Night Court is still unironically one of my favorite shows, but I only watched the first 10 minutes of the first episode of the new series. It's the same thing, I just want to see Dan Fielding Dan Fieldinging all over the place but the other characters seemed irritating and they were doing the same thing as with Martin where they kept reminding you Harry Anderson was dead. He should have rebooted the John Larroquette show instead, that was dark in a way that would really work now.
Oh, also I was so surprised they went with an audience/laugh track thing for the new Frasier. I loved the episodes in the later seasons that had some scenes outside the studio, they were more film-like. The one where Frasier holds up traffic in a mall parking deck for an hour because he refuses to pay since he entered but didn't park is top 10. And they quieted down that laugh track a lot in the later seasons too, so the next logical step was to get rid of it and the multi-cam sitcom setup altogether.
In the write-up I did for a Frasier reboot like five years ago Lilith ended up becoming a lesbian dating a younger hippie chick who tries to mellow her out. She was a minor enough character that you could do a twist like that and make them a double-act. Making Niles gay would be terrible though, you're right. The arc of the show is so much more about him and Daphne than anything about Frasier.