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Currently difficult to deal with visiting my mother. She won't stop barking about her problems.
I don't know much about Brazil except the things a lot of people from there have told me. Had a coworker once that told me that while the nation exists there is not much of a concept and there is still a very strong sense of classism associated with skin color.
You used a great term: classisism. Because it is what this country has.
There is this video, where I was able to summarize:
### Summary of the Video Content on the Vinicius Junior Racism Case and Broader Societal Reflections

**Professor Rafael Queiroz** discusses the widely publicized case of racism against Vinicius Junior, a prominent Brazilian footballer playing in Spain, analyzing its social and political implications within the postmodern Western system. The video critically examines the narratives surrounding racism, media influence, and broader socio-economic challenges, especially in Europe.

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### Key Insights and Arguments

- **Vinicius Junior Case Context:**
- The case of racism against Vinicius Junior gained *disproportionate* media attention.
- Rafael Queiroz asserts that **Spain is not structurally racist**, though individual racist acts exist.
- He questions the logic of labeling Spain as racist while a Black athlete like Vinicius Junior, who is a millionaire and a leading player at one of the world’s top football clubs, achieves such high status in the country.
- The narrative of structural racism in Spain is portrayed as **irrational and driven by media agendas**.

- **Media and Racism Discourse:**
- The media often elevates racism (and machismo) as the *primary social evil*, sometimes overshadowing other severe issues like violence, poverty, and corruption.
- Example given: In Rio de Janeiro, despite frequent violent deaths and societal problems, racism is framed as the dominant problem by the press.
- The media’s role is critiqued as **masking deeper societal problems** by focusing excessively on racism narratives.
- The Brazilian national football team’s gesture of wearing black shirts to honor Vinicius Junior and Black people is discussed as symbolic but somewhat misplaced given Brazil's long history of racial integration through sport.

- **Historical and Cultural Perspectives on Racism:**
- A Spanish government minister linked the origins of racism to Spain and the Inquisition, blaming Catholicism and Iberian culture for racism.
- Queiroz challenges this, emphasizing that **modern biological racism originated in England**, particularly through figures like Francis Galton, and not from Iberian religious policies.
- He points out that blaming Iberian culture for all racism and machismo is simplistic and ignores the historical role of Anglo-Saxon Protestant societies in developing racist ideologies.

- **Racism and Societal Crises in Europe:**
- The rise of racist incidents in Europe is linked to a **broader systemic crisis** affecting jobs, social integration, and demographics.
- Many Europeans feel marginalized politically and economically, especially amidst aging populations and labor market challenges.
- Immigrants are often scapegoated, but Queiroz argues the real issue is **capitalist exploitation of cheap immigrant labor**, not purely racial tensions.
- The European demographic decline and the preference for cheaper immigrant labor create social tensions that are poorly addressed by politicians and media.

- **Football and Identity:**
- European football clubs are predominantly composed of foreign players, leading to local fans feeling disconnected from their teams.
- Complaints about excessive African players in European teams, such as France’s national team, are sometimes misinterpreted as racist, but may reflect **concerns about cultural identity and local representation**.
- Queiroz highlights the **natural dialectic of "strangeness"** between locals and foreigners, suggesting the need for measured integration policies to avoid social ruptures and racist outbursts.

- **Media’s Role in Amplifying Racism Narratives:**
- The media often sensationalizes incidents of racism or invents stories to maintain a continuous narrative.
- This leads to the false impression that **racism is the sole or dominant societal problem**, eclipsing others like unemployment, poverty, public safety, and corruption.
- Journalism has become **thematic and agenda-driven**, focusing on identity politics at the expense of broader social realities.

