wateryketchup
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It took all 200 of his IQ points to come up with that one.
Plagued Nice Guys
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Not a complete non-sequitur: I assume she's Italian, which makes this the pettiest attempt at racism I've ever seen.
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The one who paid the fee on Spokeo makes the hair on the back of my next stand up. That is a frightening lack of respect for boundaries right there.
You can opt-out of Spokeo and most of the other sites like that, but they're constantly getting records from third parties so you might get added again.
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I think it's worth pointing out plenty of dumpy-looking guys get attractive girlfriends, and many of those aren't even goldiggers.
There's nothing wrong with going "out of your league". Charisma and personality are just as of not more important than looks.
But since most of these guys think pestering the woman to play Mario Kart with them is charming, I'd say they lack both.
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There's certainly nothing wrong with trying to 'go out of your league'. The problem is when you feel ENTITLED to a 9+ girlfriend (or any girlfriend, for that matter) just because you want one. The entitled guys seem to think they literally should have to make zero effort--not even following basic hygiene protocols--and still score a supermodel who literally has millions of better options than them.
The Valeyard
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Here's another example of the "You aren't even that good looking" genre.
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Something that is really odd is that is whatsapp. Why would the bint give him her number? And there is a name behind that blackscreening. Someone you have no clue on, only talk in small words yet have them added?
Not sure that is legit.
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I think he was quietly added to her block list. He's a little different in that they were together it seems, but he broke it off and is put out she just didn't drop everything and take him back.
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Those fucking people are the worst. The other nice guys just ask you out and call you a slut when you reject them, but These... These pose as genuinely nice albeit shy guys, and through the friendship they make you walk on eggshells all the time, because everything could bother them since they have "depreshun" and "social anxiety". They are egocentric as fuck, even when they don't really mean it.
I hope this poor girl deleted and blocked him because those guys are AIDS with pure unadultered autism...
Friendship for these kind of faggots ain't about both sides of the relationship, it's all about them. I met one of these, we will call him R, he was a highschool friend, and used to hang silently with me and my friend and almost never talked but he didn't bother us so we allowed him to stay. Eventually the three of us became great friends.
Fastforward a few years we are in different colleges and me and my friend don't talk anymore but R and I are still friends. He needed to be treated with child gloves because almost everything triggered his anxiety or depression, made uncomfortable jokes, demanded lots of my attention and showered me with unwanted gifts, you know the drill with these guys. I didn't mind that much because, like I said, he seemed like a real Nice guy, even though he was a bit autistic.
Anyway, I'm one of those poor souls whose birthday is on finals, and can't get shitfaced because i'm busy studying for exams or preparing projects, usual stuff. A week or so before my birthday R messaged me on facebook, he wanted to come to my college to have some cheesecake. I had a lot of things to do that day so I declined politely, he got really angry, but not agressive angry, more like "You don't want to be my friend, how dare you!?" angry, I explained lots of times that I couldn't celebrate that day but we could go out another day, he was mad all the month IIRC, until I stoped his faggotry on tracks, I told him how possesive and stupid he was acting and he calmed down.
Interacting with him overall was like walking on eggshells, everything could make him sad, we needed to chat and go out often, and I could tell he was a bit upset everytime I declined an offer to go out. I couldn't even vent my problems with him because EVERYTHING could be anxiety and depression.
Fast forward a year or so later, Its September-October of 2017 and we are still friends, my favourite band was coming to Phoenix around December 3 and I asked if he wanted to go with me. Obviously he said yes.
Naturally, we planned how long we would stay there (just a couple of days), thought which hotel we wanted, where we would eat, how we would get there and once we had everything planned, we setted the matter and went on with our lives. The days after, he sent me a couple of articles akin to "100 things to do in Phoenix downtown", I answered something like "I can't read those right now, i'm busy" and he said Ok. The morning after he asked me what I thought about the articles, I said I didn't read them yet and he got piss mad because I wasn't taking the trip seriously, the 2-day trip that we were going to do in 3 months... When at the moment I had classes from 8 am to 7 pm... Yes i'm surely going to have the time to check shitty articles every time he sends them.
