Never met a well-adjusted person with a rape fetish though...
because well-adjusted people don't openly talk about fantasies or kinks in polite society. Kevin is, as has been said a lot of times throughout this thread, the embodiment of his fetishes. He is a coomer. He MUST share EVERYTHING about his fetishes because of this.
Sorry that this is sorta off topic but I want to explain why it's "common" for women to have "rape fantansies" but why calling it that is neglecting the nuance that fully explains why it happens.
Women are taught from a very young age that their sexual desires are shameful and that having personal sexual agency is "slutty". Women still get horny though, so in a roundabout way of absolving themselves of self-imposed guilt in their own sexual fantasies, they imagine the things they want out of a sexual encounter just happening to them without them having had to ask for it. It's really the asking for it/expressing what they really want that they're ultimately ashamed of, and a "rape fantasy" just skips over all that. That's why it's common for women to have rape fantasies, but it's very very different from them being actually into rape as a fetish thing like Kevin and other deranged men are.
Yes, you hit a lot of correct points that I can definitely see ring true for other women and even for myself. And very good point with the distinction of rape fetish vs rape fantasy.
The whole "sex is wrong, being a sexual creature is wrong" thing which I wanna say comes from Europe gradually becoming Christian way back in the day, but obviously this is just my own bias from a Christian country, though thankfully not a hyper-religious family.
Another thing I think is really interesting is the rise of glorified fanfiction turned into books a la Fifty Shades and fanfic/self-insert smut within a fandom in general. I'm seeing a rise in abusive relationships/toxic male dynamics(again, 50 shades and similar), yandere characterisations for smut pieces and just generally "rape fantasies" bordering into "rape fetishes" within fandom writing - and that's not even touching upon yaoi or yuri writing. I'm curious if there's a correlation between the fujoshi who write these fics, the girls who consume them and how many of these people are trans/tucutes; I think it's already been mentioned way way back in the thread that FTMs are often fujoshi who wanna be "UwU cute soft birbs" and having "UwU Uke/seme" relationships.
Yeah. Consider the thriving romance novel market aimed at middle-aged small town religious moms who read about self-insert lead characters getting ravished by some hot dude.
yes! exactly. I didn't read Twilight when it came out, but I know it spawned Fifty Shades, which in turn spawned shit like
"After" (video by Amanda the Jedi, it's a fucking masterpiece of a shitty story). Why is this a thing, bodice rippers already existed before but somehow Mommy Porn became socially acceptable and EVERYONE's mother read 50 Shades..
Also I concur on an Amhole board, there's too many minor cows orbiting Kevin to keep them in this thread without people like me constantly shitting it up. I get that Kevin is funnier WITH his orbiters. Is Kevin a Rat King? Nay..an Amhole King ?