Off-Topic I'm Michael Sandell- Ask me almost anything about ADF

[Twrx]

Things I've gotten from you regarding those subjects.

- ADF is willingly homeless because they have unrealistic standards of where they will live and with who. Phil could quickly resolve his homeless situation if he really wanted to and even move in with his mother.
- ADF punched his disabled mom but his mom forgave him.

Here's what I've learned about you during this thread...

- You have a long and intimate history with ADF.
- Despite the long history together he had no problem threatening to post your personal information the second you disagreed with him.
- You are letting the same person who just threatened you not so long ago to determine what you can and can't talk about here.

You realize you're in an emotionally abusive relationship, right? ADF benefits from your relationship more than you do and has shown no problem in ending it the second it creates any kind of difficulties for him. I don't know you but it's safe to say you can do better than that. You seem to be at that point where you're aware something isn't right but quickly find a reason to justify putting up with ADF's behavior.

You need to get out of this relationship. You can do better and odds are you deserve better. Just cut ties with ADF and seek out a place on the internet where people enjoy the same things as you. You seem intelligent so I imagine you wouldn't have much trouble fitting in. This thing with ADF isn't working.

I already tried telling him that, even used my marriage as an example. It fell on deaf ears. I'm starting to think Phil is either doing this himself, or that he is telling Micheal what he can and cannot address.

 

[CatParty]

No. I don't even know if she's watching the thread

Yeah he sperged when I started guessing his phone number. https://kiwifarms.net/threads/06-23-15-phone-number-blues.10389/

 

[Ruin]

Did you really have sex with someone who refuses to bath and probably has a million staph infections? I'm not being sarcastic, If you had contact with ADF's disgusting cock you need to be tested now for your own safety.

 

[Weeping With Pity]

We only see ADF as a complete nutjob. Do you have any humanizing stories, where maybe ADF was just being a normal person. No BDSM gear in public or super obsession with anime, just a normal person you could have a normal conversation with?

I know this is from way back in the thread, but I decided I'd like to chime in on this. If Dusty had actually been interested, instead of being a patient and polite person who got taken advantage of, I really think Phil would have made an acceptable, if not great, partner. He seemed to be very genuine, and showered Dusty with attention and the occasional gift. The freakish possessiveness was a problem, but I half suspect it was because Phil knew on some level that his interest was not being reciprocated. Now, Ahuviya being a different person so far as I'm concerned, I have no idea how much this still holds true, but at least the potential is there, even if it's not being realized.

 

[Yellow Yam Scam]

No. I don't even know if she's watching the thread

Yes, you do. You know she watches this place like a hawk every day for Facebook fodder, do you actually believe for a second that she isn't watching the thread she gave you permission to open?

My mom and people of her generation use this silly phrase to describe people: "He's really something else." That phrase always bothered me but it's really all that I can come up with for you. Utterly bewildering.

 

[Twrx]

Yes, you do. You know she watches this place like a hawk every day for Facebook fodder, do you actually believe for a second that the thread she isn't watching the thread she gave you permission to open?

My mom and people of her generation use this silly phrase to describe people: "He's really something else." That phrase always bothered me but it's really all that I can come up with for you. Utterly bewildering.

My southern relatives would say a few things about Phil. "Bless his heart". Which translates to " I'd rip his throat out", and "Phil's, well, he's Phil". Which means someone is a giant fuck up, piece of shit, or a waste of space.

 

[XH 502]

@tweaker the cat I have to say, your anecdotes have only proven that everything we already know and suspect about ADF is true. His abusive behavior towards you is just the nail on the coffin.

Let me ask you this: were your situations reversed (i.e. you were the one with a Farms subforum and he a semi-connected bystander) do you really think that ADF would go through the trouble of attempting to "set the record straight" with the dreaded Kiwis?

 

[tomgirl4life]

@tweaker the cat , how bothered is ADF by Kiwi Farms, really? Like, does he post nonsense and then laugh privately about how a bunch of losers on the internet spent 30 pages discussing his fake shooting, or does he legit believe that we are all terrible people who are trying to literally murder him?

