Plagued Nice Guys

[Bunny Tracks]

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He later apologized.

And it went just as badly as you'd think it would. Apparently he's been at this for a while.

Unsurprisingly, he deleted his account. And according to other people who had gone through his post history, he's apparently only fourteen and just starting high school.

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[DrJonesHat]

I think several of us have met the older version of that guy. If you have a circle of friends of any size, you've got that one person who's obsessed with someone in a relationship. And if you're unlucky, that person is scheming to break up the couple and get with the subject of their desire.

 

[Ido]

This is gonna be a fun one, alright so I've been on Omegle trolling around, of course the second I say f cuz they are almost always on their best behaviors since they want those sweet sweet nudes, here's some highlights.

Spoiler: tired of letting people in

Spoiler: apparently these people actually exist

Spoiler: Worth a sexual assault charge?

Spoiler: Just here to troll bruh,

This dude was mega pushy and irl this would have been terrifying.

BONUS:

Spoiler: Is this Marl?

 

[LtCucumber]

I think several of us have met the older version of that guy. If you have a circle of friends of any size, you've got that one person who's obsessed with someone in a relationship. And if you're unlucky, that person is scheming to break up the couple and get with the subject of their desire.

The only thing sadder than someone obsessed with a person in a relationship, is the one who is obsessed with a person who isn't interested- and pines for them regardless of how the person rejects them

Now, let's not be naive and act like stringing people along never, ever happens. I mean it's very cruel when it does happen, but if that person is stringing you along then you just need to suck it up and get over the fact that they're not that into you and that's that. No amount of waiting around and biting at their ankles like an abandoned puppy is going to do you any good.

It's honestly kinda sad when you explain to someone that if they say they're not looking for/ready for a relationship, it's just a nice way of them saying they're not interested- the worst part is when they don't seem to care because they seriously think that if they wait around long enough and that if they're nice enough, the other person will come around. They probably won't.

 

[DrJonesHat]

The only thing sadder than someone obsessed with a person in a relationship, is the one who is obsessed with a person who isn't interested- and pines for them regardless of how the person rejects them

Now, let's not be naive and act like stringing people along never, ever happens. I mean it's very cruel when it does happen, but if that person is stringing you along then you just need to suck it up and get over the fact that they're not that into you and that's that. No amount of waiting around and biting at their ankles like an abandoned puppy is going to do you any good.

It's honestly kinda sad when you explain to someone that if they say they're not looking for/ready for a relationship, it's just a nice way of them saying they're not interested- the worst part is when they don't seem to care because they seriously think that if they wait around long enough and that if they're nice enough, the other person will come around. They probably won't.

From my experience, the only way to deal with these people is to cut them off entirely. I wouldn't even risk being friends, because you know they'll constantly be trying to get you to be more than friends, and eventually you'll lose it and blow up. Yeah, it might seem harsh, but no one can accuse you of leading them on.

 

[AmpleApricots]

It's hard to step back from a romantic decleration that's one-sided to going back to be just friends I think. I think anyone who ever had any feelings knew that situation where they were interested in someone but had to realize that that other person just doesn't feel the same way. Such shit happens and being heartbroken for a while is fine. Lingering on a little bit too long is also a normal human experience if it doesn't go on too long.

Cutting off contact, at least for a while, and gaining distance is good for both parties really. I think in many cases where people stick around like that lovesick puppy they start falling in love with an idea of that relationship and "having" that person, having that desire of them, not really with the idea of a realistic relationship between two adults. It usually also happens to people who are inexperienced regarding relationships too. It's a pity in many ways because people can hold onto their "lovesickness" for years and miss many important experiences. Sadly in the more extreme cases such a thing is also not completely one-sided and the other party, in fact, is leading them on in some ways, for various reasons. It doesn't happen a lot but it does happen.

It's just a very unhealthy dynamic that rarely solves itself into something positive and it's best to avoid it, for both parties.

 

[LtCucumber]

From my experience, the only way to deal with these people is to cut them off entirely. I wouldn't even risk being friends, because you know they'll constantly be trying to get you to be more than friends, and eventually you'll lose it and blow up. Yeah, it might seem harsh, but no one can accuse you of leading them on.

Yeah, probably. I had a very cringe-inducing (but hilarious) conversation about this with my drunk best friend on a lads night out. I post too many :powerlevel: things on here to really go into it.

But the pure :autism: of people who don't even listen to "I'm not looking/ready for a relationship" and make it all about them. You'd think they heard "wait up for me", even though it's fucking obvious what people mean by "yeah i'm not looking for anything right now"

 

[DrJonesHat]

Yeah, probably. I had a very cringe-inducing (but hilarious) conversation about this with my drunk best friend on a lads night out. I post too many :powerlevel: things on here to really go into it.

