Plagued Nice Guys

[Saney]

I love how they seem to be implying that the guy no longer cares about the girl now that she's had kids and isn't attractive anymore. What a nice guy

Pretty typical of them, really. They're all shallow little creeps who refuse to lower their standards despite the fact that they're no prizes themselves.

 

[ZeCommissar]

Pretty typical of them, really. They're all shallow little creeps who refuse to lower their standards despite the fact that they're no prizes themselves.

LOWERING YOUR STANDARDS ARE FOR BETAS! CHAD DOESN'T LOWER HIS!!!


What I can't fathom is why some of them are so socially inept that not even a autistic girl would want to be with them. How can someone actually think that being nice is all you need in a relationship? Is this societies fault?

 

[Country Matters]

What I can't fathom is why some of them are so socially inept that not even a autistic girl would want to be with them. How can someone actually think that being nice is all you need in a relationship? Is this societies fault?

Some people will blame the fact that, in movies and shit like that, the guy always gets the girl, because he's the hero and shit (and there's actually some fairly interesting non-totally-sjw-discussion on the perception of women as prizes in many movies). It's even worse in like romcoms and shit, where a guy who's rejected by a girl just has to harass her repeatedly until she falls in love with him

That might be it. Might also be the fact they're fucking idiots, and entitled. Or maybe a little bit of column a, little bit of column b

 

[Replicant Sasquatch]

LOWERING YOUR STANDARDS ARE FOR BETAS! CHAD DOESN'T LOWER HIS!!!


What I can't fathom is why some of them are so socially inept that not even a autistic girl would want to be with them. How can someone actually think that being nice is all you need in a relationship? Is this societies fault?

It's not they just think they're nice. They believe they're the only nice ones. Chad is an abusive, shallow, womanizing JERK but all the cute girls still go for him.

 

[Lorento]

SNL did a pretty good skit on nice guys last week.

I'M WEARIN THIS SHIRT AND YOU WONT LET ME NUT?!?!

Amusingly, when I was in a Latin poetry lecture today, we ended up watching this after reading an Ovid poem that was all about the Nice Guy Cyclops, Polyphemos. And all of the girls in the class were nodding at each other and all the guys were cringing. I love my life.

 

[GV 998]

What "Nice Guys" fail to realize, every time, is that there is a huge, HUGE difference between being a nice person and being a "polite" person.

Being polite is easy as shit, once you know the expected social graces. The beauty of politeness is that it's easy to fake. It allows our society to continue to function in spite of our own nature. This is easily identifiable in the world of business, for example. You take two CEOs of major companies. They hate each others guts. But, because their companies can work together, they maintain a polite, amicable relationship with each other. Doesn't change the fact that they masturbate to the thought of stabbing the other guy every night.

Politeness also works to cover up a bad personality. And it is fairly effective. Here's where the Nice Guys fall down. For one, they're not actually nice people. So it is 100% a facade. And two, they are not only horny as hell, they're also just as impatient, if not more.

So when a girl isn't impressed by their Nice Guy persona, they drop the pretense almost immediately and unleash their true, venomous selves.

"What do you mean you won't go out on a date with me?! I held the door open for you, like, every day for two weeks! Why can't you just give a nice guy like me a chance! I bet you're just going to go home to your thug boyfriend who smacks you around every night! Whatever, you aren't worth a guy like me anyway, you fat pig! ..... Why am I so alone?"

 

[Cosmos]

This thread in a nutshell:

 

[Alec Benson Leary]

It's not they just think they're nice. They believe they're the only nice ones.

This is such a huge part of it. They think so highly of themselves, they can't wrap their minds around the idea that anyone else has anything going for them too.

 

[pozilei]

I agree with so many things said here about the nature of Nice Guys (i.e. their niceness just being a means to an end rather than genuine). What baffles me most though is their weird selfishness. Not just in a "I want this person, so I should have them" kinda way but in the total lack of understanding that every person, whether it's the object of their desire or some Chad, has a life, history and personality as complex as his own.

They always jump to the conclusion that, when a girl/woman turns them down, they want to hop on some abusive douchebag's dick instead of, y'know, they maybe just got out of a relationship and aren't over it yet, or they know they'll be moving across the country soon and don't want to complicate things. Or any other myriad of reasons a person might not want to date right now.

 

[Alec Benson Leary]

I agree with so many things said here about the nature of Nice Guys (i.e. their niceness just being a means to an end rather than genuine). What baffles me most though is their weird selfishness. Not just in a "I want this person, so I should have them" kinda way but in the total lack of understanding that every person, whether it's the object of their desire or some Chad, has a life, history and personality as complex as his own.

They always jump to the conclusion that, when a girl/woman turns them down, they want to hop on some abusive douchebag's dick instead of, y'know, they maybe just got out of a relationship and aren't over it yet, or they know they'll be moving across the country soon and don't want to complicate things. Or any other myriad of reasons a person might have to not date right now.

And any guy who is not a repulsive slob like them has probably had a woman express interest in him when he wasn't into it too. Like you say there can be a lot of reasons, and it's just plain difficult to let the other person down without hurting them.

 

[Cosmos]

 

[Replicant Sasquatch]

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The shadow of his fedora is shopped in. I've seen the original and it's still pathetic though.

 

[Hi I Am From Page 6]

the total lack of understanding that every person, whether it's the object of their desire or some Chad, has a life, history and personality as complex as his own.

I think that's probably the root of the problem: they don't really grasp that other people are real people. The Nice Guy is the central character of the universe, all others are supporting roles or NPCs, so of course it's reasonable to fly into a rage when people don't fulfil their ordained roles correctly.

 

[Saney]

I think that's probably the root of the problem: they don't really grasp that other people are real people. The Nice Guy is the central character of the universe, all others are supporting roles or NPCs, so of course it's reasonable to fly into a rage when people don't fulfil their ordained roles correctly.

So they're all raging narcissists?
...
Yeah, I can believe that.

 

[GlassesWearingGenie]

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If only the m'ladies would just notice how nice they are, because taking pictures of people from behind is such a nice thing to do!

 

[Hi I Am From Page 6]

So they're all raging narcissists?
...
Yeah, I can believe that.

That or some lovely combination of autistic and shitty personality.

 

[StraightShooter]

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Hm, could be that you dress so fancy pancy that most women assume you're gay, just a thought.

Or maybe the fact that your shadow looks like an obese guy who cosplays Walter White from Breaking Bad...

 

[GlassesWearingGenie]

Ah, scene girl profiles are such a breeding ground for "nice guys©". Scene beans attract them like flies on a piece of dog shit.

This guy, inpaticular, is a special case of exceptional. Lol at him chimping out on me too. He's such a dense ass motherfucker, he makes it way too easy for me.

 

[TowinKarz]

Obviously, someone who casually tosses around words like "douchebag" and "faggot" directed at total strangers can't POSSIBLY have a shitty attitude that repels Da Ladiez (tm), right?

 

[Ravelord]

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Major powerlevel and dox because :autism:

Hi Scott Anderson. No, J Zw isn't gonna suck your dick either.

EDIT: Nice deletion/damage control. But is not like I'm gonna go full dynastia on you. Just a friendly reminder that you should not powerlevel here. At least you edited the image properly this time.