I told him to stop pestering me about the trip and he agreed, except he did it again the day after that. I told him that if he bothered me again I would go alone. That did the trick and he kept his trap shut about the topic.
The next and last tantrum of R was about a week or two later, and online. He and I used to play an online game together, it has a high learning curve so I was teaching him. Anyway, I had another friend who played the game and usually we would play some ranked matches together. R had neither the level nor the thick skin to endure angry 13-years-olds, so I would just tell him I wanted to play some rankeds and he would be fine and go to do something else...
Except one day my ranked buddy asked me to play and I just logged in and saw R online too. I thought it would be okay to not tell him since the game itselfs notifys you when your friends are playing, and which modes they are playing.
Except it was not Okay.
Since he has anxiety and depression and paranoia, I should be able to read his mind, and know that, if I decide to play with my other friends without telling him, he interprets it as if I want to abandon him and that I don't enjoy his friendship anymore. I am such a bad person!
I got pissed too and told him how stupid his assumptions were and told him to grow a spine and all that stuff. But in general, dust settled down and we were fine again. A phrase of his stuck with me, "I'm glad our friendship is so strong it can endure all of this stuff".
I went to bed and thought about my day.
I realized I didn't want anymore of that, it was draining, its a weird effect these people have on you, they drain you with their meaningless problems and tendencies to make oceans out of puddles, and I was just tired of that.
I got up, wrote him about how tired I was of walking on eggshells every time I interacted with him, and how stupid it was that I, an adult, had to ask him permision to do stuff with my friends, finally i blocked him and then I went to bed and, hours later, I woke up to all sorts of pathetic messages in my Videogame Inbox™. I just ignored those, didn't delete him from my friends list and thought he would get the hint and go away, I was wrong, the faggot was stalking me, watching me play but no biggie, I just deleted him.
But then he started greeting me and commenting on my facebook artpage, it was really pathetic, but I thought he would go away after a while.
Nope, this man had no dignity, 3 months after he was still commenting and greeting me, Oh well, more exposure for me, I guess. But one day, people asked me to do streams and he would join the stream and pester me in real time, whining about me ignoring him, and being cringy in general. I blocked him from the page. And thankfully he hasn't contacted me ever again.
I could post some chatlogs but they aren't funny and believe me, they are VERY pathetic. Besides they are written in Taco language so, eh.
Fastforward a few years we are in different colleges and me and my friend don't talk anymore but R and I are still friends. He needed to be treated with child gloves because almost everything triggered his anxiety or depression, made uncomfortable jokes, demanded lots of my attention and showered me with unwanted gifts, you know the drill with these guys. I didn't mind that much because, like I said, he seemed like a real Nice guy, even though he was a bit autistic.
Anyway, I'm one of those poor souls whose birthday is on finals, and can't get shitfaced because i'm busy studying for exams or preparing projects, usual stuff. A week or so before my birthday R messaged me on facebook, he wanted to come to my college to have some cheesecake. I had a lot of things to do that day so I declined politely, he got really angry, but not agressive angry, more like "You don't want to be my friend, how dare you!?" angry, I explained lots of times that I couldn't celebrate that day but we could go out another day, he was mad all the month IIRC, until I stoped his faggotry on tracks, I told him how possesive and stupid he was acting and he calmed down.
Interacting with him overall was like walking on eggshells, everything could make him sad, we needed to chat and go out often, and I could tell he was a bit upset everytime I declined an offer to go out. I couldn't even vent my problems with him because EVERYTHING could be anxiety and depression.
Fast forward a year or so later, Its September-October of 2017 and we are still friends, my favourite band was coming to Phoenix around December 3 and I asked if he wanted to go with me. Obviously he said yes.
Naturally, we planned how long we would stay there (just a couple of days), thought which hotel we wanted, where we would eat, how we would get there and once we had everything planned, we setted the matter and went on with our lives. The days after, he sent me a couple of articles akin to "100 things to do in Phoenix downtown", I answered something like "I can't read those right now, i'm busy" and he said Ok. The morning after he asked me what I thought about the articles, I said I didn't read them yet and he got piss mad because I wasn't taking the trip seriously, the 2-day trip that we were going to do in 3 months... When at the moment I had classes from 8 am to 7 pm... Yes i'm surely going to have the time to check shitty articles every time he sends them.
