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Or what?
On 4th of July weekend too
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I'm grateful Julaay and Goddess weren't able to spawn. That would have been fucking depressing.
If Lucas Werner decides to an hero, pleeeeeeeeease please please let it happen, I'm going to donate a bunch of cash to throw a block party for the kids in Spokane in celebration of their new, safer city streets.
Her suicide isn't the result of a few months of her being the attention of a forum thread, but a lifetime of abuse and neglect by her parents, and an array of psychological maladies. She was suicidal prior to us, she would have been suicidal had we never known of her existence. It angers me that her POS parents get to assuage their guilt by shifting the blame over to the farms.
I'm going to autistically clarify that I'm not angered by the existence of the thread, but rather these people cling to it like life ring tossed into the ocean to evade taking responsibility for fucking her up so thoroughly and doing nothing, as the people most appropriate to, to get her help.It's been kind of sickening following the family since this.
Per the obituary, Julie had two bio-parents, three step-parents and various grandparents . We know her family knew about her public postings, and yet none of those adults either individually or collectively stepped up to the plate and got her help. Maybe she would have killed herself eventually despite all the help in the world - mentally ill people often do - but this is one family which really doesn't have the right to sit there and claim that they "couldn't have known" their neglect was going to end with a toe tag.
If they and Mike ever try to place the blame for Julie's death on anyone but themselves, then they're worthy of their own thread on here.
It's an infuriating paradox that the people who had the most positive influence on Julie are the ones that are going to be blamed for her death. She actually started bathing, and realizing when she was being gross and over sharing - even offered TMI warnings. We even got police involvement over her self harming posts while her parents were just relieved to be rid of her. I've read people who are committed to doing it don't actually post about it because they want their attempt to be successful, had she posted a final good-bye it may very well had been the farms that got an ambulance or police to her door (albeit too late more than likely). I know it's pointless to speculate about these things. She was young and I was sincere in my hope for her focusing her obsessiveness into getting into fitness, and the offer to teach her about macros.
Her suicide isn't the result of a few months of her being the attention of a forum thread, but a lifetime of abuse and neglect by her parents, and an array of psychological maladies. She was suicidal prior to us, she would have been suicidal had we never known of her existence. It angers me that her POS parents get to assuage their guilt by shifting the blame over to the farms.
Mike wasn't the cure for her like she believed, but a palliative for the problems she needed serious professional care for.
Edit: My sincere condolences to Grandma Terryberry, you weren't equip to handle Julie, you gave her a roof when her parents tossed her aside. You tried to give her some structure. She honestly did seem to love you despite her outbursts, and you brought her some joy. This isn't your fault.
(FYI Her "grandma" was actually one of her foster moms, she had several.)