But the pure :autism: of people who don't even listen to "I'm not looking/ready for a relationship" and make it all about them. You'd think they heard "wait up for me", even though it's fucking obvious what people mean by "yeah i'm not looking for anything right now"

Another one is they take "I have a boyfriend/husband" as a challenge instead of a rejection. Shit, I knew a guy who wouldn't try to get with a women unless she was in a relationship already. Why yes, he was a raging asshole.

 

[LtCucumber]

Another one is they take "I have a boyfriend/husband" as a challenge instead of a rejection. Shit, I knew a guy who wouldn't try to get with a women unless she was in a relationship already. Why yes, he was a raging asshole.

I think that's due to a mixture of things- but the people who think that any woman who says she's seeing someone or doesn't like men at all means "i'm just saying it so you'll leave me alone" and use it against them?? Like if she's using it to get you to bugger off, then clearly, she's not actually interested??? The mental gymnastics is retarded.

It's not "playing hard to get" it's called a no, mister.

 

[The Valeyard]

"I didn't rape you because I'm such a Nice Guy"

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[AmpleApricots]

Aa indeed.

Also a good example that "getting swole" doesn't get you chicks if you have the personality of an autistic manbaby.

 

[trashbat]

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it cracks me up that this reads like some kind of retarded appeal to radfem insanity. "all men are rapist monsters, so by not doing any rapes i'm already ahead of the pack"

is this the horseshoe at work?

 

[Alec Benson Leary]

"I didn't rape you because I'm such a Nice Guy"
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It's just sad anyone has to take this from a "friend". Friends are supposed to be people you don't have to put up your guard against.

 

[Vorhtbame]

So let me get this straight.

"I'm gon' do you up the butt." "No." "ok j/k lol" "lol" = bad
"I would totally rape you if given the chance" = good

 

[Frogasm]

it cracks me up that this reads like some kind of exceptional appeal to radfem insanity. "all men are rapist monsters, so by not doing any rapes i'm already ahead of the pack"

weirdly, i've met some men whose sole exposure of feminist theory is to radfems and because it's all they've seen they just assume that all feminism is anti-porn and thinks all men are rapists, etc. they do not understand that it's a continuum or something that people pick and choose with

these men almost always end up as nice guys sliding towards inceldom

 

[DrJonesHat]

If someone speaks of feminism in the singular, you can pretty much be assured they have no idea what they're talking about. Feminism is so fragmented, there's not even a single definition that would fit all the permutations of it. Or they try to portray the most radical adherents as representative of the mainstream. They get pissed off when you point out that many feminists are straight women, so they'd be quite lonely if they hated all men as rapists.

 

[Brother Wind]

Can someone explain why some guys are so eager to chat off a dating website? I always find it very creepy when the second thing they say to me is to ask me for my Facebook/kik/WhatsApp/Skype it even phone number.

I mean forgive the power level, but I hate most dating apps chats. I will ask if things are going well. Not the fucking second message.

Its really like some people have no self awareness

 

[AmpleApricots]

Many people are very careless about their online footprint, so having one persistent point of contact data makes it a lot easier to cyberstalk them and google all kinds of information, especially if you get a real name, or a nickname they use everywhere which is sometimes even better. It's really dumb to share such details with somebody you don't know. Also they're basically trying to force their foot into the door probably because their longer chats on the apps turn out poor, these nice guys are probably not very successful there, hence nice guys. Instead of thinking why that is and doing some self reflection about the way they appear to others, they go at it the wrong way and try to make it more difficult for their "objects of affection" to "escape". It's quite creepy indeed.

 

[HG 400]

This is gonna be a fun one, alright so I've been on Omegle trolling around, of course the second I say f cuz they are almost always on their best behaviors since they want those sweet sweet nudes, here's some highlights.

Spoiler: tired of letting people in

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Spoiler: apparently these people actually exist

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Spoiler: Worth a sexual assault charge?

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Spoiler: Just here to troll bruh,

This dude was mega pushy and irl this would have been terrifying.
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BONUS:

Spoiler: Is this Marl?

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"Haha I went on the website that just exists so people can watch each other jack off and then I didn't jack off with anybody they all got tricked lol time to go post this ebin content on kiwi farms".

You should feel embarrassed.

 

[Ido]

"Haha I went on the website that just exists so people can watch each other jack off and then I didn't jack off with anybody they all got tricked lol time to go post this ebin content on kiwi farms".

You should feel embarrassed.

Ido