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Over the past while, I've been ranting and raving about this gig that I was set to perform in. To clarify, I had to play Smells Like Teen Spirit and My Generation. A couple of hours ago, the gig actually happened. The first set was at one in the afternoon and actually went pretty well. Everyone was in high spirits and we even supported each other by hyping each other up. The second set was performed at around six in the evening and was... alright. One of the singers, while their band was performing, ran into the backstage area to puke into a bin so another vocalist had to step in. The same thing happened a second time. Aside from that, everything worked out pretty well. I played Teen Spirit and My Generation and actually kinda enjoyed it.

tl;dr, I play the gig, I enjoy it a little
 
There was a mass exodus at my job. Everyone is telling me I'm the likely person become the director of the department.

I never in a million years thought it would happen this way. I started in the lowest position in the building. I've recieved 3 promotions in less than 6 months.


It was sorta spooky. I was mentally reminding myself, "I need to make sure to turn that light off, or my boss will.... Oh right, he quit."
 
There was a mass exodus at my job. Everyone is telling me I'm the likely person become the director of the department.

I never in a million years thought it would happen this way. I started in the lowest position in the building. I've recieved 3 promotions in less than 6 months.


It was sorta spooky. I was mentally reminding myself, "I need to make sure to turn that light off, or my boss will.... Oh right, he quit."
Make sure you're demanding pay raises
 
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Took a long walk to explore the area around the 2 potential apartments I was talking about, to see if there's stores or amenities nearby, and how the area in general looks. There's a few things I already knew, it has a big plaza right outside, which in fact is very long and extends all the way to like three blocks from my current place. There's a small grocery store, and a couple blocks away, a big wholesale groceries supermarket, which I already go to sometimes. There's a gym/sports center with a pool very nearby.
Those things I knew.

But aside from that? I walked all around for several blocks and it's a whole lot of nothing. Just old houses, some small factories maybe, and a few empty lots. If you walk a few blocks through some pretty desolate and unsafe-looking streets, you can get to a metro station, but it's one of the older, shittier ones.

It's amazing how much difference around a few blocks make. I don't know exactly how much the distance between here and the apartments measures, less than a kilometer I think.
But where I am now, you walk a couple minutes and there's several grocery stores, a few small convenience stores, a decent-sized supermarket, several (not great) restaurants, then a bit more walking and you get to bigger supermarkets and even a mall. Nearer than the mall, a bigass stadium and a comparately newer and much more modern metro station.

4 blocks in the other direction, and all you have within walking distance is one small store, one wholesale supermarket, and a sports center.

I'm really not feeling it. It's not just the lack of convenience, I don't know if the area feels safe enough for me to let the kid live there.
I'm probably just apprehensive.

Hell, compared to where I grew up, it looks much safer. At least the apartment buildings have a fence and a guard/janitor bloke, have well-looked after greenery and wastebins, paved paths, and are not built on the side of a fucking crumbling hill.
 
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Make sure you're demanding pay raises
I was ambivalent about the boss that quit, but today everyone was airing their dirty laundry now that he's gone.

I have an autistic coworker who is extremely loyal to the job, been there longer than almost everyone. Yes he is retarded but he knows more than me by merit of experience. If he wasn't totally socially inept he'd be my boss twice over.

Boss didn't want to give him the cost-of-living adjustment everyone got because "he's not worth it." He didn't give the autist a single raise that the rest of us got. Had I heard about this earlier, I would have been raising hell for him to make a disability discrimination claim.

This is why you should talk in plain, number-dropping language with your coworkers about your wages. YOU may be the autist being withheld raises because of a protected class.

So I was ambivalant, but now I'm "Hooray! What a piece of shit!"
 
It was decided by my coworkers that I won't have much success getting women because I don't like superhero movies and rap music. Which I agree with, because... well, this isn't the right thread for my opinions on women.
I love superhero movies, but I hate everything Marvel and DC have been shitting out the last few years. I've always hated rap. Your coworkers probably aren't wrong, women tend to just act like they like whatever's popular and if you don't like it you're weird. So do a lot of men, but the "consume product" mindset is insane with women.
 
