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juntaro said:
Seriously? Holy shit. That makes her story a whole lot sadder now.
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Yes, probably because once you have a neglectful mom and step-mom adding foster-mom to the mix gets confusing with some many "moms", so they called foster mom grandma.

(She may have actually had a bio grandma too, idk, but the woman she constantly bitched about living with and called grandma with was a foster mom. The grandma's facebook lists "foster parent" as her work. The people capable being a foster mom it can become almost a full time job the need is so great and the govt pays a stipend to them, and they usually help raise dozens of kids if they do it for years. Obviously her "grandma" cared about her because Julie was past the "fostering" age and the woman was still trying to help her and let her live there rent free. )
 
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MirnaMinkoff said:
Yes, probably because once you have a neglectful mom and step-mom adding foster-mom to the mix gets confusing with some many "moms", so they called foster mom grandma.

(She may have actually had a bio grandma too, idk, but the woman she constantly bitched about living with and called grandma with was a foster mom. The grandma's facebook lists "foster parent" as her work. The people capable being a foster mom it can become almost a full time job the need is so great and the govt pays a stipend to them, and they usually help raise dozens of kids if they do it for years. Obviously her "grandma" cared about her because Julie was past the "fostering" age and the woman was still trying to help her and let her live there rent free. )
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nobody cares lol
 
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@Mista Pornstache Let's be honest man, the only person who could pull off a pornstache is Burt Reynolds. A full beard is best.
Also, protip: make an ass of yourself here and expect to see a thread about yourself, and it won't be nice.


PurpleSquirrel said:
Yes, Julie was a deeply-disturbed, disgusting, obnoxious, and self-destructive attention whore. I stopped following her thread around Page 100; it just got too repetitive and depressing.
I'm sorry she's gone. But most of her pain was either self-inflicted, or a result of the inaction and callousness of her parents and Mike. We merely observed and commented on her bizarre antics.
If you're a believer, pray for her soul. If not, remember her for the "entertainment" she provided, and think good thoughts for the people who mourn her. But please don't virtue-signal over her death.
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Inb4weenssayJULAAAAYY
 
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I have been lurking on the farms for quite awhile now before finally breaking down and making an account.

Julies was one of my favorite threads.

My question is will the mortician have such awesome make-up skills as to draw her lipstick line outside of her mouth and when do we get to see pictures of her corpse?
 
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The only sad thing about Julie is how shitty her family was. The obituary makes it even worse, saying how many people loved her and how important she was. Nobody cared when she was alive. I didn't wake up everyday having to see her in person and her scars and bruises from Mike, her family saw it daily and did nothing. I hope Mike gets investigated but I doubt it. I hope the all are feeling guilt and remorse right now.

Edit: I still think writing "julaaaaaaay" on her obituary memories page is in poor taste.
 
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Chan the Wizard said:
Yeah, especially since some sociopath made a thread on her and drove this poor, sensitive mentally ill young woman to suicide.
Gone too soon.
I hope they arrest the bastard cyberbully that did it.
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Julie herself stated that she did not care about the thread on many occasions, it was Mike who had a problem with it. Julie was only upset about some of the members getting information wrong about her and whatnot.
 
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juntaro said:
Julie herself stated that she did not care about the thread on many occasions, it was Mike who had a problem with it. Julie was only upset about some of the members getting information wrong about her and whatnot.
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Don't worry man, you're part of the Patriarchy. You'll skate.
 
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Coldgrip said:
Don't worry man, you're part of the Patriarchy. You'll skate.
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Heh.

But yeah, if Julie posted on her Facebook that she wanted the thread to be deleted (which I don't think she did), I would have deleted it. But she didn't. Julie enjoyed the thread and you can see this early in the pages of that thread, she liked the attention, she repeatedly states "I don't mind, etc" and only ever talks about the Farms whenever we get something wrong.

I have a very strong theory of what led up to Julie's death and it certainly does not involve the thread or the Farms.
 
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juntaro said:
I have a very strong theory of what led up to Julie's death and it certainly does not involve the thread or the Farms.
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Theories are like assholes, we've all got one. We don't know, and will probably never know, what happened in the couple of days between her last FB post and her death. What we do know raises more questions than it answers.

But yes, it was Julie's real life issues which were the source of her misery and no-one but those close to her in real life could have done anything to prevent her death. It seems likely that those people knew information we did not - after all, you don't generally randomly check in on people at 3am unless you have reason to believe they might not be OK - but we're unlikely to discover what went on in those last 2 days unless there's an inquest (I checked Ontario's rules for that and an inquest would only be mandatory if the police were involved in some way in the period leading up to her death - otherwise it's discretionary).

Ironically, our thread is the one thing which will always stand as a counterpoint to any revisionism by the family or Mike about Julie's last months. There is much which they can revise or make disappear now that she is dead, but they can't make her thread here go away.
 
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If anyone should feel guilty it's this douche
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Mike Holland (Other)Entered July 3, 2016 from London OntarioDear Julie.

You were an angel in everyone's life well you were alive including mine. I so much wish I could say I Love you one last time but it should be known that I will never not love you. You made such an impact in my life in our relationship that lasted just under a year. Your father and mother will always miss you as will your whole family. Honestly I myself miss you more then words explain.

You deserved the world and I wish I could have given you that. I love you and may you Rest forever more in a peaceful slumber.

Your Partner forever Mike Holland"


Julie had deeper issues then us, and had people in her life her pushed her to the edge more then the farms. Sweet words and regrets are easy in hindsight.
 
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For some reason, someone who didn't even know Julie felt compelled to write about us in the online guest book.

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