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Police have stated that her cause of death was unrelated to the bathroom fight.
My guess is that she went home and either accidentally or purposely OD’d.
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My guess is that she went home and either accidentally or purposely OD’d.
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More like a band kid.
I'm not seeing it. She looks like an average nerdy girl who probably would've been emo or something 15 years ago.
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Nex being interviewed in the hospital after the fight:
Associated Press - Video shows Oklahoma nonbinary teen after attack in school bathroom, the day before their death (link | archive)
The New York Daily News (link) and the New York Post (link) are running a security camera shot in the hallway outside the restroom that shows Nex walking away after the fight:
hi hey stranger hey Mr Thompson I'm Mom
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oh Thompson we spoke on the phone the
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other day
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yes I'm glad you're here so what
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happened today I got jumped tell me
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about it what happened uh they've been
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antagonizing uh you know the people that
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I got caught with uh you mean from the
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other day The Vaping situations okay uh
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they were in the St oh okay okay yeah uh
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where's my glasses can't see
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anything
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sorry okay what I was told they they
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called me I'll just start here they
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called me and well I know all week long
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she's been in I right doing great okay
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and everything we had a long talk I mean
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we've been doing awesome and she told me
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she said mom she said these three girls
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there are just they they won't leave me
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alone they're making comments they're y
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they're com calling us names they're
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throwing stuff at us and this is an ISB
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I'm like well who's over this place I
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said ignore it Dad me get get above it
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you know just ignore it sure she did
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until she couldn't in the bathroom and
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they said that there was three girls
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that were on top of her just beating the
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crap out of her and I said okay so what
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are we doing about this oh well in a
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couple days we'll talk about it I said
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no I want something different who who
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said it in a couple days the the
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principal okay why are they saying that
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I said I think we need to have a police
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off it's assault because she never
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touched them she never touched them now
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she did based on your understanding yeah
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now she did um and it's and everyone has
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said it she did throw some water at them
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because they you know so let me and I
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appreciate mom you you filling her in
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but but miss dagy why don't you tell me
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okay I'm sorry no no you're good mom
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you're good okay I'm just mad I'm very
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mad sure sure and I don't want to cut
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you off but um I like to hear from
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especially the older they are yes they
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they can tell me essentially what
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happened so so let me let me ask you
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this
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first and I'm taking this off of what
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mama just said so clear up the the
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confusion the confusion when this first
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started happening whatever this is going
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this banter back and forth between you
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and and the other individuals did you at
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any point contact any school
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administration whether it be
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counselor um the the teacher that
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you know sits in that classroom did you
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let any of them know at any point in
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time no okay and I'm just asking there
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no right or wrong but why not um I
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didn't really see the point in it I I
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told my mom though sure sure but you
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didn't tell the school where they could
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actually do something at any point
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during this whole
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situation and I use the wor the the the
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word Loosely but the bantering or
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whatever it is going back and forth
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between you guys obviously you know each
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other obviously you both got well you
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know of each other with the Vape
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situations and all that or no we before
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this we had no rec before this ISP thing
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we had we never saw each other the
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Freshman were sophomore okay we didn't
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know any I don't know their names I
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don't know okay so so they just up and
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decided to start messing with you there
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was there yeah because of the way that