I told him to stop pestering me about the trip and he agreed, except he did it again the day after that. I told him that if he bothered me again I would go alone. That did the trick and he kept his trap shut about the topic.
The next and last tantrum of R was about a week or two later, and online. He and I used to play an online game together, it has a high learning curve so I was teaching him. Anyway, I had another friend who played the game and usually we would play some ranked matches together. R had neither the level nor the thick skin to endure angry 13-years-olds, so I would just tell him I wanted to play some rankeds and he would be fine and go to do something else...
Except one day my ranked buddy asked me to play and I just logged in and saw R online too. I thought it would be okay to not tell him since the game itselfs notifys you when your friends are playing, and which modes they are playing.
Except it was not Okay.
Since he has anxiety and depression and paranoia, I should be able to read his mind, and know that, if I decide to play with my other friends without telling him, he interprets it as if I want to abandon him and that I don't enjoy his friendship anymore. I am such a bad person!
I got pissed too and told him how stupid his assumptions were and told him to grow a spine and all that stuff. But in general, dust settled down and we were fine again. A phrase of his stuck with me, "I'm glad our friendship is so strong it can endure all of this stuff".
I went to bed and thought about my day.
I realized I didn't want anymore of that, it was draining, its a weird effect these people have on you, they drain you with their meaningless problems and tendencies to make oceans out of puddles, and I was just tired of that.
I got up, wrote him about how tired I was of walking on eggshells every time I interacted with him, and how stupid it was that I, an adult, had to ask him permision to do stuff with my friends, finally i blocked him and then I went to bed and, hours later, I woke up to all sorts of pathetic messages in my Videogame Inbox™. I just ignored those, didn't delete him from my friends list and thought he would get the hint and go away, I was wrong, the faggot was stalking me, watching me play but no biggie, I just deleted him.
But then he started greeting me and commenting on my facebook artpage, it was really pathetic, but I thought he would go away after a while.
Nope, this man had no dignity, 3 months after he was still commenting and greeting me, Oh well, more exposure for me, I guess. But one day, people asked me to do streams and he would join the stream and pester me in real time, whining about me ignoring him, and being cringy in general. I blocked him from the page. And thankfully he hasn't contacted me ever again.
I could post some chatlogs but they aren't funny and believe me, they are VERY pathetic. Besides they are written in Taco language so, eh.
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You should send him a sex tape and follow up with "Oops wrong person 
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At least he finally went away. Did he try the old "I'll kill myself if you won't be my friend again" gambit?
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He implied that I was the only person keeping him alive all this time when he wrote me on my Videogame Inbox™. I bet he knows that if he tried that cheap-ass tactic with me, I would've told him to do a flip.
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I'm old school, so my response when someone tries that is "remember, it's sideways for attention, longways for results!" I've been called a heartless bastard for calling their bluff, but emotional blackmail is a particularly insidious form of abuse.
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Agree whole-heartedly, it's really nasty, if they play it well, they make you look like the insensible bitch, I'm lucky this guy was a social inept.
I'm just tired of that, ever since I had these experiences with this man-child, the second I see emotional blackmail I just tell them to go fuck themselves.
I hope there is more space in the Heartless Bastards club
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Agree whole-heartedly, it's really nasty, if they play it well, they make you look like the insensible bitch, I'm lucky this guy was a social inept.
I'm just tired of that, ever since I had these experiences with this man-child, the second I see emotional blackmail I just tell them to go fuck themselves.
I hope there is more space in the Heartless Bastards club
My approach was to just dial a cop and go "hey this guy is threatening to kill himself right now, he sounds serious and crazy!" That way my conscious is clear without having to engage with them anymore and they usually get the shit scared out of them when their parents or roommates ask them why the police are there.
Not that they'd ever actually do it, but if they try to spread rumors and shit about how heartless you are, you at least have the defense of "I took that shit seriously"
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I do that as well. 72-hour involuntary psych holds are not fun, and usually, once they've experienced that, they don't play that card anymore.
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"You should have known I wasn't serious!" I'm not psychic woman and if I was, I would have realized how nuts you were when I met you and run away.I should try that next time they pull that on me