How our community handles death

[Tacoman]

A mutual friend between Julie and I informed me that apparently Mike dumped her shortly before her suicide and suspects that was the last straw. And based on what I know of both Julie and Mike, I believe that to be true

 

[A Skeleton]

Her own obituary barely even mentions her.. the least her family could've done was write something that wasn't just garbled white trash gibberish about her 37463276854 parents they pulled out of their asses at the last minute

 

[repentance]

A mutual friend between Julie and I informed me that apparently Mike dumped her shortly before her suicide and suspects that was the last straw. And based on what I know of both Julie and Mike, I believe that to be true

Her last post made it pretty clear that the possibility of living with Mike was one of the few things she regarded as a reason to live. She seemed uncertain whether it would ever happen.

I do think Julie lacked the maturity to think beyond the moment and was certainly capable of impulsive suicide - though whether she was just testing the waters when she died is something we'll never know. Given her last post, though, there was every reason to be watching her closely if there'd been any drama between her and Mike in the days leading up to her death. Julie was not a person who hid her angst.

Scumbag has been lurking here again recently.

 

[Hot bean soup]

Heh.

But yeah, if Julie posted on her Facebook that she wanted the thread to be deleted (which I don't think she did), I would have deleted it. But she didn't. Julie enjoyed the thread and you can see this early in the pages of that thread, she liked the attention, she repeatedly states "I don't mind, etc" and only ever talks about the Farms whenever we get something wrong.

I have a very strong theory of what led up to Julie's death and it certainly does not involve the thread or the Farms.

 

[juntaro]

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When she first noticed the thread, she stated in one of her posts that she "does not care" about the thread and thus dismissed it. Guess she changed her opinion about it afterwards.

 

[repentance]

When she first noticed the thread, she stated in one of her posts that she "does not care" about the thread and thus dismissed it. Guess she changed her opinion about it afterwards.

Every second cow claims they "don't care". The ones who truly don't tend to ignore us rather than read what we write and "correct" us.

Whether she cared on her own behalf or more because Mike got butthurt about the spotlight we shone on him is a question for the ages.

 

[weaselhat]

Every second cow claims they "don't care". The ones who truly don't tend to ignore us rather than read what we write and "correct" us.

Whether she cared on her own behalf or more because Mike got butthurt about the spotlight we shone on him is a question for the ages.

I don't think she cared until mike broke up with her (faked it?) to get the farms off his back for being an abusive asshole. The fact she said mike is her only reason for living speaks volumes about how fucked she was in the head. I can believe him breaking up with her for real might be why she finally did it.

 

[Coldgrip]

Her last post made it pretty clear that the possibility of living with Mike was one of the few things she regarded as a reason to live. She seemed uncertain whether it would ever happen.

I do think Julie lacked the maturity to think beyond the moment and was certainly capable of impulsive suicide - though whether she was just testing the waters when she died is something we'll never know. Given her last post, though, there was every reason to be watching her closely if there'd been any drama between her and Mike in the days leading up to her death. Julie was not a person who hid her angst.

Scumbag has been lurking here again recently.

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Either he's an attention whore (likely) or he wants to know if we blame him (we partially do).

 

[RI 360]

Mike deserves his own thread.

 

[talk talk talk]

For some reason, someone who didn't even know Julie felt compelled to write about us in the online guest book.

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It begins.

 

[Cheeseburger Picnic]

she's in jesus's boiler room now

someone named Danielle Lampman started a GoFund me for the funeral costs, looks like she has more earning potential in death than modeling on Craigslist.

 

[multiverse]

Either he's an attention whore (likely) or he wants to know if we blame him (we partially do).

Why not both?

 

[CatParty]

she's in jesus's boiler room now

someone named Danielle Lampman started a GoFund me for the funeral costs, looks like she has more earning potential in death than modeling on Craigslist.

dox everyone who donates

 

[HG 400]

The real tragedy is it wasn't @Melchett who died

 

[Cubanodun]

For some reason, someone who didn't even know Julie felt compelled to write about us in the online guest book.

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Her art? is being a cam whore a art?

 

[Bloody bunny]

The real tragedy is it wasn't @Melchett who died

or you during a heart attack. but i'll tell you what, I can give you work out with my 9 inch barbell and you'll lose wight with my gooey protein shake you'll lose at least 400 pounds.

I'll be over with my bow tie and tiger speedo at 12.

 

[HG 400]

or you during a heart attack. but i'll tell you what, I can give you work out with my 9 inch barbell and you'll lose wight with my gooey protein shake you'll lose at least 400 pounds.

I'll be over with my bow tie and tiger speedo at 12.

Tell me more.

 

[Bloody bunny]

Tell me more.

i'm going to blast your fat ass like its a nuclear bomb test site.

 

[HG 400]

i'm going to blast your fat ass like its a nuclear bomb test site.

But it is.

 

[Yawning Asperchu]

In the wake of this whole mess, I'm a bit disappointed at the duplicity shown by some of the users here. You have people who were fine to laugh at Julie last week who now want to pretend they give a shit she's dead. Let's look at this realistically:

We were fully aware this was a risk. We seem to want to pretend we weren't, but we knew this little shit wasn't right in the head, and she very well might kill herself at some point. We then chose to do a thread on her, because having weighed that risk, we determined that we'd rather have a laugh at her regardless. Now she's offed herself and people want to pretend they didn't see it coming or that they're good people who miss her and feel terrible?

Bullshit.

The Kiwi Farms is essentially the modern interpretation of a freak show. By virtue of using this site and contributing to it, you are probably not a very good person. You're having a laugh at the expense of some sad, broken little fuck, and you do it because it's funny to you.
Waiting until the obvious happens and then virtue signaling because you've got trolls remorse is egotistical, duplicitous, and self-serving. Nobody gives a shit she's gone. They didn't give a shit about her last week, they don't give a shit now, and they're not going to give a shit next time either.
Don't get me wrong, I love this site and have a lot of fun here, but claiming the moral high ground because you want us to believe that you never saw this as a possibility is a lie the community should be unwilling to indulge.

I agree with all of this but with how many times all this has been said by different people you'd think KF was going through a stage of mass trollers' remorse. In reality not many people showed remorse in Julie's thread or since (and rightfully so BTW). Most of the immediate reaction was along the lines of suffocation puns and statements like "Oh wow"/ "Jesus Christ".

Like I said, I don't disagree with what everyone's saying about there being no need to feel remorse, I just don't think it's as much of an epidemic as it's being played up to be.