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SomeCybranCommander said:
Sorry man. I deleted my instagram account. I just couldn't take the fact it could've been my fault.

Rate me dumb. I deserve it.
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Well, with no screenshots or timestamps of the conversation to go on it sounds like you were being too pushy with the conversation. Just because you haven't had an answer in a few hours doesn't mean you should send another message. My rule of thumb is if you send a message and she doesn't reply wait a couple of days before sending another message, if she doesn't reply to that either then she probably doesn't want to talk to you, so you shouldn't talk to to her anymore either.

We all fuck up in social interactions sometimes, that's what makes us people, don't beat yourself up about it, just learn from it and move on. And next time don't spam the girl with messages.

Guts Gets Some said:
You almost fell for obvious bait, man. You gotta be a little more alert on a forum like this.
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I genuinely just wanted to give him advice, why do people always assume the worst about others on the Internet?

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I just realised from your name that you're probably a fan of SupCom, am I right? Monkeylords were the badassedest shit in the game, imo.
 
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Well, on the one hand there is larger than 0 possibility, that I'll be home by the end of June.
On the other, I have another episode of the nasty skin disease I've been dealing with for the last couple of years. Nothing extreme or dangerous (yet), but it hurts and adds discomfort to my life.
So I'll say, it's even.
 
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the sister fister said:
I'm eating cheesecake while the Minnesota protests are happening around me. I have black friends so I'll be okay
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Why would you announce that you have cheesecake on the Internet? The only reason you're safe from my cheesecake homing beacon sense of smell is because you live on another continent and I can't swim.

Fuck, I really want a strawberry cheesecake. :(
 
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Bender said:
Why would you announce that you have cheesecake on the Internet? The only reason you're safe from my cheesecake homing beacon sense of smell is because you live on another continent and I can't swim.

Fuck, I really want a strawberry cheesecake. :(
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I will share with you as long as you don't mind that it's just a plain ol cheesecake.
 
I am not doing good, at all. I had to let one of my cats pass over the rainbow bridge a couple days ago. We raised him and his three other siblings all by hand we've had them for four years but one of them who'll I'll call BC just suddenly got really badly ill and there was no chance of recovery. Two vets said the same thing essentially and even if we went through with hospitalization and treatments it was such a low chance, he was already at deaths door. This has left me and my family devastated, this is the first time I've ever grieved and I absolutely hate these feelings.

Last night it hit me HARD that I was never going to see him again, and that he was gone and this is real and not some surreal bad dream. He was such a sweet boy and very chill, he loved grooming my hair whenever I got out of the shower, he loved stretching his back legs out while laying on his stomach on the floor and he loved sitting in the chair like a little person.

I'm so going to miss you BC, but letting you go was the best option...we didn't want you to suffer any more. Just the week before you were doing so well and then just gone.

Please rest easy now.
 
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Sea creature said:
Last night it hit me HARD that I was never going to see him again, and that he was gone and this is real and not some surreal bad dream. He was such a sweet boy and very chill, he loved grooming my hair whenever I got out of the shower, he loved stretching his back legs out while laying on his stomach on the floor and he loved sitting in the chair like a little person.
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This is the most relatable description of losing a pet that I've ever seen. I'm sorry for your loss.
 
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Bender said:
Well, with no screenshots or timestamps of the conversation to go on it sounds like you were being too pushy with the conversation. Just because you haven't had an answer in a few hours doesn't mean you should send another message. My rule of thumb is if you send a message and she doesn't reply wait a couple of days before sending another message, if she doesn't reply to that either then she probably doesn't want to talk to you, so you shouldn't talk to to her anymore either.

We all fuck up in social interactions sometimes, that's what makes us people, don't beat yourself up about it, just learn from it and move on. And next time don't spam the girl with messages.


I genuinely just wanted to give him advice, why do people always assume the worst about others on the Internet?

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I just realised from your name that you're probably a fan of SupCom, am I right? Monkeylords were the badassedest shit in the game, imo.
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Hell yeah they are. I'm more of a Cybran man than any of the other factions. Too bad SupCom 2 had to almost ruin everything.
 
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Frustrated. Need a new pair of frames for my glasses. Old ones got broken in an accident recently. Can't do that until I get my prescription updated from my optometrist, and then it's another trip to Lenscrafters or VisionWorks to get the frames. Problem is finding a Lenscrafters that's actually open. Coupled with the time it will take to get that filled and working full time with shitty eyesight and shitty frames waiting to fix it is not fun.
 
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Officially over it. I could lose my job because someone in my household came down with covid symptoms because they decided to do a road trip to a different fucking state for no good reason. Thankfully if it was the rona it was very mild and they're basically fully recovered.

I told HR about the situation (because I'm not an asshole who will risk exposing literally hundreds of people to covid) and they disabled my badge to even get into the building so I'm missing work until the test results get back. However, if the results come back negative, I don't know if HR will excuse that missed time & I could get fired. If the results come back positive, I have to deal with the shitty RIDICULOUSLY bureaucratic time off team that requires a lot of long and confusing documentation that's OTT and unnecessary.
Most places just take doctors' notes and would be satisfied with a test result, but not this stupid ass place.
HR is fucking useless 99% of the time so I'm already mentally prepared to lose this job & do the stupid fucking dance of long applications and annoying interviews.
 
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Guts Gets Some said:
2020: Have met one of the most amazing people of my life during what the media is trying to tell me is the darkest times, so optimistic about everything from now on, been working hard to get into better shape, etc. It can be tiring sure, but, I'll always look back to this year and this part of my life happily, I think, regardless of where it goes from here.
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Tip for the future: Anything an incel would do, DON'T ever do it.
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It's mirror match, man.
 
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the sister fister said:
I'm eating cheesecake while the Minnesota protests are happening around me. I have black friends so I'll be okay
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Things are quiet in my area but things have been nasty very nearby. Like in walking distance. Pretty much every business I visit regularly has been pillaged. I have A/C off and windows open so I can hear what's going on outside and am listening to a police scanner. Each time I hear about break-ins/violence at an address, I check it on maps to see how close it is to my home.

I feel very little. It's strange. Normally, emotions in response to bad stuff happening in the world are a mix of fear, anxiety, horror, anticipation, despair, and so on. When it happens in your immediate vicinity and you start seeing the effects, something changes. All I feel right now is a sort of grimness. I'm not a prepper, just a random wagie, and am not happy about what's going on -- but maybe that's why I'm not fearful or excited or otherwise swept up in emotion. I never thought through how I'd actually survive if my home was invaded. I never LARP'd that shit, never got into it. There's no rage, no terror, no sense of "my entire life has led up to this moment" -- I just feel a desire to defend myself. It's strange. It feels so much better than being scared of invisible, far-away shit.
 
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Actually pretty decent so far. I'm probably just lucky, but where I live so far there hasn't been any riots, for now atleast.
 
I've tried to carry on with business as usual today. I've tried to just do the sort of things like shitposting that I always do. But I'm failing.

Yesterday evening an asshole with a pellet gun shot my dog in her face, causing serious injury. Liberty has been at the veterinary ever since. She is the only family I have on the North American continent, as I am a naturalized citizen from elsewhere. I don't know what I am going to do. I hate myself. I hate that I wasn't able to protect my dog, who has never been anything but loyal and affectionate whenever I needed support.

I haven't felt this low in a long time. I genuinely think if I saw the people who did this to Lib I would do something bad.

EDIT: Added photo. This is my Liberty. She has nothing but affection for people and has never met a person she did not instantly love.
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