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That's some damn lazy burial right there..didn't even smooth the dirt down or anything.Mike feigning remorse over his emotional and physical abuse.
Our last photo of Julie.
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Lol even her plot is fat.
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Right? I'm a little dubious over the authenticity of the photo because the plot should have been twice as wide.
I'm so sad that'll be my last Julie fat joke.
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>life partner
didn't he break up with julie right before she kicked it
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Yeah, if he's sincere he might have had the intentions of playing the game of breaking up and reuniting so long as she seceded more and more control over to him. It was a tactic and not sincere on his part.
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Tfw even mydeathspace thinks you're bad people.
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I didn't follow or read the Terryberry thread, but I agree with Clem here. I think if something like this ever happens again, the thread should be temporarily closed to cool down, and then a month or more later reopened so people can analyze it. I wasn't interested in reading the thread while she was alive, but I'm oddly more fascinated than ever to read it now.
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I don't know that anything new would be brought up. The cow is dried up literally.
Maybe a thread on Mike. If there's enough content and he'll continue his internet presence.
Maybe a thread on Mike. If there's enough content and he'll continue his internet presence.
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He doesn't have an internet presence. The only stuff we know about him is thru Julie.
I kinda like the idea of keeping the thread open because there's always old accounts and crap to dig thru and for updates like Mike writing a wall of text about how much he misses beating his mentally retarded dead girlfriend.
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Only internet presence we have for mike is a rather bland FB page, his Fetlife, and his lurker accounts here.
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I'm sure I'm not the only one who poked around after her death and found additional stuff. Nothing which would justify re-opening the thread, though.
In some ways, MDS is probably a better place for an ongoing discussion about Julie's life and death but I doubt any of them will put in the legwork to turn their current "bad kiwis" thread into something meaningful.
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Well considering I live in the San city as her, I might drop by and leave flowers on her gravehttp://yourlifemoments.ca/sitepages/obituary.asp?oId=962367
Nobody's going to visit and yell JULAAAAY?
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Oh. Now that worked. Anyways. First time poster here, but I basically just logged on because both the families statement on Julie's obituary, and Mike's recent statements made me decide I wanted to clear up a few things here. Now, this isn't to make anyone seem better. Oh. Fuck that shit. See, I got fucking grievances with both mike, and her family. You guys too, to some degree- but honestly? Far, far less than them.
Here's the stuff you guys were missing :: Let's take it from the top.
A) Where Mike factors into her death - See, the reason those two broke up, was because Mike had been committing prostitution on the side (And no, not paying hookers- no, he was apparently getting pumped full of spooge for cash). Aaaand Julie there found out what he was doing ...and got -angry- at him for it. Not broke up with him, not shivved him (So much sadness). She got mad, and hurt.
And Mike, esteemed and loving partner as he'd like to portray himself, he broke up with her because he said she had no right to be angry at him for being a cum-dump for cash. He just was like "I cannot do this any more- your hysterics over my behavior have no place in my totally well put together life. Come back when you have no say over anything I do. Or If I feel like running another train on you."
B) Oh. Right. On the loving partner note. So early on, he sorta raped her, twice. And once was a gang rape thing with a pal of his. That's y'know totally water under the bridge.
Where her family factors into her death.
C) So, any single part of this post where the family says they couldn't have seen the death coming is the biggest pile of horseshit in the world. Considering that both the police -and- the family were contacted a few days prior to her suicide- in regards to the fact that she had the intention, a motive, and had been formulating several plans.
D) And they -responded- to said message two days later (Earlier in the day in which she killed herself), and said that 'they had a handle on this' and that they were essentially used to dealing with her histrionics, but 'Julie does what she wants'. In no way did they put any real stock in what she said.
<< The only person who legitimately gets to say they put the effort into saving her ass, is her foster mother.
Hell, my own role was trivial at best. I tipped off the cops, and her family- and then stepped back, since I realized she would have endeavored to latch onto me as an emotional support, and I was in no position to do that. Especially not as a surrogate for Mike.