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### Timeline Table of Major Points Discussed

| Time (Approx.) | Topic/Theme | Key Points |
|----------------|----------------------------------------------------|------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------|
| 00:00 - 01:30 | Introduction & Vinicius Junior case overview | Case exaggerated; Spain not structurally racist; Vinicius’s success contradicts racism claims |
| 01:30 - 03:50 | Media’s role & social problem framing | Racism elevated over other serious societal issues; media narrative masking deeper problems |
| 03:50 - 06:00 | Historical origins of racism & cultural critique | Spain & Catholicism blamed by some; actual biological racism roots in England; critique of oversimplification |
| 06:00 - 08:10 | Racism in Europe & social exclusion | Immigrants vs. native Europeans; economic and demographic pressures; political alienation |
| 08:10 - 10:40 | Economic exploitation & immigration | Capitalist use of cheap immigrant labor; demographic decline; lack of social policies |
| 10:40 - 12:50 | Football, identity, and racism | Foreign players dominate European teams; identity concerns; natural tension between locals and foreigners |
| 12:50 - 14:00 | Media sensationalism & conclusion | Racism narrative exaggerated; journalism’s thematic bias; calls for balanced social awareness |

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### Summary of Core Concepts

| Concept | Description |
|------------------------------|------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------|
| Structural Racism | The idea that a society's institutions systemically discriminate against a race; *disputed in Spain’s case* |
| Biological Racism | Racism based on presumed biological differences, historically linked to England and Anglo-Saxon culture |
| Media Narratives | The framing of racism as the central societal problem, often overshadowing other issues |
| Social Alienation | Feelings of exclusion by native populations in Europe due to immigration and economic pressures |
| Capitalist Exploitation | Use of immigrant labor as cheap workforce, contributing to social tensions |
| Identity & Representation | Local fan concerns over lack of native players in football teams reflecting community identity |
| Thematic Journalism | Media focus on identity and conflict issues at the expense of broader social contexts |

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### Conclusion

The video provides a **critical and nuanced perspective on the Vinicius Junior racism case**, urging caution against simplistic interpretations of racism as the sole or overriding social problem. It challenges prevailing media narratives, highlights the socio-economic and demographic complexities in Europe, and calls for a more balanced understanding of race, identity, and societal challenges. The discussion stresses that racism exists but should be contextualized within wider systemic issues rather than exaggerated or exploited for ideological purposes.
 
That's just how law is. You can't paraphrase. It's exactly like what it's written
In a couple of topics, like public employment and administrative process they are not so literal. In many cases it's a case of "You know or you don't" since it involves dates and exceptions to the rules, which makes it much more easy (like discarding all solutions that exclude other methods).

Equality law not only relies on knowing lengthy definitions about what constitutes Sexual Harassment and Sex based Harassment, but also about reports or shit the government might ask or not ask when making laws or taking decisions.
You used a great term: classisism. Because it is what this country has.
Regarding that there is something that picked my attention specially. The "Spanish media attributes most societal evils to machismo and racism and thus they are magnified in the news", which is true but a lot worse than you think.

When i studied edition and text structure i learned about this little thing called "Style book" which is some sort of guide regarding writing style, structure and treatment of news for each publication in the country. And each has their own slightly different than the others depending on their political leaning.

But there is a universal thing regarding all publications: how news about murdered women are displayed. All publications will try to blame it on men or "male supremacist violence" while ignoring all other circumstances that might have seen the murder in a different light like a criminal record or prior violent actions done by the woman, drugs and acohol abuse and legal disputes between the two (specially if the guy was being divorce raped).

And i'm not surprised that this is also done regarding nigs and ragheads since a few months back a group of moroccans beated an old man visiting a graveyard and a mob of people hunted them down and engaged actively in fights with other mudslimes. The media called it "A baffling outburst of racist violence" rather than explaining those people sought revenge for an old man beaten an inch away from his life. But the scum of the earth (journalists) need eyeballs to pay them attention.
 
Eh, it's not the sex itself that plagues the incel mind, it's usually the lack of physical and emotional intimacy at all. Humans don't seem to be made to go without either for extreme periods of time. After enough years pass, it does erode your sanity and sense of belonging in the world. It's kind of like being rejected by the world and rejecting the world. And the longer it goes, the deeper you dig yourself in your hole.
I'm perfectly sane, thankyouverymuch.
If you'll excuse me I need to go outside and talk to the squirrels.
 