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we dress okay so you didn't do anything
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at all at any point in time that would
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have uh even a couple days ago or even a
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month ago or or anything like that I
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don't know these girls okay all right so
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so they just continue to to to pick on
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you and pick on you um then at some
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point you did what what happened they
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they got up and confronted you in class
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or we were or did you say it was the
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bathroom or the hallway okay the
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bathroom we were going to stack chairs
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and we after we stack chairs we went to
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the bathroom and I was talking with my
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friends they were talking with their
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friends and we were laughing and they
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had said something like why do they
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laugh like that and and they were
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talking about us in front of us and so I
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went up there and I poured water on them
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and then all three of them came at me
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you know U pour in the water cuz I'm I'm
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trying to get this in my mind so I see
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you know as best I had a water bottle
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thank you that's what was ask where did
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you where did you get this water was it
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a cup you found was it your water bottle
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it's my uh your daily water bottle you
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car about I think it was a plastic water
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bottle okay fair enough okay so you
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squirted them with water threw water on
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whatever it was okay okay um then at
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that point what happened
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uh they came at me they grabbed on my
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hair I grabbed on to them uh I threw one
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of them into a paper towel dispenser and
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then they got my legs out from under me
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and got me on the ground started beating
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the out of me okay and then my
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friends tried to jump in help but I'm
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not sure I blacked out when when did
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this happen today uh around one okay so
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around around lunch time yeah okay yeah
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um so I'm I'm going to follow up mom as
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far as you're concerned I'm going to
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definitely follow up with the school
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tomorrow morning um figure out because
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guess any criminal type action the
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school is supposed to give us a call
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that's um so whether they just
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got and I'm not make excuses for them
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but I've seen it happen both ways either
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they maybe they forgot maybe there was
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other things going on who knows but the
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fact of matter is they they they dropped
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the ball in this one of not notifying me
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or right away I told them I wanted
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something done said that is assault she
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never laid her hands now she did the
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water that was wrong well and I'll I'll
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explain the the criminal side of that in
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just a second but as far as the school
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goes um just for what it's worth just
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say I I will on your behalf I will speak
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to the school tomorrow not that it's
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going make it any better but I'm also
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going to gather all the information I
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can from all parties okay so not only
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talking to you guys but I am going to go
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talk to all the other parties tomorrow
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as well and and they're their um their
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their Guardians as well and and all that
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good stuff okay but yes typic they're
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supposed to but they're human I know but
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if I tell them why wouldn't they do it I
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I I don't know I can't account for that
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I I don't know I don't know and they
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told me I had to wait also but also Mom
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and and again I'm not again I'm not
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taking their side or anything I'm just
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telling you just just parent to parent
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kind of thing adult to adult nothing
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says that you can't pick up the phone
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either that's why I did from but I mean
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before even being here at the School hey
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uh 911 I'm at whatever school I'm at the
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west campus I've asked a school to
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contact one of the school resource
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officers they're not doing it what in a
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timely manner dispatch me one out then
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they get on my main side Channel Hey
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officer Thompson come out just like
