So I’ve had a big falling out with my neighbour. I did absolutely everything I could for her, bought her things she needed, gave her some old stuff she needed, took her shopping, bought her cat food etc. I did this with the intention of being a good neighbour, and her cat became fast friends with me. But I’m depressed/emotionally unstable, so some days I’m happy and others I’m really sad. I made her aware of this. Whatever, right? But she seemed to misconstrue my “behaviour” as being narcissistic/controlling or something because some days I’m really outgoing and other days I’m really down, and she though it was about her.
I also checked in on her on the days she was sad, as I knew she was going through a really tough time, or at least that’s what she told me. I suppose checking in on someone regularly to see if they’re still alive counts as being a stalker? I was genuinely worried. I get this can be taken the wrong way, but that wasn’t my intentions.
Recently-ish, she sent me a nasty text that said all of this horrible shit, including that I’m a narcissistic abuser etc. I have not said one mean thing to her at all. But she knows that this is the one accusation that’d hurt me the most, as I’ve grown up with narcissistic close family members who have physically/verbally/mentally/sexually abused me (it was mostly verbal and physical, but that’s irrelevant). I’ve told her this previously, so she knows. I apologised for being up and down all the time as I can’t help it, and for my family scaring her with their yelling (at me) when they visited. I reminded her I’ve told her this. She then said that my problems didn’t even compare to her so much bigger problems (some sort of DV), even though she doesn’t know the details of most of what I’ve been through and therefore cannot make that judgment.
I ended up having a mental breakdown because of this bitch, but I’m not gonna go into it in case she reads this. I know she’d enjoy it.
Then she has the hide to go talking to her crazy friends on Twitter about me - good old subtweeting - and say that I am the shitty neighbour. These people regularly feed into her delusions of a reptilian government, gangstalkers, Freemason, and 9/11 conspiracies etc, by the way.
And then she says to them that I’m stealing her cat - I’m not, btw, I just give him pets when he comes up to me when I’m outside, and I haven’t even so much as seen him for weeks - and that I’m certified psychotic.
Well isn’t that the pot calling the kettle black? I’m not officially diagnosed as psychotic by my current psychiatrist, by the way, but even if I was, it wouldn’t matter. She made sure to twist it for maximum sympathy points, which she hardly got. She’s using stigma from mental illness (psychosis) to somehow make me look bad. Cuz we all know psychotic people are serial killers who eat infants for breakfast or something.
She said that I creep her out. Even though she’s a creepy old lady who talks in riddles about over the top government conspiracies that no one sane actually believes in. And she says that she wants to move because of how bad I am. I hope she does, far, far away.
I know I’m not the first person she’s treated this way. I don’t appreciate her spreading info on my mental health (she mentioned I see demons, as well). I’d love to straight out doxx her but I’m not too fond of doing that to people.
In all fairness, I have been completely ignoring her, even if she talks to me. Passive aggressive, sure, but it’s better than yelling. She doesn’t deserve my attention or help at all. I suppose that’d explain the “creepiness”.
I kinda get things from her perspective, but I still think she’s a shitty human being.
Sorry for the long story, but if shit gets real this summarises what happened.
