I just feel bad for them. They shouldn't feel guilty for something they never did and probably weren't even alive when it happened, no one should. This advice applies to everyone except black people since the bad things that black people do still happen today.
I think it matters to an extent, being black means I'm dumber, more violent, I should be aware of that. My life matters less than a white person's, so I should prioritize white people. I guess that's insofar as much as it matters, so the constant depression and guilt isn't necessary as long as these truths can be swallowed. The problem is getting out of the constant guilt and depression whilst also being aware of reality. It's sort of like an orthorexic trying to get out of the constant fear of sweets whilst also being aware of their blood sugar levels.
As another racist CHUD chiming in, you've acknowledged that you're "black", whatever you think that means, and now you just need to get over it, it really isn't that big of a deal.
Again, from the perspective of a CHUD, the only thing we actually get mad about is when blacks are committing crime, endorsing criminal behavior, or are doing the black supremacist shit.
Also, your life doesn't "matter less than a white person's", this isn't something your average right wing or white person thinks. You are a child of God and in the eye's of our lord your life is equal to mine or any other white person's.
The only reason people say things like TND is when nigga's kill a white person, usually over them being white, other nigga's sweep for that criminal, specifically because they're black, and that make's normally rational people stop giving af about what they say.
You need to just calm down and accept yourself for who you are. Acknowledging the reality of black peoples issues doesn't mean you should prostrate yourself and bow at the white mans feet.
We don't want that.
What we want is for you to be a productive and healthy member of society who works to make things better for EVERYONE.
I support people being proud of being white, but I think it's dumb to be proud of being black.
Also, there's nothing wrong with being proud of who you are, even if that includes being black.
If you are the first black person in your family to get a degree, get a good job, have a traditional family, that's a valid reason to be proud that you are black AND that you are achieving milestones that for someone else might not carry the same weight.
The human experience is personal.
The issues come when black people, or really any race, starts acting like they have more of a reason to be proud that another race, and that being proud of being white makes you somehow bad.