Part of the problem is that we've just made some new friends who are trans, and they're decent people, but their first idea of him coming out as trans is to support him.
Good luck, because while the best thing you can do is discourage him from the cock chop and other irreversible horrible mistakes, doing that will likely end the friendship. It's a cult and cults aggressively destroy friendships and other relationships of cultists.

You should probably try it anyway, even though your heart will probably be broken as your friend disconnects from you for doing it. Just make it clear there's always a channel for communication open if they want it. Don't expect that to happen though.

Best of luck to you although what you are looking at is some pain. This kind of shit almost never ends well.
My wrist is broken from third story fall to the ground. No, I have no idea why I'm still alive. (I wasn't suicidal, it just happened thanks to my retarded-self) This is same arm who's thumb I knifed accidently

Doing good in all other senses :)
Dude, don't do roofing when you're hung over. And if you weren't doing roofing, what the absolute FUCK WERE you doing?
 
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I lost a kitten. I have an outdoor cat colony, which I’ve taken care of for years, and they have a pretty sweet set-up… but because we’re broke, I can’t spay and neuter every single one of them, at least on time. Well, one had a kitten in September.

I fell in love with this little boy. Colorpoint markings, blue eyes. Already wracked up a $300 vet bill for him to give him a clean bill of health. I was either going to adopt him as an indoor cat myself, or give him to a friend. He does NOT stray, he’s a good boy. He stays in his heated box with mom, aunt, and grandma.

Sometime between 5:30am and 7:30am yesterday, he disappeared. Can’t find him. Went through neighbors’ houses. Put out all of his info on relevant apps. Papered the shelter and other cat places. I’m devastated. I’m scared something or someone got him, even though there was not one kerfuffle outside. I need an online hug.
 
I got my surgery tomorrow morning. If you don't hear from me by Sunday then I probably never woke up from the anaesthesia
God bless you. I don't know the seriousness of your condition or the type and kind of surgery you'll be having, but do know anesthesiologists are among the most highly trained specialists on the planet. If going under and not coming back is your biggest concern, know the professional putting you asleep will, in all probability, successfully wake you up.
 
God bless you. I don't know the seriousness of your condition or the type and kind of surgery you'll be having, but do know anesthesiologists are among the most highly trained specialists on the planet. If going under and not coming back is your biggest concern, know the professional putting you asleep will, in all probability, successfully wake you up.
I'm pretty sure I'll be fine, but last time I was put under for surgery was when I was a kid and when I woke up I woke up crying hard with no memory why and an increased tolerance for pain.
 
I got locked out of my account, because the email was down. And I have decided to stop using my PWO, as to save money. I've been on caffeine for so long, that I'm not sure if I notice a difference.
 
Dude, don't do roofing when you're hung over. And if you weren't doing roofing, what the absolute FUCK WERE you doing?
How you know? Yes I was doing roofing...

Vingle: And I have decided to stop using my PWO, as to save money. I've been on caffeine for so long, that I'm not sure if I notice a difference.
Try lay it off, I had heart issues last time I went on caffeine all the time
 
dad might be going to jail for talking with minors
He's definitely fucked up, but just speaking sexually with a minor won't land you in jail. The police needs to have proof that he had intent of meeting up with the minor. And that's not him just writing up an date and place for meeting, as the intent could've been to ghost the minor.

I'm not an expert at law, so I could be wrong about this.
 
He's definitely fucked up, but just speaking sexually with a minor won't land you in jail. The police needs to have proof that he had intent of meeting up with the minor. And that's not him just writing up an date and place for meeting, as the intent could've been to ghost the minor.

I'm not an expert at law, so I could be wrong about this.
She's all the way in Italy anyway. It's fucked up but things at home have been fucked up for so long I don't care anymore. The screaming, the throwing things, the crying, I don't feel anything about it but my body is still reacting physically. I've been shaking all day and everything hurts. It's lame.
 
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