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right now officer Thompson we've got a
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student with an altercation situation
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happened at the west campus sometime
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today can you go follow up now at the ER
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so that that they'll just get me to the
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to the high school uhhuh that much
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quicker okay for for for your preference
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you see what I'm saying okay so I should
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have went ahead and did it if if the
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school if the school does not want to
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call you have every right as a guardian
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okay I want a police officer if the
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school's not going to do it fine you you
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take the initiative you pick up the
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phone and you go ahead and call and say
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I would like an officer here okay they
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can't they I will show up okay okay so
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it's doesn't matter if it comes through
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the channel of the school or the channel
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of the city yeah I will get both feeds I
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will be there one way or another okay so
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just just for thought for the future
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okay well hopefully it doesn't happen
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again just anything in in life you know
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yeah um now as as to the specifics of
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the criminal crime okay I'm this is what
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I'm going to tell you yes I can
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technically do a report for the assault
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and batter absolutely okay um because
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it's unwanted touching of one individual
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to another they put their hands on you
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okay and it was unwanted I will also
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tell you though that that will saying
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what's good for the goose is good for
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the gander meaning
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the way you the the courts are going to
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look at is it's it's a mutual fight okay
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so both parties are victims but both
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parties are also suspects in this you
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get what I'm saying your offender as
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well so I will absolutely do a port if
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that's what you want I can do okay but
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I'm just letting you know the other
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party wants to do the same thing she's
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going to be uh the assault will be on
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her as well um because she first
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assaulted she was the one who initiated
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it essentially because you got freedom
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of speech you can do all this all day
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the action of physically the moment she
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threw that water you've now assaulted
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somebody you made the first
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jab just because it doesn't make it
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right but they defended themselves quote
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unquote you retaliated back now we've
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got this back and forth when both
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parties had equal opportunity to
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separate so that's where I'm saying it's
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it's not going to be in the best of
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light for you but I can absolutely do
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that if that's what you like I'm just
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telling you it's it may not go the
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direction you want it to go I am not the
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judge I'm not the jury I'm here to just
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say this is the facts this is what's
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presented but mom as guardian because
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essentially juvenile cannot make that
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legal decision if you want to proceed
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with it absolutely I will have you write
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out a statement I'll document it but I'm
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going to have to do the same thing for
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them and if they say that I'm going to
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gather their information as well and
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based on her own admittance on camera as
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well as whatever else she essentially
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started it yes you see what I'm saying
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so so I'm not trying to dve the bus or
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anything like that I'm just like you
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know this is what will probably happen
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going forward yeah but I can absolutely
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do that if that's the documentation that
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you would what through the criminal side
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now through the school side the school
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has their own it's a zero tolerance just
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like the Vapes if all parties involved
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everyone gets in trouble with this one
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it's more of we're going to see we're
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going to cut down and see what elements
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meet any kind of specific crime um if
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she
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was
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when she was first explaining to me hey
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I didn't do a dang thing minded my own
