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- Jun 17, 2016
I think Sander wants a girl in leggings and a bikini. He wants a trad hot girl.
Whatever woman falls for him, if there is such a being, they will be turned into his mommy in no time. Anything that has to be done, from minor things to major decisions, she’ll have to do. He’ll make sure of it, but will still be unhappy about it - but will never fight, even if she wants to discuss.
He’s the:
“what do you want for dinner, Sander?”
“Oh, whatever you want” type. Every time. (Red flag)
He will make her make decisions, but they will always be wrong. He’ll agree to a house purchase but then will secretly hate it and show his disdain by “accidentially” refusing upkeep. If she complains or reminds, she’s a bitch. He’ll say a vacation to Hawaii is fine, then refuse to participate tbecause it’s not the Carribean.
That way, he’s never wrong, his wife is at fault. She’s not as good as mommy, who would make the right decision. He’ll be passive aggressive, and put spaghetti in her hair while denying it. He’ll show no personality. His only hobby is being an Ally, which is not a hobby and his boredom will be her fault.
Any woman fooled by Sander will be miserable. She will be stupid or inexperienced because who else could fall for him, but even dumb people can be miserable and inexperienced women gain knowledge. But because she is naïve, she’ll have two kids before she realizes the problem is Sander and not her, and then it’s hard to leave.
But he definitely wants a hot girl. He’s very sensitive about people thinking he’s gay, so good-looking helps quell that. If she has a strong personality that will attract him because he can use her to hide behind.
His father has many of those behaviors too, hence Jazz having his dick cut off, only unlike Sander, I suspect he’s kind. He probably really felt it was the right thing-I don’t think he’d fuck with Jeannette’s hair for example. Sander is like passive too, but deep down he’s mean.
Whatever woman falls for him, if there is such a being, they will be turned into his mommy in no time. Anything that has to be done, from minor things to major decisions, she’ll have to do. He’ll make sure of it, but will still be unhappy about it - but will never fight, even if she wants to discuss.
He’s the:
“what do you want for dinner, Sander?”
“Oh, whatever you want” type. Every time. (Red flag)
He will make her make decisions, but they will always be wrong. He’ll agree to a house purchase but then will secretly hate it and show his disdain by “accidentially” refusing upkeep. If she complains or reminds, she’s a bitch. He’ll say a vacation to Hawaii is fine, then refuse to participate tbecause it’s not the Carribean.
That way, he’s never wrong, his wife is at fault. She’s not as good as mommy, who would make the right decision. He’ll be passive aggressive, and put spaghetti in her hair while denying it. He’ll show no personality. His only hobby is being an Ally, which is not a hobby and his boredom will be her fault.
Any woman fooled by Sander will be miserable. She will be stupid or inexperienced because who else could fall for him, but even dumb people can be miserable and inexperienced women gain knowledge. But because she is naïve, she’ll have two kids before she realizes the problem is Sander and not her, and then it’s hard to leave.
But he definitely wants a hot girl. He’s very sensitive about people thinking he’s gay, so good-looking helps quell that. If she has a strong personality that will attract him because he can use her to hide behind.
His father has many of those behaviors too, hence Jazz having his dick cut off, only unlike Sander, I suspect he’s kind. He probably really felt it was the right thing-I don’t think he’d fuck with Jeannette’s hair for example. Sander is like passive too, but deep down he’s mean.
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