Here's pretty much my abstract:
Gender stereotypes are the expected behaviors and attributes of certain genders. They affect how people live by making them conform to certain behaviors and attributes. A lot of people feel that gender stereotypes actively ham what is expected of certain genders by making people conform to these behaviors and attributes. Some feel that gender stereotypes exist for a reason, and we shouldn’t make them just disappear because a few people feel uncomfortable. There should still be things expected of a gender some say, because straying too far can only cause trouble in how society will function.
Regardless of what one feels about gender stereotypes, it’s clear that gender stereotypes because of how society has been developed. Men and women have both been shaped by what the current society felt was the most appropriate for them. But in modern society, should there still be gender stereotypes? After all, with how open society has become, surely the best idea would be to let people be what they want to be while still identifying as male or female. By making sure gender stereotypes don’t exist, we don’t harm people who are different from these stereotypes. But should we really remove the expectations set for a gender? These expectations are what we use to identify people, and by removing these expectations, we make it that gender cannot be defined anymore.
So how should we approach this? I think that while gender stereotypes can be harmful and can hurt people's expectations, gender expectations are a better way to help define what a gender is. For example, we can expect a man to be competitive, but if he isn’t, that doesn’t mean he’s any less than a man, he’s just different. We can expect women to be better at helping children, but if there is a woman who is no good at that, that doesn’t mean that they’re not women. If there’s someone who has an attribute or acts in a way expected from the opposite gender, that doesn’t mean they’re not the gender they identify as.
But what if people use gender expectations to harm people, the same way they would use stereotypes? I don’t think that’s possible. Gender expectations are something that can be used to help guide someone who identifies as a certain gender at what others think would help them live in society. They are the norm in society, and you don’t need to be the norm to identify in a society. After all, we live in a society, but we don’t need to all live the same way. Most people are massive fans of the Marvel Cinematic Universe, but disliking it doesn’t mean you can’t live in a society. The same should be said for gender. Gender is simply another way we identify each other, so while there should still be an expectations, there shouldn’t be a limit. These expectations are there to help you identify with a gender, not force you out of it.