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business I went to the bathroom they
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followed me in there and they attacked
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me okay she's a true victim of assault
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and battery mhm she did nothing but the
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fact that she through that water it kind
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of It kind of kind of puts her even
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though she didn't put hands on them it's
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still Sal batter it's it's salt the the
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the water the water you see what I'm
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saying if you have not have done
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that absolutely victim all day long and
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I got you and I still got you because
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I'm here to just put the facts down I'm
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not here to but I'm just telling you
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this is a good chance of the direction
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it will go when it goes to the Ada or
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when he goes to the judges they're going
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to look at it and say okay let's break
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it down piece by piece element by
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element who actually started the
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situation run in the mouth is freedom of
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speech yes unfortunately you can say
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mean hurtful things all day long mhm
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and you got to let it roll off your
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shoulder the moment someone retaliates
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or does something physically M or a
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directive threat verbally now you have
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something throwing that water on
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there just cuz it's water doesn't make
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it any better it could have been urine
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it could have been paint it could have
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been anything what about because there
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was three of them and she only threw
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water on one doesn't matter I mean it
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matters for the school the school's
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going to to everyone's going to be
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disciplined that everybody that went in
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there everyone that was in her her group
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everybody that was in the other group
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doesn't matter if there's 30 of them
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fighting they're all going to be
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disciplined in the school from a
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criminal side of things it doesn't make
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it okay you had three versus one it
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doesn't matter what matters is who
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started
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it and how what where where how bad of a
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situated like was there weapons involved
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was there not things like that okay but
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but the biggest part is the fact that
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it's a mutual fight so they all are
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victims but they're all suspects but
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she's in a little bit more of a
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situation because she's the one who
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started it by throwing a object or an
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item onto another individual starting
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the incident she she's she's the one who
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started the domino effect yeah if she
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had never done that and I'm not blaming
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you I know if you had not have done that
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we may not even be here or they would
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have went ahead and did their thing to
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you yeah you know okay now again hey I
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was in the bathroom my friends minding
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my own business they started yapping we
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started yapping but nothing happened
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then they threw us in the wall okay now
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I have where again a true victim but
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again I'll show you essentially shut
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your mouth as soon as you hit them with
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water okay doesn't not give them the
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right to do it by any means it's still
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does not give them a right to put their
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hands on you at all that's why I say
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they're just as guilty as you are 100%
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it's just I hate to see you both a
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criminally wise get hung up on something
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so minuscule but I am here to do that if
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that's what you like okay what I want
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done or what I would like done and I
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hope you agree is that you go to the
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school and find out why they did not
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call you MH and and you know what I mean
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I want that to be known because they are
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in the wrong for that oh I I I agree
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with you I was I was wrong I should have
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I didn't know I could write there and
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then they said okay well in 24 48 hours
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when I get all of our statements and
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this and that then we'll call someone in
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if you want and I I'm like okay I
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thought that's the way it was done and
