From "Fan disliked explanation" (Actual critical thinking? In MY tvtropes?)
Fans prefer group think, as in, echo chamber think. Why'd you think they get so defensive when anyone criticizes Stolitz or defends Stella? They don't want explanation, they just want things they can agree with. TVTropes's the last site you should ever go to for critical thinking. They don't like that.
(Yaoi fanfic turning the ex wife into screaming harpy strawman? THE HORROR!)
"Scarily realistic abuse"????????? Excuse me? STOLAS is the one who depicts mental, emotional, and psychological abuse much more than Stella could ever do! What's scarily realistic about Stella's abuse? Hmm... she screams, okay, she nearly slapped him, okay, she threw an imp at him, okay, she hired an assassin at him, a bit far but doesn't really count as abuse, okay. She called him a pathetic man, yeah, no, he can just brush that off... okay.
Now, what did Stolas do? Hmm... emotionally manipulated Blitzo by getting fussy at him and making him the bad guy for reasonably being upset that Stolas was trying to turn a literal prostitution deal into a romantic relationship... okay. Coerced and forced Blitzo to do sexual acts with him monthly lest he wants to lose his only ticket to continue his assassination job (that the show completely forgot exists except for brief moments). Got upset and cried like a baby because Blitzo slightly raised his voice at him.
Gaslighted Blitzo constantly in S2:E9 by constantly saying "NUH UH I DIDN'T DO ALL THOSE MEAN THINGS TO YOU! YOU'RE L-LYING! YOU'RE NO DIFFERENT FROM STRIKER!! MEANIE!! I'M GIVING YOU THE COLD SHOULDER!!".
How does no one see this as abuse? How does this fandom see this as Blitzo getting his just desserts? Why is this fandom so blind to just... everything?? I've
never seen a fandom lack critical thinking skills this hard, man.