How are you doing? - Kiwi Farms Wellness Check

[VargReallyDidNothingWrong]

Mine still opens, sure it's got a giant duct running through it, but there's still space there.

The cabinet for the ducting over the stove at my apartment also works, and yes I also store stuff I use very rarely in that cabinet next to the ductwork.

But I have seen that whole area blanked off with a "fake" panel to make it not look out of place with the rest of the cabinetry before.

 

[Sniperwoof]

SMH women think they're entitled to a romantic relationship just because a guy asked them to dance. They really do only want one thing.


Retard doesn't realize that you can't physically fit a sliding drawer into space that's being occupied by the bottom of the sink, the drain plumbing, etc.

Thinks it's a jewish trick to ... do something???


Retard doesn't realize that the thing over his stove is a vent hood for his stove and consequentially there's shit in that cabinet space that are needed to make that shit work like ducting, etc.

Unless you live in some sort of hellhole without a venilated hood for your stove in which case lmao poor

I know I disagreed with your dumb post in E&H but you don't have to follow me around and shriek incoherently.

You have enough natural defects. There is no need to supplement by acting stupid.

 

[Blamo2000]

Feeling a lot better. More sleep and physical activity does wonders.

 

[VargReallyDidNothingWrong]

I know I disagreed with your dumb post in E&H but you don't have to follow me around and shriek incoherently.

I looked back like 3 pages worth of reactions and you weren't in there, so either you imagined this whole situation, or you specifically remember negrating a post of mine ages ago and I have been living rent free in your head ever since. Both options are equally gay for you to admit to.

You have enough natural defects. There is no need to supplement.

I'm not the one stupid enough to not know what a decorative cabinet panel is for

 

[twisted cycle path]

I looked back like 3 pages worth of reactions and you weren't in there, so either you imagined this whole situation, or you specifically remember negrating a post of mine ages ago and I have been living rent free in your head ever since. Both options are equally gay for you to admit to.


I'm not the one stupid enough to not know what a decorative cabinet panel is for

Most people in this thread, and on this website for that matter, are worthy of love and life and should not harm or kill themselves in any circumstances.

You specifically are a faggot for doing what you're doing and should fuck off or kill yourself immediately.

 

[VargReallyDidNothingWrong]

Most people in this thread, and on this website for that matter, are worthy of love and life and should not harm or kill themselves in any circumstances.

You specifically are a faggot for doing what you're doing and should fuck off or kill yourself immediately.

You sound like you're very unhappy with your life and are lashing out. I recommend therapy. I hope you feel better soon.

 

[twisted cycle path]

You sound like you're very unhappy with your life and are lashing out. I recommend therapy. I hope you feel better soon.

yeah that's why people come to this thread retard. I hope you stop arguing with people in the therapy thread about cabinets like a fucking dumb nigger

 

[VargReallyDidNothingWrong]

yeah that's why people come to this thread retard.

I'm glad I was able to serve as your punching bag in this thread so you could feel better about yourself.

Get well soon!

 

[Friend of Dorothy Parker]

after I spent the night at his place taking care of his emotions.

Don't do this. Not that it's not a nice thing to do, but the problem is - you saw it as connecting, whereas he...didn't. He - and I'm not saying he was deliberately or consciously doing it - used you in that moment for what he wanted/needed in that moment.

I've been there (long ago). But my perspective on it now is twofold: 1) it's not mean not to give that effort/labor, and 2) save that energy for people/things with an existing, reciprocal level of caring. ...But if you're going to do it anyway, do it with eyes wide open that it's false intimacy, and assume and expect and want nothing from it.

 

[Ughubughughughughughghlug]

A coworker - one of very few I actually talk to - asked me when I was planning on getting married. He comes from a very traditional society and got married recently. Arranged, that level of tradition. The question unsettled me much more than I would have ever expected.

 

[Doctor John B. Zyklon]

Looked at an apartment, price is right but man, is it kind of ghetto. Think I'd rather pay more and have something nicer. Hoping to see a duplex tomorrow and snag it, Having a yard would be nice.

Rental market is still fucked. I hate it.

 

[Nick Obre]

Looked at an apartment, price is right but man, is it kind of ghetto. Think I'd rather pay more and have something nicer. Hoping to see a duplex tomorrow and snag it, Having a yard would be nice.

Rental market is still fucked. I hate it.

As I've documented here, I've been going through that recently, and my advice is YES, give the area as much weight as, or more, the apartment itself. Does it look safe? Does it look like you'll have constant annoyances from the neighbors? Are there good stores for your basic needs nearby? Are there good transit and/or public transportation points nearby? (that may be less important if you're in a car-centric culture, I'm from a place which values public transportation a lot more than the US for instance, so having easy access to a Metro station or other convenient ways to go downtown or such is a huge factor; for you it might be more about car safety and ease of access to highways or main streets, etc).

Some of the apartments I checked, though not amazing on their own, I could have seen myself living in them; but living where they are would have been a nuisance at best, a disaster at worst.

