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FarmVille said:
I don’t get it.
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I know you don't get it, that's why you hate men.

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The Cringe Connoisseur said:
Seeing a cliche flaming faggot and thinking "I wonder if he's a bottom?" Is like wondering if an inner city black guy has a criminal record.
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It's obvious like that, I mean what if you see a guy who your gaydar picks up on, without any blatant cues. maybe there is some hidden body language or topics of conversation or personality that tops can pick up on.
 
awoo said:
It's obvious like that, I mean what if you see a guy who your gaydar picks up on, without any blatant cues. maybe there is some hidden body language or topics of conversation or personality that tops can pick up on.
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Wearing tight pants, constantly pushing out your ass, having a fruity stereotypically try hard "gay" voice, talking about dick cum and sex fucking constantly, having generic boring taste in music like basic bitch pop and all that, liking stereotypical gay crap like drag and the like, wearing makeup and just doing feminine shit in general is a pretty big give away that you're not the pitcher lol.
 
The Cringe Connoisseur said:
Wearing tight pants, constantly pushing out your ass, having a fruity stereotypically try hard "gay" voice, talking about dick cum and sex fucking constantly, having generic boring taste in music like basic bitch pop and all that, liking stereotypical gay crap like drag and the like, wearing makeup and just doing feminine shit in general is a pretty big give away that you're not the pitcher lol.
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Ok. I do not do any of those things, but I have always been not outwardly but internally sensitive and emotional and kinda needy, (which I hate sometimes and I want to get rid of, because it often leads to sad mood)
So I wonder if very observant people (or tops) somehow pick up on that and think wow he's such a bottom.
And I know logically people are not reading into things like that and they don't care, but I end up pondering it anyway.
 
awoo said:
I have always been not outwardly but internally sensitive and emotional and kinda needy, (which I hate sometimes and I want to get rid of, because it often leads to sad mood)
So I wonder if very observant people (or tops) somehow pick up on that and think wow he's such a bottom.
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its a clue, a puzzle piece of the larger picture
 
awoo said:
Ok. I do not do any of those things, but I have always been not outwardly but internally sensitive and emotional and kinda needy, (which I hate sometimes and I want to get rid of, because it often leads to sad mood)
So I wonder if very observant people (or tops) somehow pick up on that and think wow he's such a bottom.
And I know logically people are not reading into things like that and they don't care, but I end up pondering it anyway.
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That's usually been my experience- in terms of the guys I've talked to, the more (for lack of a better word) clingy they are, the more inclined they are to bottom, and vice versa. I know I'm extremely clingy and pretty much have only topped when asked to and have bottomed the rest of the time. I can't speak on if there's a correlation between fruitiness and a proclivity to bottom (since I avoid guys like that,) but it wouldn't surprise me.

If I had to idly theorize about it, maybe bottoms act more fruity and talk about cock and ass more because they have to spend more time to prep for sex than a top, assuming anal is on the itinerary? I've heard of some people planning their food for the day around facilitating sex later, so for some bottoms, the entire day is prep for gay behavior in a way, and that's why it's on their mind more

mister meaner said:
its a clue, a puzzle piece of the larger picture
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Yeah, I think someone's inherent lean towards either topping or bottoming is only part of it. The dynamic you have with the other person also plays a large role. There's also the whole "topping is not always being dominant/bottoming is not always being submissive" thing, but I haven't really vibed with stuff like that personally so I won't try to get into it, say something wrong, and risk making a freshly washed ass of myself
 
Leather Gliscor said:
Remember that some gay people aren't actually gay and are performative for social and political reasons. A lot of would-be bland normies tack themselves to us so they don't feel left out or boring, so they become insufferable power seekers instead. Pretty sure we've been outnumbered for a while, so it DOES make them the nu-gays. There's nothing that can be done about it but sit back and say "I told you so" or "you're the true destruction of our people." I know people say "hate is love by another name," but these people really do push the inverse: love as hate by another name. The difference being is a shallow, ingenuine love. They're all just a bunch of phony props, and they enjoy it.
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I've talked about this on here before. Out of all the groups in the LGBTBBQ community, the only one I will believe 100% of the time when they say what they are, are gay men.

Everyone else I will consider the evidence, but any time I meet a plain "G" I believe him no ifs no buts. You can get away with saying you're bi, trans, 'queer', asexual, whatever and not change anything about your life, or you can later on backtrack saying it was a phase, but I feel male homosexuality is stigmatised in more than enough spaces that it makes no sense to fake it when you're not. I simply can't imagine any straight man lying about being gay unless he's in some Adam Sandler romcom set of circumstances.

I didn't mention lesbians as they're a very very close 2nd place, just cause myself and a lot of other people know some chick who had a lesbian phase or a girlfriend when they were in their college years before going back to living their life as a straight woman. But yeah after your early 20s there's no reason to pretend to be a dyke.
 
FattyMcFatterson said:
Im bi and switch with guys. Two holes means twice the fun.
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I'm curious do you think this sorta thing applies to you (sorry for the autistic terminology)

Does anyone experience different types of horniness?

I seem to randomly fluctuate between two types, Type A and Type B

Type A is very masculine and is about being a top. It’s a mix of anger and desire. Kind of like if you see a cute baby or puppy and it feels aggressively cute. Type A is that but sexually for me. I have a desire to dominate and play a masculine role, where I am the aggressor. It is a feeling of wanting and it provokes me to be extroverted and go out and find someone

Type B is very feminine and is about being a bottom. My body feels softer and more relaxed…but my heart starts racing and my adrenaline is pumping. I want to be desired, feel sexy, and give up control. I want someone to come on to me and take control of me. This feeling provokes me to be introverted because I don’t want to be seen when I feel this way… it’s very different from how I want others to see me (strong and masculine)

I go through phases of both of these where I will lean more heavily on one than the other.

Anyone have a similar experience?

Thanks everyone!!
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celebrityskin said:
I've talked about this on here before. Out of all the groups in the LGBTBBQ community, the only one I will believe 100% of the time when they say what they are, are gay men.

Everyone else I will consider the evidence, but any time I meet a plain "G" I believe him no ifs no buts. You can get away with saying you're bi, trans, 'queer', asexual, whatever and not change anything about your life, or you can later on backtrack saying it was a phase, but I feel male homosexuality is stigmatised in more than enough spaces that it makes no sense to fake it when you're not. I simply can't imagine any straight man lying about being gay unless he's in some Adam Sandler romcom set of circumstances.

I didn't mention lesbians as they're a very very close 2nd place, just cause myself and a lot of other people know some chick who had a lesbian phase or a girlfriend when they were in their college years before going back to living their life as a straight woman. But yeah after your early 20s there's no reason to pretend to be a dyke.
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Men will say they're gay to a woman they either want to leave or to a woman that won't leave them alone.
 
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