E) For those of you who have stated you guys had no impact on her. I'm Sorry to say this- But you -were- one of the things she mentioned when she had called me to ramble. Mostly in the context that you guys would be happy when she died. And, on a certain level, it was sort of accurate. A number of you found her death hilarious. And, really- that's okay. Humanity is, after all, pretty cancerous- and we have a surplus of people- so a bunch of us shuffling off the mortal coil is generally pretty useful. And you got a good laugh out of stressing her out, and seeing her dead. So, No real reason to regret it.
I honestly wish you luck on pushing more people to kill themselves, since- I actually saw a bunch of the messages you guys had filled her facebook. And she had gotten phone calls and e-mail spams from some of you guys.
She made the dumb choice of trying to say she wasn't bothered by you guys, and trying to play it off, and even tried to provoke you guys back, and play it off as jokes. And, frankly. She fucked up, made a spectacle of herself, and couldn't take it.
Still, you can feel somewhat relieved if this bothers you, since, yhe straw on the camels back though, admittedly, was the fact that her only real support was ambivalent side-liners, an absolutely shitty and criminally negligent family, and the biggest dirtbag of a boyfriend she could find.
So, Honestly. Matter of time. So, no real harm done. Just don't delude yourself, is all.
Anyways, Peace out, Kids.
Here's the stuff you guys were missing :: Let's take it from the top.
A) Where Mike factors into her death - See, the reason those two broke up, was because Mike had been committing prostitution on the side (And no, not paying hookers- no, he was apparently getting pumped full of spooge for cash). Aaaand Julie there found out what he was doing ...and got -angry- at him for it. Not broke up with him, not shivved him (So much sadness). She got mad, and hurt.
And Mike, esteemed and loving partner as he'd like to portray himself, he broke up with her because he said she had no right to be angry at him for being a cum-dump for cash. He just was like "I cannot do this any more- your hysterics over my behavior have no place in my totally well put together life. Come back when you have no say over anything I do. Or If I feel like running another train on you."
B) Oh. Right. On the loving partner note. So early on, he sorta raped her, twice. And once was a gang rape thing with a pal of his. That's y'know totally water under the bridge.
Where her family factors into her death.
C) So, any single part of this post where the family says they couldn't have seen the death coming is the biggest pile of horseshit in the world. Considering that both the police -and- the family were contacted a few days prior to her suicide- in regards to the fact that she had the intention, a motive, and had been formulating several plans.
D) And they -responded- to said message two days later (Earlier in the day in which she killed herself), and said that 'they had a handle on this' and that they were essentially used to dealing with her histrionics, but 'Julie does what she wants'. In no way did they put any real stock in what she said.
<< The only person who legitimately gets to say they put the effort into saving her ass, is her foster mother.
Hell, my own role was trivial at best. I tipped off the cops, and her family- and then stepped back, since I realized she would have endeavored to latch onto me as an emotional support, and I was in no position to do that. Especially not as a surrogate for Mike.
E) For those of you who have stated you guys had no impact on her. I'm Sorry to say this- But you -were- one of the things she mentioned when she had called me to ramble. Mostly in the context that you guys would be happy when she died. And, on a certain level, it was sort of accurate. A number of you found her death hilarious. And, really- that's okay. Humanity is, after all, pretty cancerous- and we have a surplus of people- so a bunch of us shuffling off the mortal coil is generally pretty useful. And you got a good laugh out of stressing her out, and seeing her dead. So, No real reason to regret it.
I honestly wish you luck on pushing more people to kill themselves, since- I actually saw a bunch of the messages you guys had filled her facebook. And she had gotten phone calls and e-mail spams from some of you guys.
She made the dumb choice of trying to say she wasn't bothered by you guys, and trying to play it off, and even tried to provoke you guys back, and play it off as jokes. And, frankly. She fucked up, made a spectacle of herself, and couldn't take it.
Still, you can feel somewhat relieved if this bothers you, since, yhe straw on the camels back though, admittedly, was the fact that her only real support was ambivalent side-liners, an absolutely shitty and criminally negligent family, and the biggest dirtbag of a boyfriend she could find.
So, Honestly. Matter of time. So, no real harm done. Just don't delude yourself, is all.
Anyways, Peace out, Kids.
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I went to visit her grave yesterday and offered my condolences to the family in question. The family wasn't there, but I decided to visit the gravesite anyway to say hi.