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then I talked with my sister and she
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said no h when you take her up there get
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someone up there right away yeah um and
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I will certainly absolutely have their
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talk um and I will document my own
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internal with my notes because again
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this there's a digital call here for
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this m so so it's not like there's no I
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mean it's not a formal report but
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there's a digital and in that note I'm
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going to explain you know I'll put in
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there the fact I explain the options to
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you you chose hey we're you know and I
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don't want to put words in your mouth
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but essentially you do not want a formal
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Char prosecute right now yeah and right
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now you would rather handle it civil
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yeah internally if you will yes between
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parent guardian and the school yes okay
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um doesn't mean you can't civy sue them
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it doesn't mean that you can't
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protective orders against them I'm just
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giving you those options I just want
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those girls to know that they need to
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cuz they actually started everything
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from the get-go okay the they you know
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from what I understand from um talking
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with uh the friend you know I know all
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the girls Okay and she told me and then
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separately she told me and the stories I
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mean it wasn't like they were together
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saying okay this is what happen and and
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that's my plan is to find out tomorrow
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with with the admin what is all going on
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from all sides all corners and if I can
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get additional facts of anything mom um
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I don't have a problem I'll contact you
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and let you know hey look there's more
15:05
more to the story or this is what is
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believed to be I want the parents to
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know what yeah I want the parents to
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know also what their their girls are
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doing so so right and so with that um
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because it's a
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juvenile I can't tell you what is I I
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just want you so what I can tell you is
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I will be in on conversation with the
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school however that capacity may be with
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the parent yes so so if I'm able and I
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have the ability to sit down with parent
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and say look this is what's what which
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is what I'm hoping for then absolutely
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yes if it's a situation where it's
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already been handled for whatever reason
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and I'm behind on catching up to all
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that I'm not going to call parents in
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after the fact and
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reash everything all over but with you I
15:53
don't mind calling you saying okay look
15:56
this is what school has said this is the
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information I've gotten um Mom this is
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where I'm at now at this point kind of
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thing I have no problems with that okay
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and and if you decide to change your
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mind I mean tomorrow morning when I call
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you mid morning you know before noon if
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you say hey look I slept on it I really
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feel like I want to go ahead and
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absolutely Mom okay then then you can
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come up to I can actually I can send you
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an email with a digital um so you don't
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have a a hard copy here I'll send you a
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digital print of our witness statement
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you can fill that out on her behalf MH
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of what she told you kind of thing um I
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don't know is she are you going to be at
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school tomorrow or okay they're going to
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keep you they suspended her okay so well
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and again yeah that's that's the school
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thing but you'll be home so if you say
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look I was Restless sleeping last night
16:46
we we we think we'd rather go ahead and
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do it not a problem okay I I'll still
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take care of you I'll just reopen this
16:53
call I'll start a report I'll send you
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an email you can fill it out with her
16:58
mhm um what she says don't add lit you
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know just put but you know um put the
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facts um and I will be asking you that
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when I call you that'll be the first
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thing I ask you before I give you
17:08
additional information okay because I
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don't want to sway you one way or
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another um well here's additional facts
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oh well then this that and the other um
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I would say Mom you've had 12 hours of
