Inactive Jake Rapp / Jacob Dean Johnson / KingOfCucks - Survivor of Feminism

[KingOfCucks]

So for such a serious decision, would you say that a lot of discussion and thought went into it, or did you just sorta go for it?
Also, while cheating is universally uncool, were you concerned at the prospect of being with someone who cheated while they were engaged? Dating is one thing, but when your engaged it shows a concerning lack of regard for other people....

We're a diverse group here. Not all of us think the same, and opinions on lolcows vary.
You are, however, avoiding the question. Are you happier now that you were before you were with Alison?

We discussed on and off for a time, but it's not really something one can predict all the parameters of. So when it came time, I'd say we talked about it probably more than others do, but there is still the jump into the deep end feeling.

We spoke about the cheating and acknowledged how shitty it made us feel as humans, hence wanting to explore that option in non-deceptive ways.

The happy question is hard man. There's so many other things in my life beside Alison that affect my happiness. Is the question "Are you happy she entered you life?" I'll say yes.

what would you do if fran wanted a more settled relationship with you?

would you sacrifice that just to look after your wife and her BPD rants?

I am personally pretty relationship anarchic, that's a development that happened once I actually started feeling like I had two very significant partners. If any partner in my life ever wanted solely monogamy, I couldn't give that to them, be it Alison, Fran, or any other person that enters my life.

 

[OriginalName]

Is my life easier/happier? I'm happy she's in my life, she's actually a very cool person (good luck getting Farms to beleive so). Definitely not easy though, BPD is a bitch.

There's one small problem here, Jake. No sane person would think that someone who supports child pornography is 'cool'. Also, 'BPD' is just medical lingo for 'acts like a bitch/asshole 100% of the time'.

 

[captn_kettle]

At no point in time was there ever a delusion that firing wouldn't happen if personal life material came to light. I think the shittiest thing about it is if I worked for some dipshit company somewhere, the internet never woulda cared and I could've went on living my merry dual-life.

Maybe the company wouldn't have cared if it was a shitty job like mcdonalds where they pay you peanuts to do crap work.

Look at all the lolcows here that are unemployed, they still get attention. They all forget that when you go online, anything you put on there is like shouting from a huge stage to the world. And there are people listening closely to what is being said.

 

[lemongrab]

Hi Jake, not really a question for you, but I posted before on your profile page that if you wanted to learn to code, and not do Web design, I'd be more than willing to help you learn. No fee, but a donation to a charity of my choice would be highly appreciated, but not necessary.

 

[*Asterisk*]

Jake you are a coward!
Youll never be a real man that is able to support a family.

Worse yet; this applied before the vasectomy.

 

[Dr. Boe Jangles Esq.]

We discussed on and off for a time, but it's not really something one can predict all the parameters of. So when it came time, I'd say we talked about it probably more than others do, but there is still the jump into the deep end feeling.

So you approached it with a certain amount of apprehension?
You said the first few months were really hard for you, then attributed it to jealousy in your story. Do you feel that a certain level of jealousy and possessiveness is appropriate when it's directed towards your wife?

We spoke about the cheating and acknowledged how shitty it made us feel as humans, hence wanting to explore that option in non-deceptive ways.

Do you feel that someone with her condition is capable of not being deceptive? I'm not trying to be cruel, but "deceptive and manipulative" are the two defining characteristics of BPD.

The happy question is hard man. There's so many other things in my life beside Alison that affect my happiness. Is the question "Are you happy she entered you life?" I'll say yes.

Please, do go on. I'm fascinated by people's thoughts on self-actualization. What other factors do you feel influence your happiness? What would you need to be 100% happy in life?

 

[KingOfCucks]

You are not for cp, but you say that 'agency is not black and white' and that people under 18, who are by legal definition children, should have the right to be in pornographic material if they want to?

Is that what you are saying?



They would not have fired you, they would have simply switched you to another place they contract to. Because they had no legal grounds to fire you.

Nope, not what I'm saying. I'm just saying it's a conversation people should be willing to consider being able to have a discourse in safe, well-educated spaces. Kiwi Farms is neither of those, so I'm not having it.

That's a weird way to spell 'Ali'

Ayyooooooooo.

 

[TheAmazingAxolotl]

Nope, not what I'm saying. I'm just saying it's a conversation people should be willing to consider being able to have a discourse in safe, well-educated spaces. Kiwi Farms is neither of those, so I'm not having it.

My fair cuck, you've no idea of the well-educated intercourses had here on these glorious farms of kiwi.

 

[Internet War Criminal]

Nope, not what I'm saying. I'm just saying it's a conversation people should be willing to consider being able to have a discourse in safe, well-educated spaces. Kiwi Farms is neither of those, so I'm not having it.

Lol there are no such things as safe spaces.

It's a very simple question Jake: Do you believe that people under 18 should have the right, of their own volition and sound mind, to appear in pornographic material?

It's a yes or no question, really.

 

[Lurker]

My fair cuck, you've no idea of the well-educated intercourses had here on these glorious farms of kiwi.

