I think making fun of / shaming virgins is pathetic

Ibanez RG 350EX said:
It's really not that good. Sex is, without hyperbole, the most overrated human activity.

I agree that it's good for obsessive incel types to get laid, but primarily it's so they realize what an unremarkable experience it is. Hopefully it provides them with a little perspective.
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Cope. I've heard this cope many times. But you know what, sex is exactly as awesome as you think it is when you're a virgin teenager. It's relationships that are overrated.
 
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Making fun of adult virgins is good actually, you've got a 2/3 chance of having a good laugh just by making fun of adult virgins when you see them.

Either they're still virgins because they're too autistic/repulsive/picky to get laid, or they've made some sort of choice not to. The former get really mad when you make fun of them (prime lolcow material), the latter either launch into a schizophrenic rant about why this is the right choice for them (prime lolcow material) or take it as good-natured ribbing and move on with their sexless day (might still sperg out if you keep pressing but at that point the juice ain't worth the squeeze imo).
 
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With 30% of young men being virgins its clearly counterproductive and will only lead to more polarization and resentment which combined always lead to violence.

But what's pathetic is basing your entire personality around being a virgin, same as people who describe themselves by their "gender".
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I have never witnessed a man mock a woman for being a virgin
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Only (female) sluts shame virgin women as a tactic to drag them down to their level, dudes instead go bonkers trying to be the one that gets to pop her cherry.
 
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Easterling said:
This, the final redpill of sex is that its only really fun when its with someone you care about, I know it sounds gay but that's the honest to god truth
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True. Sex is only awesome as a pure expression of love for someone else. As a mere exchange of physical pleasure, it's kind of shite. That's part of what a lot of incels don't understand. What they want is a deeper connection with someone and the feeling of being genuinely loved by someone else, but they've been tricked into believing that getting fucked is the endpoint of relationships, and so an incel who gets laid is still an incel, and in a symbolic way still a loser virgin, because they're still unfulfilled.
Again, it sounds gay, but it's the honest truth.
 
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I don't think I've ever been mocked for being a virgin, and if I was I wouldn't really care because I'm not a thin-skinned crybaby. If anything I think it could be considered admirable for saving yourself for marriage like back in the old days.

Doesn't matter to me either way, I don't really care. Learning to not give a shit is the key to self-confidence. Thank you for coming to my TED talk.
 
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I see we woke up and decided to have an online fight about something no one with half a brain gives an actual fuck about and argue with strangers over it.

Go eat your cereal champ, you'll feel better after.
 
Bullying is a necessary mechanism to nip societally unacceptable behavior in the bud. Zero-tolerance bullying policies (in conjunction with COVID lockdowns, TikTok, etc.) are why newer generations (late millenials/"zillenials", zoomers, and Gen Alpha) are so deranged and brainrotten. They have no one to tell them - whether it's through gentle chiding, peer pressure, emotional coercion, or physical force - that their behavior is unacceptable.

When we bully you for things like having the username "Incel King", or having an AI-generated profile picture of a little anime girl, or when we stick our little trash cans and puzzle pieces onto all of your posts, deep down, we are trying to help you. If you curb enough of your bad habits, you will stop being an incel. You could even have sex, with a woman.

All of this is contingent on you taking our bullying to heart and making an honest effort to stop being such a loser all the time.
 
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Brenda Holiday said:
Absolutely this
That place is crabs in a bucket and you will never improve yourself hanging around people like that.
You get trapped when they become your only source of human interaction, and you are never encouraged to improve because everyone is in competition to see who is the most depressed loser, and you don't want to be alienated by trying to be a failed normalfag, so you stay in the bucket.
Anyways choosing to be a virgin is very admirable, either for religious or personal reasons. Guys that obsess over women to the point of simping are sad.
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I'm going to bat for /r9k/ not because I think anything you said is wrong but because if you don't receive any feedback like that you develop the opposite problem. People can become over-socialized; they end up unprepared for Bambi's mother dying. Sometimes the negative-ass bitch can provide good insight since they are on such a different wavelength. Even a horrible cynic can tell you some truths and it's up to you to develop the maturity to go "well a lot of that is true, but it's not the whole truth, so I shouldn't become pathetic and give up on my own life." Either way the modern world needs an /r9k/ take sometimes.

Not to mention /r9k/ suffered an ironic fate where it was invaded by women (and delusional men who think they're women) who buried all the old, banal problems with new, banal, woman-exclusive problems. It doesn't look anything like it did years ago. It's like when people call /pol/ a bunch of nazis when a majority of posters there are demoralization posters and/or paid agencies.
 
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COME ON OUT YOU RAPIST said:
"well a lot of that is true, but it's not the whole truth, so I shouldn't become pathetic and give up on my own life."
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This is what I went through, it took me a while to step back and realize what parts of the board left negative effects and what had been positive. I just worry about those who aren't the best at self reflection and don't have the ability to do this. You're definitely right though, being on that board made me stronger in a weird way. Hearing the truth even when it hurts is more important than anything.
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Not to mention /r9k/ suffered an ironic fate where it was invaded by women (and delusional men who think they're women)
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The tranny pinkpilling and female attention whoring is what ultimately made me stop going. It was the same threads on repeat every single day. So tired of the "if your life sucks just become a woman" threads.
 
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I mean it depends. Personally I don't see how you could get bullied about something as an adult, as well I'd assume most people don't lose their virginity until after highschool, so it doesn't matter in that context either. That being said, if you aren't a virgin for religious or ethical reasons at a certain point it does become a problem and is something I'd consider a red flag. If you are 25+ and you haven't been with a woman it points to there being some kind of underlying issue and a lack of romantic/sexual communication skills.
 
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Ibanez RG 350EX said:
Cope for what, exactly? I've been in one five-year relationship and another three-year relationship and had a commensurate amount of sex in that time - this is not a sour-grapes assessment of something I can't get.

It's really just not that great and certainly not worth the trouble.
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To each their own I suppose. Can't really argue a subjective experience. I think it's fucking awesome almost every time. And I'm not saying that to paint myself as some kind of überchad.

Actually, reading my post again I want to nuance what I said about relationships too. A loving relationship with a woman will fuel your ambition. It will teach you to be strong for and care for another person. It will teach you stoicism, to pick the right battles while maintaining your integrity.

But! It's absolutely not that magical, etheral thing you imagine when you're 15, where finding a gf means riding into the sunset, happy ever after. There will be a lot of bullshit to wade through when living so close to another person. Even if she is loving and kind. That's just the human condition.
 
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