Off-Topic I'm Michael Sandell- Ask me almost anything about ADF

[Rin]

I guess a better response is what I said before. I was a lonely kid and she was friendly.

Honestly, you should distance yourself from Ahuviya. You've mentioned that you're shy and have little to no other support network. If your only support is a partner with a history of abuse towards others (the mom-hitting incident) and yourself (threatening to reveal your phone number over a disagreement), then you need to find a better source of support. That's a recipe for finding yourself in an abusive relationship.

Also, given that you seem to identify as male (you list your name as Michael), how does your relationship match with Ahuviya's claim to be a man-hating lesbian?

 

[Vitriol]

She's pretty much my entire support network, to be honest. I have pretty severe anxiety and don't make friends well. It's a thing I'm trying to work on.

coming out with statements like 'I'don't believe in reverse racism' and hanging out with toxic people like adf who think nothing of judging others purely on the colour of their skin will do you no favours.

Pandering to the delusions of the mentally ill doesn't come across as polite it comes over as either pathetic, irresponsible or pretentious.

could you address what you think of phil's persistent and blatant lying please? from the outside its pretty clear the man is a compulsive liar who will say almost anything for attention.

Out of interest if I got a tattoo saying 'kill all trannies' and spent my time writing about how all black woman are scum on my facebook would you believe i was a good person if i then tipped with pizza or carried a friends stuff?

 

[tweaker the cat]

What is your honest opinion of her constantly spending her money on more and more tattoos?

Like I said before, I do agree that she might do well to invest in some housing. But she's hell bent on finding a roommate situation in like a trans specific communal living space.

What is your honest opinion on the tattoos themselves, and the way she isn't taking care of them?

I think her tattoos are a little much, but I realize that it's just one of her fixations. As far as tattoo care goes... I don't know. None of them have gotten infected so far as I know.

 

[Positron]

Hi Michael,

Could you tell us about your friend's gender dysphoria? What does he do during a dysphoric episode? How often do they occur?

Just curious, does Ahuviya read? Of course I don't mean manga; I mean books with a predominance of words. Which subjects does he read about?

 

[Rabbit Bones]

How bad does he smell?

 

[tweaker the cat]

Do you realize this a ploy he's been using for years to gain sympathy and mooch off others?

Well I don't think she's mooching off me. I don't give her money (in fact, she's been kind enough to give me money for things in the past), and once her 20 nights sleeping at my apartment expires there's not much else I can do to help her.

Is he getting mental help for his problems?

Yes, she's shared with me that she has a therapist in SF.

 

[Randall Fragg]

I just wanted to say thank you for talking to us. You've always seemed like one of Ahuviya's more level headed friends, and I appreciate that you do actually care about her enough to talk to us.
I just wanted to ask, how do you think can Ahuviya improve her situation in life?

 

[tweaker the cat]

what about the constant lies about phil's father? that he is constantly claiming to be assaulted?

Like I said, I have no reason not to believe her about her father because I've spoken to her mother about it.

why won't he admit in public he lied about the drive by even though literally everyone knows he lied

I honestly don't know.

 

[CatParty]

I honestly don't know.

do you not see how we can't find ANY of his claims credible when he is constantly lying?

 

[tweaker the cat]

how does your relationship match with Ahuviya's claim to be a man-hating lesbian?

I came before she became a lesbian. But there are people who identify as lesbian and are in relationships with transmen.

 

[Weeping With Pity]

Yes, she's shared with me that she has a therapist in SF.

Considering that SS-based insurance policies tend to be very territorial (someone I know can't get treatment outside of Philadelphia, much less PA), how much help is she getting when she's in Portland full-time? How often is she in SF full-time? Does she commute once a week to SF? Where does the government think she's living?

 

[sugoi-chan]

When she is living with you, does she make use of the shower?

 

[tweaker the cat]

could you address what you think of phil's persistent and blatant lying please?

Well really the only incident we've proven is a lie was the drive by, and she felt she needed to do that for... Whatever reason. I didn't agree with it, so I didn't really get involved

 

[CatParty]

Well really the only incident we've proven is a lie was the drive by, and she felt she needed to do that for... Whatever reason. I didn't agree with it, so I didn't really get involved

because he was going to release your phone number. oh btw can you verify if this is his new number? 510-685-xxxx

 

[Positron]

Well really the only incident we've proven is a lie was the drive by, and she felt she needed to do that for... Whatever reason. I didn't agree with it, so I didn't really get involved

There is also a recent claim that he broke the iPhone of a kid who photographed him. The clincher is that he said he took out the SD card of the iPhone -- and no model of iPhone ever use SD cards.

 

[Weeping With Pity]

I came before she became a lesbian.

Just want to add that it pains me to see someone identifying as queer say this. Orientation doesn't change, certainly not that drastically. In college, the label was always "bisexual" so I can totally believe an attraction to women, but... if anything, I'd bet there's still an attraction to men that is simply being repressed due to the whole "misandry" identity. Not saying Ahuviya should have to act on it against her will, but "became a lesbian" is problematic phrasing.

 

[Peace and Harmony]

Well really the only incident we've proven is a lie was the drive by, and she felt she needed to do that for... Whatever reason. I didn't agree with it, so I didn't really get involved

You can't honestly believe that Phil is taking down cops and other WHITE CIS MALE OPPRESSORS every other week.

 

[chimpburgers]

How much bug spray do you use when ADF stays at your house? Surely she must attract a lot of pests with that body odor.

 

[Smutley]

ike I said, I have no reason not to believe her about her father because I've spoken to her mother about it.

To be fair the courts found all claims of abuse to be unsubstantiated and implied that his mother coached his answers. His mother does hold a grudge towards her ex husband, enough so to take something to court that was eventually thrown out.

 

[Vitriol]

Well really the only incident we've proven is a lie was the drive by, and she felt she needed to do that for... Whatever reason. I didn't agree with it, so I didn't really get involved

there is phil claiming to be latin, the iphone incident, the reasons for him leaving occupy philly and a handfull of others.