 

[JU 199]

Guess we can add another victim to ADF's abuse ledger

 

[Twrx]

@tweaker the cat , how bothered is ADF by Kiwi Farms, really? Like, does he post nonsense and then laugh privately about how a bunch of losers on the internet spent 30 pages discussing his fake shooting, or does he legit believe that we are all terrible people who are trying to literally murder him?

What Phil fails to grasp, if we wanted him dead, he'd be dead. I know I'm not the only kiwi with long range and cqb training.

 

[JU 199]

@tweaker the cat Does ADF acknowledge the abuse she's committed to you and her mother? Or does she rationalize it?

 

[tweaker the cat]

has he ever elaborated or discussed his altercations with other people with yourself?

Not really. She doesn't like to fight.

how much would care like that cost per month?

I'm a fortunate enough to have all of my Care covered by my insurance, so this is a complete shot in the dark guess, but I can say that it could cost well over a thousand dollars a month. And she gets Care in California, we're all of the services are covered under this state insurance. So she shouldn't have to pay anything.

his mum fall's into that group

I didn't get to know her very well before I had to leave, but gosh I sure hope that's not the case. She seems like such an amazing woman.

6) You say you know he was blackballed from one shelter, did he ever elaborate as to why?

Yeah, I think it was something along the lines of someone misgendered her and she threw a fit and got herself kicked out.

I know there are provisions for couples

Except there arent. There might be some hang out there for married couples, but we never got married. Thankfully. It's kind of a horrible thing about the shelter system is that if you're in a partnered relationship and you want shelter, you usually have to leave your partner.

I'm worried that he made you feel worse

She didn't have to.... I was so completely reliant on her to survive. Let me put this in perspective: I had just turned 18, I had never been to Philadelphia before, I had never even been to the east coast before. I had never been homeless, never slept outside, never gone without laundry or shower facilities. I didn't know what I was doing. Without her I was just a scared kid on my own. So I just believed everything she said to me. I guess maybe I still believe her like that in some ways.

Why do you think this is

This is one thing I'm just as baffled as you guys are about. I don't pass very well with clothing, but I try my damndest anyway. I take my hormones shot every week and I'm very conscious of things like my voice and my mannerisms.

how did your decision to not discuss his race come about?

She asked me not to. Simple as that.

If he had a infection, general ailment or was genuinely attacked would he seek help?

I think she would. At least I hope so for her sake.

His weapons

As far as I know, she has never had a handgun. I believe the guns in her earlier pictures are BB guns. I know she had a BB gun that she showed me and it looked like one of the guns in her China pictures. As far as knives go, you're right in that the US has fewer rules on what kind of knives are OK to own. I don't know what kind of knives she has currently, but in the past she has owned, as you say, a mano knife.

I'm very sorry everybody that I've been neglecting this thread today. I had a bunch of stuff to do. It's going to get well in to the hundreds this week and I went out and bought an air conditioner.

@tweaker the cat Does ADF acknowledge the abuse she's committed to you and her mother? Or does she rationalize it?

Like I said she's apologized to her mother.

To what end? If you're seeking sympathy for him, I fear you may be disappointed. He's expressed some very disturbing beliefs and has an established history of fairly deliberate antisocial behavior.

Not for her. For her mom. I know ahuviya is too far gone in your eyes but the way you talk about her mom bugs me.

Yes, you do. You know she watches this place like a hawk every day for Facebook fodder, do you actually believe for a second that she isn't watching the thread she gave you permission to open?

My mom and people of her generation use this silly phrase to describe people: "He's really something else." That phrase always bothered me but it's really all that I can come up with for you. Utterly bewildering.

Yeah you're probably right. I guess I assumed she had better stuff to do but maybe not.

@tweaker the cat I have to say, your anecdotes have only proven that everything we already know and suspect about ADF is true. His abusive behavior towards you is just the nail on the coffin.

Let me ask you this: were your situations reversed (i.e. you were the one with a Farms subforum and he a semi-connected bystander) do you really think that ADF would go through the trouble of attempting to "set the record straight" with the dreaded Kiwis?

Maybe. It's not impossible.