 

[Blamo2000]

Looked at an apartment, price is right but man, is it kind of ghetto. Think I'd rather pay more and have something nicer. Hoping to see a duplex tomorrow and snag it, Having a yard would be nice.

Rental market is still fucked. I hate it.

I wish you good luck.

 

[Vibe_Guy]

Today's mental state:
WE'RE SO BACK!
We're back! (weekend yay)
Bros...
Its over.
It's so over.

 

[Right Butt Cheek]

Don't do this. Not that it's not a nice thing to do, but the problem is - you saw it as connecting, whereas he...didn't. He - and I'm not saying he was deliberately or consciously doing it - used you in that moment for what he wanted/needed in that moment.

I've been there (long ago). But my perspective on it now is twofold: 1) it's not mean not to give that effort/labor, and 2) save that energy for people/things with an existing, reciprocal level of caring. ...But if you're going to do it anyway, do it with eyes wide open that it's false intimacy, and assume and expect and want nothing from it.

Yeah, and I know this now and completely agree with your assessment of the situation. Def gonna take your advice and be cautious about doing this from now on, thank you.

 

[Right Butt Cheek]

Looked at an apartment, price is right but man, is it kind of ghetto. Think I'd rather pay more and have something nicer. Hoping to see a duplex tomorrow and snag it, Having a yard would be nice.

Rental market is still fucked. I hate it.

Good luck!

Edit: Sorry for double post.

 

[McMitch]

I’ve essentially ghosted this one girl I’ve been friends with for a while. I like her a lot, and have been attracted to her, but she’s been fucking her weed dealer.

Doing so probably affects me more than her, especially since this means I really don’t have any other friends right now. Life provides lonesome times and less lonesome times, and I’m entering another example of the former it seems.

 

[Betonhaus]

The person that was going to buy my Switch changed her mind as "her nephews wanted a PS5 instead." no comment. Went to my physio appointment, but was turned away as they didn't accept my insurance and i couldn't pay up front. I did text my old boss to get an update of how things are going there, and I have a meeting with an employment assistance program later today. it finally snowed so i can't safely drive until i get newer tires that I can't afford. I'm just tired, I don't want to do this anymore.

 

[Humbert Humbert]

I’m better now. I move on quick, but that wasn’t easy. Part of the reason I was so terrified to move on is because once I lose feelings, they’re gone forevermore.

A few ago, I hit that realization that I could do anything I wanted. I could start making fursuits (a bit tough since i’m not a furry), I could start selling crack and make a killing, I could go back to school and achieve my dreams of being a medical examiner and autopsy bodies for the rest of my life until I too end up belly open on that cold slab of steel.

The world is my oyster. Or rather, it’s Humbert Humbert’s. I’ve missed channeling him to do morally bankrupt things on the internet. Something in this stirred him, like a bear from hibernation in the spring.

This roleplay is fucking confusing but best of luck dude(?).

Humbert Humbert started off as a joke until it wasn’t anymore, I take this shit serious. I hate to break it to you but some part of me doesn’t even consider it roleplaying, it’s a seamless transition from good, sweet, innocent young woman to horrible monster.

The world is my oyster, and I decided to let Humbert Humbert take the reins. It’s good to be back.

 

[CoolFool]

I'm not doing good tbh. I'm an optimistic person and naturally always happy. Even when things aren't going well, you'll never find my sulking or talking bad about it. I'm pretty bubbly and love to laugh and cheer people up. But I feel really sad lately. I mean real sadness. I just want to sleep all day.

If I had to be honest with myself as to why, it's because I work too much and because all of my once tight knit friend group is drifting away. I don't feel like I have anyone I can actually talk to. And I don't even nessesarily mean talk to about serious shit, I mean just having fun or laughing at stupid things or watching cheesy movies etc. Everyone's busy (myself included) and when we do get together, everyone just wants to talk about how much they hate work, how shit their life is, how expensive everything is, and how crazy the world is.

It bums me out to constantly talk about negative things all the time. I try to be a good friend and listen but at some point I just don't even want to socialize because it's just a non-stop whine and bitch fest. Hell, even my young nephew was annoyed at this, he mocked my family last week when we got together to hang out. He said "Wait let me pretend I'm you guys: "oooh look at me, my life sucks, I don't have any money, oooh no!" (honestly it was funny but still, it's sad that even a kid has picked up on this).

Also...I'd never admit this offline but I'm freaking lonely and wish I had someone. I'm sick of some women acting like wanting a partner makes you weak, and that you should be fulfilled without a man in your life; they say, getting a partner is something that's nice to have, but you should be okay if you never get one, and if you need a man in your life to feel happy, then there's something wrong with you. Like yeah I mostly agree but I also think it's 100% natural to want someone and to feel a sense of sadness/loneliness when you don't have anyone, and haven't for a long time. It's gotten so bad that I came close to contacting an ex I haven't talked to in years. Luckily, I'm not THAT stupid, I know reaching out with an ex, especially one that I have no feelings for nor any plans to get back with, is a shitty thing to do.

I feel so unlike myself lately and I hate this. I feel even more pathetic that I'm sharing this with trolls on a gossip forum rather than a real friend (no offense, kiwis).