Off-Topic I'm Michael Sandell- Ask me almost anything about ADF

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@tweaker the cat I hope you don't get any harassment from ADF's asspat brigade



Can you give us some intel about your experiences with this assclown?

Not much, honestly, at least nothing you don't already know. My experiences with Ahuviya are fairly limited, despite being one of the people who met her in real life. She seemed to me, when I met her a few years ago, to be a pretty typical high-functioning autistic: socially very stunted, obsessed with public transit, Maoism, and being trans. She was incredibly clingy with anyone who was nice to her, including myself. I tended to find her annoying in more than bite-sized doses, but again, there was nothing about her that was too out of the ordinary for an autistic person (except maybe the uniform she wore at the time).

Or maybe she just looked a lot saner in comparison to her then-friend Rika.

To be fair, Rika makes Charles Manson look sane.
 
One day out of fucking nowhere her she just decided that she didn't have any culture. And that was really bumming her out.
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@tweaker the cat Take this opportunity and run with it, block him from your call list and don't feel guilty. He was trying emotional manipulation to get you back in his little circle of "friends", the problem with Phil is he views friends not as some one you form a bond with an mutually support each other through the good times and bad he views them only in terms of what benefit he can get from you, it's a unhealthy uni directional relationship that will only lead to more suffering for you if it continues.
 
So based on tweaker's text conversation, I just have to say I find it funny that ADF claims it is only a trans woman's business what happens with her body. And yet every phase of his 'trans' life has pretty much been paid for the US taxpayers and he is expecting a state medical system to cover 100 percent of his sex change surgeries.

If it is his business what happens with his body, it should also be his money that pays for it. Hypocritical fuck. I am not actually against healthcare reform or anything, but if you're going to take this hardline stance that it is your body and nobody can tell you what to do with it, then don't feel an entitlement to have those things you want done to your body covered by everyone else. But this attitude is just an extension of his general personality of never being grateful for anything in his miserable life.
 
So based on tweaker's text conversation, I just have to say I find it funny that ADF claims it is only a trans woman's business what happens with her body.

How about "And yet she's broadcasting it to everyone with a facebook account like it's a reality tv show, making it the whole world's business"?

Another person saved, the farms are life, the farms are love. I can't say i'm surprised by the outcome, Phil must have been extremely optimistic to set this up.

Win-win. Lost Michael (though she's lost Michael before, and he's come crawling back to her), and in the meantime gets free suicide pity points.

On that note... Tweaker, have any of the ass-patters tried to come after you for this?
 
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Sorry it took me a while, was my first time using GIMP and was just getting used to it. Here's screenshots of our convo...

That right there perfectly exemplifies all that Hooves puts you through on a whim. You've not outright attacked them here on the farms, merely answering the questions to the best of your ability while remaining as tactful as possible about all of it; which I would imagine is extremely difficult given how frank and open you could be about them after how they've treated you over the years.

Hooves doesn't understand just how much of a friend you actually were, given that you even went to length to edit out their phone number even after they threw their temper tantrum and 'cast you out' of their life while taking every chance they could to try and turn you into the villain in this instance. Which is anything but the case, and it's painfully obvious that Hooves really doesn't want anyone in their life unless they can directly benefit their place in life, or will cow down over to their abuse and give them the attention that they so desperately crave(like the suicide threat).

I know that it's been mentioned or touched on briefly, but this is something that I've been wondering about for a while now. What exactly possessed you, to have the idea to move across the country without anything lined up, even moreso with the fact that Hooves was homeless from the getgo? I get that we all do crazy things for love and I've been guilty of that in the past, but moving with the knowledge that your partner is homeless is kind of a big ol 'fuck no' in my book.
 
Tweaker, have any of the ass-patters tried to come after you for this?

Not yet. Tho Jordan sent me an angry message and blocked me on facebook the other day when she discovered I was posting here.

What exactly possessed you, to have the idea to move across the country without anything lined up, even moreso with the fact that Hooves was homeless from the getgo? I get that we all do crazy things for love and I've been guilty of that in the past, but moving with the knowledge that your partner is homeless is kind of a big ol 'fuck no' in my book.

I was a young impressionable kid and was desperate for the attention she gave me, I guess.

How do you feel about the suicide posts?

THey're ridiculous. Except in super rare circumstances (I'm thinking Leelah Alcorn), when you post a suicide note/announce you're taking your life online, it's fake and bullshit. She's just looking for asspats and manipulating people's emotions.
 
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I was a young impressionable kid and was desperate for the attention she gave me, I guess.
Sorry you had to go through that, manipulative relationships are the worst.
But, you're better off with them gone from your life, and it won't be long before you find a much better support group to rely upon.
 
Sorry you had to go through that, manipulative relationships are the worst.
But, you're better off with them gone from your life, and it won't be long before you find a much better support group to rely upon.

I hope so! It's hard for me to make friends in my age group because most 20-year-olds are still living at home with mommy and daddy, getting everything paid for by them, including college and their cars and all their clothes and I'm sitting in my sad apartment going "well I can choose between eating this week or paying for my medication this week". So there's not a lot of common interests, lol. But I'm sure I'll make it work :)
 
Do you have and Ahuviya text each other a lot when she has these meltdowns against the Farms?
 
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I've started reading this thread only an hour ago and I'm still only at the first few pages. Not wanting to add a question that might have already been asked, I decided to contact Michael through PM rather a public post. You can read our conversation below, reprinted with Michael's permission:

NegaCWC said:
My question is about the age gap between you and Ahuviya. You said you started dating her when you were 17, and according to your profile page you'll turn 21 this year. I therefore infer that the relationship started around 2011/2012, meaning that Ahuviya was 25/26 during that time. I don't know if the relationship was legal in your respective jurisdictions but I do think the age gap was inappropriate. What is your take on it? Does Ahuviya in general seeks mates significantly younger than her?

tweaker the cat said:
I actually don't know if it was legal. I don't know how stuff like that works. Like, was it legal because we weren't having sex at that time? I don't know.

I think the pattern is that yes, Ahuviya does look for partners younger than her because of her own mental age being much younger than her body's age.

As far as whether or not it's appropriate, I don't know. I've always been attracted to people older than myself. I'm still attracted to men much older than myself, but that's part of a kink dynamic and I won't go into that.

For those of you don't know, Ahuviya was born on 12 August 1985.
 
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