I went on a date. Insane chemistry. Totally unexpected for us both. He doesn’t know it yet but I want him. I want That One, thank you very much. He likes that I’m a nerdy plain Jane and I like that he’s an incredible tattoo artist. His cat also looks like mashed potatoes. I hope it works out. My heart was sucked dry over the last ten years by dudes who just refuse to deliver when I asked them to step up. I learned that nice girls finish last and aren’t respected, so now I’m a ruthless bitch and I will get what I want or they’re getting the flick. I give no more fucks. I want sex, commitment, adventure. No compromise.
 
Moody bitch mood rn. I thought I was having a good day but as soon as the sun went down, my mood flipped.
I'm not a garbage can, I'm a garbage can't. I want to stop feeling sorry for myself and actually switch things around, get shit done, but when push comes to shove I am stunlocked in grasping change, or the molehill I have to climb becomes a mountain and I quit due to a lack of patience to unfuck 20 years of a slow descend into what my life has become.

Something as simple as repeating one action, once every day feels unironically impossible. As soon as I feel comfortable and on a roll, I drop the ball somehow.

There's comfort in misery and I'm afraid of the unknown, but I also know I cannot keep living like this for fear of eventually causing someone else pain.
I wish someone could split my skull open and take a good, long look at my brain and then exorcise the ghosts or whatever is consistently tripping me up. Otherwise everything is my own damn fault and my heart couldn't possibly break even more than to accept that fact.
 
I really love doing stuff I did as a kid, it makes me wonder why we even have a concept of "Age inappropriate" things in terms of adults, 90% of kid stuff isn't dangerous or unhealthy to do as an adult. (Outside of eating glue and shitting your pants) Unlike the vice versa, where a kid could ruin their life if they did adult stuff at their age. I think this is what that one guy in this thread struggled with, the fear that childish hobbies are somehow dangerous. Strange. Anyway, where I was going with this is that I've just spent most of today playing Barbie games and eating birthday cake and it's been a blast. I also have an urge to start collecting old Disney princess merch, but my room is already full of books. Honestly, I should clean them out, I'm pretty sure 90% of them are useless middle school textbooks I forgot to return to the library years ago.
Moody bitch mood rn. I thought I was having a good day but as soon as the sun went down, my mood flipped.
I'm not a garbage can, I'm a garbage can't. I want to stop feeling sorry for myself and actually switch things around, get shit done, but when push comes to shove I am stunlocked in grasping change, or the molehill I have to climb becomes a mountain and I quit due to a lack of patience to unfuck 20 years of a slow descend into what my life has become.

Something as simple as repeating one action, once every day feels unironically impossible. As soon as I feel comfortable and on a roll, I drop the ball somehow.

There's comfort in misery and I'm afraid of the unknown, but I also know I cannot keep living like this for fear of eventually causing someone else pain.
I wish someone could split my skull open and take a good, long look at my brain and then exorcise the ghosts or whatever is consistently tripping me up. Otherwise everything is my own damn fault and my heart couldn't possibly break even more than to accept that fact.
This may sound blunt but do you have ADHD?
 
My cat went missing two days ago.
I was trying not to freak out, because she's scrappy and has gotten out before.

Be me
Take 2 hour nap because tired from last night's cat chase
Wake up
See post from local shelter

>"Wow that three legged cat looks just...like...mine."

PAnic.jpg
Open bathroom door
He's sitting right there. Safe and sound
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What are the CHANCES, man?
Literally the exact same down to the amputation spot. There were only SUBTLE differences in the face.
 