"I want to preface this by saying I like the idea of fucking dogs."

 

[KingOfCucks]

So you approached it with a certain amount of apprehension?
You said the first few months were really hard for you, then attributed it to jealousy in your story. Do you feel that a certain level of jealousy and possessiveness is appropriate when it's directed towards your wife?

Do you feel that someone with her condition is capable of not being deceptive? I'm not trying to be cruel, but "deceptive and manipulative" are the two defining characteristics of BPD.

Please, do go on. I'm fascinated by people's thoughts on self-actualization. What other factors do you feel influence your happiness? What would you need to be 100% happy in life?

Originally I thought it was appropriate to be jealous hence my overreactions, but honestly I have pretty different views on possessiveness since realizing I loved two people intensely.

BPD isn't really blatantly deceptive as much as it just tries to assert it's own reality in any way it can. What are we trying to get at here, confirming the narrative that Alison is the reason I am "controlled" and "feel pain in life"? I head up a poly meet up group. I have two great partners. Where am I being controlled or unhappy? Are we all worried I"m going to get 30 years down the road and have this lightbulb that I never wanted polyamory?

100% happy in life? An unlimited supply of LSD.

Lol there are no such things as safe spaces.

It's a very simple question Jake: Do you believe that people under 18 should have the right, of their own volition and sound mind, to appear in pornographic material?

It's a yes or no question, really.

No. And what part of not having this discussion here didn't you understand? Sit down.

 

[TheAmazingAxolotl]

I have two great partners. Where am I being controlled or unhappy?

My guess is somewhere between being told to bite the pillow and having two dicks up your butt.

 

[Lurker]

No. And what part of not having this discussion here didn't you understand? Sit down.

When you appear to be defending the idea that minors can consent, a discussion must be had, Jake. You can't just say that without following up.

Please, Jake, elaborate.

And don't tell the forumers where they get off. Remember that you're the cuck here, and you will always be a lesser lifeform because of it. Sit the fuck down.

 

[KingOfCucks]

Holy shit, the farms site is terrible at updating the thread and all of a sudden there's two pages of shit to sift through. There' s only one of me.

 

[Goddessoftheshire]

Nope, not what I'm saying. I'm just saying it's a conversation people should be willing to consider being able to have a discourse in safe, well-educated spaces. Kiwi Farms is neither of those, so I'm not having it.

You don't get to come here to stir up drama on your page then act like you have some sort of moral high ground. Especially when you say this:

Alright y'all this thread has been pathetic as hell, let's break triple digits by EOD tomorrow.

 

[Dr. Boe Jangles Esq.]

Originally I thought it was appropriate to be jealous hence my overreactions, but honestly I have pretty different views on possessiveness since realizing I loved two people intensely.

An understandable thing. How has that shaped your views?

BPD isn't really blatantly deceptive as much as it just tries to assert it's own reality in any way it can. What are we trying to get at here, confirming the narrative that Alison is the reason I am "controlled" and "feel pain in life"? I head up a poly meet up group. I have two great partners. Where am I being controlled or unhappy? Are we all worried I"m going to get 30 years down the road and have this lightbulb that I never wanted polyamory?

Not at all. Again, you mistake us for a hivemind. I'm more just interested in hearing about how your relationship functions day to day. You must admit, it is a bit unconventional, so we'd love to hear about it. We're fond of unusual here.

100% happy in life? An unlimited supply of LSD.

Lol, of course, but really now.
What would it take?

 

[KingOfCucks]

When you appear to be defending the idea that minors can consent, a discussion must be had, Jake. You can't just say that without following up.

Please, Jake, elaborate.

And don't tell the forumers where they get off. Remember that you're the cuck here, and you will always be a lesser lifeform because of it. Sit the fuck down.

I was asked directly, and I said no I don't believe so.

You don't get to come here to stir up drama on your page then act like you have some sort of moral high ground.

Sorry, forgot Kiwis are always on the moral high ground.

 

[wagglyplacebo]

Holy shit, the farms site is terrible at updating the thread and all of a sudden there's two pages of shit to sift through. There' s only one of me.

It's because the kiwi hive mind can't help but all yell at a lolcow at the same time instead of just seeing if anyone is doing a better job than they would at doing it.

 

[Tranhuviya]

First off: Welcome to the Farms, Mr. Rapp.

Might I ask how you and Alison met, and in what circumstances? I've seen your blogs, and it seems the two of you couldn't be more divergent in viewpoint at the time.

 

[Internet War Criminal]

No. And what part of not having this discussion here didn't you understand? Sit down.

You skirted around the issue and refuse to condemn it, do you really think we're NOT gonna probe whether the gigolo husband of a child porn defending prostitute whether he also defends child porn especially when he tries to couch bullshit in faux-academia term that seems to hint his views are somewhat in line with his wife?

I know you've been well trained by your wife but not everyone obeys to commands, Jake. But thanks for coming here and mostly not avoiding harder questions



Now go eat some ice cream. That's a good boy! Oh yes, that's a good boy.