circles and disengages 3 gcds too early then he needs to because "mechanics matter more then dps" is taken far too literally.
It's not hard for me to see why even a lot of our thread regulars have finally been broken as of this expac on the raid scene." This is literally me my man, and it sucks because I like tryharding in this game to some extent, but it so hard to find good tryhards and not just sweatlords who can't greed properly to save their lives or you find bitch boy cucks to mechanics who never improve at all and simply show up.
I was in your position in Creator because half my dps sucked, one of my healers was a colossal pussy who tried to strong arm me into staying in Grit most the fight (and he convinced my Warrior to cuck himself), and I hauled ass on DRK to autismo time my CDs/GCDs in a12s and learned how to greed like a motherfucker with my mana in HW when darkside ate your mana constantly. We barely won by a GCD before my LD almost timed out to kill me, and if I listened to my bitch boy healer (and our bitching literal bipolar Dragoon trying to say we should stop) we would have wiped on that pull and never cleared for the week, that's how I know how truthful a good greedy tank can carry some subpar teammates. It sucks, but it is wholly true and why I don't buy the narrative of trying to say a grey shitter dps clearing is somehow as equal as anyone clearing as most the time those players get hard carried by the non-dps.
I'm of the position that the best raid team, in terms of reasonable accessible hours/playstyles aka not ultra WF sweatlords, is a team that flexibly knows how to greed and knows how to prog collectively and properly.
Aka: We know that phase 1 is a joke, so let's greed a few times for an extra gcd or two to see how we do in order to push the hp bar so when we get to phase 5 we aren't behind the enrage and can play safer in the last phase.
Another example: We barely get to phase 4, so can we please not greed so we learn wtf is going on instead of JOHN FUCKING MADDENING into the mechanics like apes?
Flexibility is everything, greed is a good trait to have but it is a tool as is all other tools. The problem is people are as stubborn as an ass and lazy as fuck to adapting to anything, and so they settle into things way too quickly. So if you got ultra safe dps, you're fucked and if you got ultra greed dps, you're also fucked.