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sleep on it as a guardian what do you
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want to do as a parent um you make the
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decision kind of thing if you stand by
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it I'm with you if you change your mind
17:27
so be it
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um and then once you send me the email
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back and I get it all confirmed by
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replying back um with the case number
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and all that so that way you have a a
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number associated you can go to the
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records and obtain that if you want now
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I won't give you very many facts of
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anything it's going to be the basic who
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what whenn were wise to everything but
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um to to get the actual detail of
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everyone's statements um schools parents
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kids all that stuff you have to actually
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subpena for it and all that records act
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and all that but I don't think that's
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necessary personally but that's your
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prerogative um but I will follow up
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tomorrow morning with you sometime okay
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between 9:00 and noon that's fine um
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depending on what other calls I get
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through the 15 schools and we'll we'll
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go from there okay if medically here
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she's got a fractured this that the
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other whatever it may be
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um that documentation have that as well
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because if if you decide to move forward
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with wanting the press charges there is
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something
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legitimate more than just a scratch you
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know what I'm saying you know something
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that's okay then we can document that
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and and go from there okay um but but
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I'm just giving you all I'm just
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vomiting everything to you right now
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yeah yeah I'm going to talk with with
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her some more and I know she's hurting
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right now it's bad well I mean it always
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hurts when you get in a fight whether
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you're the winner or the loser yeah it
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stresses the body out and it's really
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not worth it oh yeah so so um okay well
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that's what I'll do like said I'll I'll
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get with school as soon as I can in the
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morning okay um try try to get what I
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can and we'll go from there chastise
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them for not calling well we we'll
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definitely have a talk about that
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because they they know better and and
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and I will say for what it's worth um
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I've worked with her for five years
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she's you she's typically spot on meaning
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the one who was with us in in our she is
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one she's one of the best in that School
19:28
of yeah that's what I don't understand
19:31
yeah so so if I was a betting person I
19:34
would venture to say that there was
19:36
something else a little bit more
19:37
precedent you know that was going on not
19:40
that this was not but I think you know
19:42
like anything maybe it was a little
19:43
overwhelming maybe she had something
19:45
else going on and it just slipped her
19:47
mind probably um because as soon as I I
19:51
sent her a text message I said do you
19:53
know anything about a fight at the
19:54
school because I'm going to the ER and
19:56
she goes oh my gosh oh my gosh yes um
19:58
can I call you get I said I'm pulling
20:00
them to the are now I I'll get with you
20:02
tomorrow and she's like okay I'm so
20:03
sorry yes there was an incident at the
20:05
end of the day um I'll get with you
20:07
tomorrow and I was like get ready to
20:09
fill out statements and everything else
20:10
because I need to know details and she
20:12
said yes sir I know so um all right
20:15
thank you if it was any other individual
20:18
I may be a little bit more harsh about
20:19
it but she's usually on her toes usually
20:23
so but I'll get with your mom all right
20:25
all right thank you so much thank you
20:26
for coming up here it's nice to meet
20:28
nice to meet you in person good Lu to
20:30
you I'll see you around hopefully well
20:33
no yeah hopefully not well not in a bad
20:36
way I mean hopefully I see you around
20:38
school and class and wander in the halls
20:40
and all that good stuff you can smile
20:42
and wave and say hey Thompson and you
20:44
know all that good stuff so yeah all
20:46
right you guys have a good
20:57
evening
0:09
oh Thompson we spoke on the phone the
0:10
other day
0:11
yes I'm glad you're here so what
0:14
happened today I got jumped tell me
0:17
about it what happened uh they've been
0:20
antagonizing uh you know the people that
0:22
I got caught with uh you mean from the
0:25
other day The Vaping situations okay uh
0:28
they were in the St oh okay okay yeah uh
0:32
where's my glasses can't see
0:34
anything
0:36
sorry okay what I was told they they
0:38
called me I'll just start here they
0:41
called me and well I know all week long
0:42
she's been in I right doing great okay
0:45
and everything we had a long talk I mean
0:47
we've been doing awesome and she told me
0:49
she said mom she said these three girls
0:52
there are just they they won't leave me
0:56
alone they're making comments they're y
0:59
they're com calling us names they're
1:00
throwing stuff at us and this is an ISB
1:02
I'm like well who's over this place I
1:05
said ignore it Dad me get get above it
1:07
you know just ignore it sure she did
1:10
until she couldn't in the bathroom and
1:13
they said that there was three girls
1:15
that were on top of her just beating the
1:17
crap out of her and I said okay so what
1:19
are we doing about this oh well in a
1:21
couple days we'll talk about it I said
1:23
no I want something different who who
1:25
said it in a couple days the the
1:27
principal okay why are they saying that
1:29
I said I think we need to have a police
1:31
off it's assault because she never
1:33
touched them she never touched them now
1:36
she did based on your understanding yeah
1:38