Although I haven't met her in person, the experience felt way too surreal and really depressing for me; I only just discovered her thread a week ago too so make of that what you will. Someone had written her name out with sticks, making it easier for me to locate her grave....
I really don't have anything else to say except that I hope she at the very least found peace in the afterlife, if it exists.
Although I haven't met her in person, the experience felt way too surreal and really depressing for me; I only just discovered her thread a week ago too so make of that what you will. Someone had written her name out with sticks, making it easier for me to locate her grave....
I really don't have anything else to say except that I hope she at the very least found peace in the afterlife, if it exists.
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Also, thanks for Tacoman for the reminder :: If you want another reason to hate Mike. He already got another woman pregnant prior to his relationship with Julie, and he would occasionally bully her with the on and off 'consideration/threat' that he was going to leave her, so he could play father with that woman. (...Not that any woman in their right mind should ever let him play father. ...Or mother. Whatever.)
It always struck me as a cowardly tactic meant to keep her trying to fight for his attention, as well as a means of trying to erode away at her decision to not have a child. Especially since he'd repeatedly stated he wanted one with her, and she'd be more attractive if she was pregnant.
And I mean, on the subject of mother, or father, or whatever. Hey, Mike. If you claim to be a trans woman, you shouldn't use the excuse that obviously you'd sleep with someone else, because 'You're a Typical Guy'. Cheers, M8.
Really, the biggest shame in this situation, if anyone's going to consider Julie's death a shame- is that she died instead of you. The world could have been cleaner still~
It always struck me as a cowardly tactic meant to keep her trying to fight for his attention, as well as a means of trying to erode away at her decision to not have a child. Especially since he'd repeatedly stated he wanted one with her, and she'd be more attractive if she was pregnant.
And I mean, on the subject of mother, or father, or whatever. Hey, Mike. If you claim to be a trans woman, you shouldn't use the excuse that obviously you'd sleep with someone else, because 'You're a Typical Guy'. Cheers, M8.
Really, the biggest shame in this situation, if anyone's going to consider Julie's death a shame- is that she died instead of you. The world could have been cleaner still~
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Any way you can confirm any of this?
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Honestly, there's a number of allusions to some of these things in her postings (the pregnancy thing has been touched upon repeatedly, for instance). But- if we're going to be completely straightforward, I was -one- of the guys she cheated on Mike with.
Anyways, the main reason I've been posting this, is to get Mike's attention- considering he checks this site somewhat frequently, and I just want him to know that some people out there know just how culpable he was in everything. It really is funny to see him say how much he loved her, in the face of it all.
Edit: I can wholly appreciate that you are not necessarily taking this at face value. But, Seriously- Julie -wasn't- subtle. She made posts on facebook when she was feeling awful, she would call her friends and acquaintances when she was suicidal, or felt like things were spiraling out of control.
When she called me with a clear plan of action towards self destruction, and why it was happening, I simply went through the motions of contacting those who -should- have been able to intervene. And then watched them all do nothing. Pity, pity.
Seriously, though- with the gab on her, why is it so surprising she talked to someone before she looped a belt around her neck. I wasn't the only one, either. She had contacted a few people in regards to her plans.
Anyways, the main reason I've been posting this, is to get Mike's attention- considering he checks this site somewhat frequently, and I just want him to know that some people out there know just how culpable he was in everything. It really is funny to see him say how much he loved her, in the face of it all.
Edit: I can wholly appreciate that you are not necessarily taking this at face value. But, Seriously- Julie -wasn't- subtle. She made posts on facebook when she was feeling awful, she would call her friends and acquaintances when she was suicidal, or felt like things were spiraling out of control.
When she called me with a clear plan of action towards self destruction, and why it was happening, I simply went through the motions of contacting those who -should- have been able to intervene. And then watched them all do nothing. Pity, pity.
Seriously, though- with the gab on her, why is it so surprising she talked to someone before she looped a belt around her neck. I wasn't the only one, either. She had contacted a few people in regards to her plans.
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i hope chris is next
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Because we have a long history with weens popping in the thread, claiming to know cows, and trying to get attention. Which is why we're gonna have a moderator check you out.
Stick around.
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