There's comfort in misery and I'm afraid of the unknown
I really feel you on this. It's taking the whole saying of "the devil you know is better than the devil you don't" to some extreme. I too am very much guilty of it.
I really love doing stuff I did as a kid, it makes me wonder why we even have a concept of "Age inappropriate" things in terms of adults, 90% of kid stuff isn't dangerous or unhealthy to do as an adult
I'm sure this is how you end up with the "Disney Adults" PPP and Null did a video on recently. Perhaps it is fine to do this as a woman, beeing into cutsey infantile things, but I find it unbecoming of a man to act this way.
 
After some slight adventuring past the line of sobriety, I have this 100% determination: weed does not belong in anybody's life no matter how therapeutic it may seem. It truly is something malignant and it opens you up to obscene danger. Alcohol is blessed by Christ but weed is death and psychosis waiting to happen. I'm kicking it. It's done.
 
I'm sure this is how you end up with the "Disney Adults" PPP and Null did a video on recently. Perhaps it is fine to do this as a woman, beeing into cutsey infantile things, but I find it unbecoming of a man to act this way.
I rather feel like it comes from basing your entire life/identity around it. Sorta like how a kid can get away with edgy adult jokes, but they become scary to their peers if all they do is go on WPD and talk about boobies and crime. Similarly with adults, where adults can have childish hobbies, but if they're spending most of their paycheck every month to go to a theme park and powerslam kids out of the line cause THEY wanna meet Mickey first then it's become a problem. I also don't think problems distinguish between genders, if it's fine for a woman then it's fine for a man, outside of things such as buying tampons to shove up your holes. That's in fact painful for a man.
It's my personal theory/opinion that the whole "Women can do this inconsequential thing but men can't" is partially, not entirely, but partially why we have so many "MtFs" now.
 
Still hemming and hawing on a big purchase I plan to make this weekend. If I get it I'll really regret it until the next paycheck or two, and if I don't I'll continually regret it until I eventually buy it anyways.
 
Well goddamn, I guess my pussy ass "anxiety" is just *gone* now lmao. The only problem really is fucking relating to people and getting bitches :lol:

That and I need glasses, fuckin "unc" mode but it is what it is. Probably the YEARS of staring at screens and getting arc flashed fucking degraded my vision but I'm still at a 20/25 lol.

I'm getting me some Ray-Ban Shooters and I'll fly with those on like a trve Aryanviation Chvd. If I need to be a 4 eyed prick I might as well look stylish eh?

Really wish I could meet some fuckers from here IRL, that way I know I can sperg a bit and still have fun. Real world has ghey shit like "filters" and all that lul

(I'm in an aight mood rn, which is quite cool :) )
 
This may sound blunt but do you have ADHD?
I was tested for and diagnosed with ADD back when I was 17, and while adderall never did a thing for me except give me brain zaps and make me sluggish, it's a diagnosis I've had in the back of my head, nagging me for years. I'll try bringing it up during my next appointment at the ward.
I really feel you on this. It's taking the whole saying of "the devil you know is better than the devil you don't" to some extreme. I too am very much guilty of it.
It sucks and I hate it. For all I know, if I had gone to the dog park today despite the shitty weather, something amazing might've happened. Not just for the off chance of meeting interesting people with cute dogs, but my streak of getting an hour+ of outdoors air into my lungs might have made my day better.
I'll never know, because I'm not some fourth dimensional creature who can see all outcomes of my actions.
Instead, I let my dog pick the second shortest route possible for our first walk of the day because the weather is atrocious.

But at least I made myself breakfast instead of settling for being peckish all day until my big evening meal.
Two terrible nights in a row without completely failing to keep up some positive momentum is a small victory I will try to allow myself to feel.
 
I'm on vacation. Went insane and drove for 7 hours myself, travel buddy covered the last hour. Had so many substances and caffeine that I can't even fall asleep and the sun is already coming up (we got here very, very late). I will definitely feel like shit later but for now I might just ride it out and stay up, then take a nap later. I'm excited to be in a different place. It's good to remind yourself that there's a large world out there. So I'm feeling optimistic :) and slightly mad from sleep deprivation. But at that point where it loops back around to feeling like you can do anything and everything. Crash is imminent wish me luck
 
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