@tweaker the cat , how bothered is ADF by Kiwi Farms, really? Like, does he post nonsense and then laugh privately about how a bunch of losers on the internet spent 30 pages discussing his fake shooting, or does he legit believe that we are all terrible people who are trying to literally murder him?

Nope she's pretty much convinced you're out to get her.

 

[kookerpie]

Michael will you please ask Ahuyvia how she knew that the person taken off the bus was cis? Thanks

 

[Bassomatic]

What Phil fails to grasp, if we wanted him dead, he'd be dead. I know I'm not the only kiwi with long range and cqb training.

There are many of us whom are trained by none other than Jack Stryker.

Also, I'm getting a real Sad @tweaker the cat you are saying you know better and showing that but can't break the cycle yet.

You see we aren't here to get you or hurt you, we aren't trying to troll ADF by getting you away from them. Look people here are from all walks of life some have seen some pretty nasty stuff, until ADF stops being ADF you are being used abused and vicitmized. You turned to the net for support and got burnt, don't be ashamed you were young and didn't know better.

You ever need people to talk to, open a thread or shoot some PM's people here are amazingly kind hearted. We don't want to see you suffer, and as much as we joke around we'd like to see ADF not be a mess but until then all we can do is sit and laugh. You should have better. Again, thanks for all the info.

 

[tomgirl4life]

A couple more questions:

1. What does ADF do for fun? Like, how does he kick back and relax?
2. When he goes to Wicked Grounds, does he actually order coffee or does he just use the wifi and power? What is his favorite drink?
3. Does/has he used any kind of drugs, legal or other?
4. What does he do for food? Is it mostly fast food, or does he go to food banks?
5. Does he have anyone he hangs out with regularly in SF? You don't have to name names, just wondering if he is a lone wolf or if he has a pack. I know for a while he and Jordan were hanging out a lot, but that doesn't seem to have happened since the "Telegraph" incident.
6. The eyebrow piercings got infected. But does he have or is he planning on additional piercings?

 

[niggers]

sempai ignores me yet again~~

 

[Spooky_Scary]

@tweaker the cat

From time to time Ahuviya brings up how on their to do list, they intend to find employment along with Housing. You've covered their unrealistic expectations with regards to housing, but what about work?

I know Ahuviya posted "Sex Worker" as their profession, but unless you know otherwise, we presume this to be a joke. What sort of jobs does Ahuviya think are available to them? Is Ahuviya just as delusional when it comes to job prospects, or are they kind of aware that they've pretty much torpedoed themself with the array of everlasting jobstoppers they have on their hands and forearms? Also thanks for your time.

 

[tweaker the cat]

A couple more questions:

1. What does ADF do for fun? Like, how does he kick back and relax?
2. When he goes to Wicked Grounds, does he actually order coffee or does he just use the wifi and power? What is his favorite drink?
3. Does/has he used any kind of drugs, legal or other?
4. What does he do for food? Is it mostly fast food, or does he go to food banks?
5. Does he have anyone he hangs out with regularly in SF? You don't have to name names, just wondering if he is a lone wolf or if he has a pack. I know for a while he and Jordan were hanging out a lot, but that doesn't seem to have happened since the "Telegraph" incident.
6. The eyebrow piercings got infected. But does he have or is he planning on additional piercings?

1. I know she reads. She does a lot of research at the library on whatever thing she's fixating on at the moment.

2. I'm not actually in sf so I can't say. But I've seen her post pictures of drinks she's ordered.

3. She used to smoke weed, idk if she still does, and she drinks.

4. It's mostly fast food or stuff like cheese at supermarkets.

5. Like I said I'm not in SF but I'm pretty sure she still hangs out with Jordan.

6. Was it the eyebrow? I thought it was her ear that got infected?

 

[Twrx]

Senpai, why won't you answer my question? Does Phil not want us knowing why he carries around a bunch of bondage gear?

 

[tweaker the cat]

they intend to find employment along with Housing

This is news to me. I think maybe once she found a client for sex work.

Senpai, why won't you answer my question? Does Phil not want us knowing why he carries around a bunch of bondage gear?

I'm sorry, what was the question? You guys already know about the bondage stuff.