now she did um and it's and everyone has
1:42
said it she did throw some water at them
1:44
because they you know so let me and I
1:47
appreciate mom you you filling her in
1:49
but but miss dagy why don't you tell me
1:51
okay I'm sorry no no you're good mom
1:53
you're good okay I'm just mad I'm very
1:55
mad sure sure and I don't want to cut
1:57
you off but um I like to hear from
2:00
especially the older they are yes they
2:03
they can tell me essentially what
2:05
happened so so let me let me ask you
2:07
this
2:08
first and I'm taking this off of what
2:10
mama just said so clear up the the
2:13
confusion the confusion when this first
2:16
started happening whatever this is going
2:18
this banter back and forth between you
2:19
and and the other individuals did you at
2:22
any point contact any school
2:24
administration whether it be
2:27
counselor um the the teacher that
2:30
you know sits in that classroom did you
2:31
let any of them know at any point in
2:33
time no okay and I'm just asking there
2:36
no right or wrong but why not um I
2:39
didn't really see the point in it I I
2:42
told my mom though sure sure but you
2:44
didn't tell the school where they could
2:46
actually do something at any point
2:47
during this whole
2:49
situation and I use the wor the the the
2:52
word Loosely but the bantering or
2:55
whatever it is going back and forth
2:56
between you guys obviously you know each
2:57
other obviously you both got well you
3:00
know of each other with the Vape
3:02
situations and all that or no we before
3:05
this we had no rec before this ISP thing
3:08
we had we never saw each other the
3:10
Freshman were sophomore okay we didn't
3:12
know any I don't know their names I
3:14
don't know okay so so they just up and
3:17
decided to start messing with you there
3:19
was there yeah because of the way that
3:21
we dress okay so you didn't do anything
3:23
at all at any point in time that would
3:25
have uh even a couple days ago or even a
3:27
month ago or or anything like that I
3:29
don't know these girls okay all right so
3:32
so they just continue to to to pick on
3:34
you and pick on you um then at some
3:37
point you did what what happened they
3:39
they got up and confronted you in class
3:42
or we were or did you say it was the
3:43
bathroom or the hallway okay the
3:45
bathroom we were going to stack chairs
3:48
and we after we stack chairs we went to
3:50
the bathroom and I was talking with my
3:52
friends they were talking with their
3:53
friends and we were laughing and they
3:56
had said something like why do they
3:58
laugh like that and and they were
4:01
talking about us in front of us and so I
4:04
went up there and I poured water on them
4:07
and then all three of them came at me
4:09
you know U pour in the water cuz I'm I'm
4:12
trying to get this in my mind so I see
4:14
you know as best I had a water bottle
4:16
thank you that's what was ask where did
4:17
you where did you get this water was it
4:18
a cup you found was it your water bottle
4:20
it's my uh your daily water bottle you
4:23
car about I think it was a plastic water
4:24
bottle okay fair enough okay so you
4:26
squirted them with water threw water on
4:28
whatever it was okay okay um then at
4:30
that point what happened
4:33
uh they came at me they grabbed on my
4:36
hair I grabbed on to them uh I threw one
4:39
of them into a paper towel dispenser and
4:41
then they got my legs out from under me
4:43
and got me on the ground started beating
4:45
the out of me okay and then my
4:47
friends tried to jump in help but I'm
4:50
not sure I blacked out when when did
4:51
this happen today uh around one okay so
4:56
around around lunch time yeah okay yeah
5:00
um so I'm I'm going to follow up mom as
5:03
far as you're concerned I'm going to
5:04
definitely follow up with the school
5:05
tomorrow morning um figure out because
5:07
guess any criminal type action the
5:09
school is supposed to give us a call
5:11
that's um so whether they just
5:14
got and I'm not make excuses for them
5:16
but I've seen it happen both ways either
5:18
they maybe they forgot maybe there was
5:20
other things going on who knows but the
5:22
fact of matter is they they they dropped
5:23
the ball in this one of not notifying me
5:25
or right away I told them I wanted
5:27
something done said that is assault she
5:31
never laid her hands now she did the
5:33
water that was wrong well and I'll I'll
5:35
explain the the criminal side of that in
5:37
just a second but as far as the school
5:39
goes um just for what it's worth just
5:41
say I I will on your behalf I will speak
5:43
to the school tomorrow not that it's
5:45
going make it any better but I'm also
5:47
going to gather all the information I
5:49
can from all parties okay so not only
5:52
talking to you guys but I am going to go
5:53
talk to all the other parties tomorrow
5:55
as well and and they're their um their
5:58
their Guardians as well and and all that
5:59
good stuff okay but yes typic they're
6:03
supposed to but they're human I know but
6:07
if I tell them why wouldn't they do it I
6:09
I I don't know I can't account for that
6:12
I I don't know I don't know and they
6:14
told me I had to wait also but also Mom
6:16
and and again I'm not again I'm not
6:18
taking their side or anything I'm just
6:19
telling you just just parent to parent
6:21
kind of thing adult to adult nothing
6:24
says that you can't pick up the phone
6:25
either that's why I did from but I mean
6:28
before even being here at the School hey
6:30
uh 911 I'm at whatever school I'm at the
6:33
west campus I've asked a school to
6:35
contact one of the school resource
6:36
officers they're not doing it what in a
6:39
timely manner dispatch me one out then
6:41
they get on my main side Channel Hey
6:43
officer Thompson come out just like
6:45
right now officer Thompson we've got a
6:47
student with an altercation situation
6:49
happened at the west campus sometime
6:51
today can you go follow up now at the ER
6:54
so that that they'll just get me to the
6:56
to the high school uhhuh that much
6:58
quicker okay for for for your preference
7:00
you see what I'm saying okay so I should
7:01
have went ahead and did it if if the
7:03
school if the school does not want to
7:04
call you have every right as a guardian
7:06
okay I want a police officer if the
7:08
school's not going to do it fine you you
7:11
take the initiative you pick up the
7:13
phone and you go ahead and call and say
7:15
I would like an officer here okay they
7:17
can't they I will show up okay okay so
7:20
it's doesn't matter if it comes through
7:22
the channel of the school or the channel
7:23
of the city yeah I will get both feeds I
7:26
will be there one way or another okay so
7:28
just just for thought for the future
7:30
okay well hopefully it doesn't happen
7:32
again just anything in in life you know
7:35
yeah um now as as to the specifics of
7:38
the criminal crime okay I'm this is what
7:40
I'm going to tell you yes I can
7:42
technically do a report for the assault
7:44
and batter absolutely okay um because
7:47
it's unwanted touching of one individual
7:49
to another they put their hands on you
7:52
okay and it was unwanted I will also
7:55
tell you though that that will saying
7:57
what's good for the goose is good for
7:58
the gander meaning
8:00
the way you the the courts are going to
8:02
look at is it's it's a mutual fight okay
8:06
so both parties are victims but both
8:07
parties are also suspects in this you
8:10
get what I'm saying your offender as
8:11
well so I will absolutely do a port if
8:13
that's what you want I can do okay but
8:15
I'm just letting you know the other
8:17
party wants to do the same thing she's
8:19
going to be uh the assault will be on
8:21
her as well um because she first
8:23
assaulted she was the one who initiated
8:25
it essentially because you got freedom
8:27
of speech you can do all this all day
8:30
the action of physically the moment she
8:32
threw that water you've now assaulted
8:34
somebody you made the first
8:37
jab just because it doesn't make it
8:39
right but they defended themselves quote
8:42
unquote you retaliated back now we've
8:45
got this back and forth when both
8:46
parties had equal opportunity to
8:48
separate so that's where I'm saying it's
8:50
it's not going to be in the best of
8:51
light for you but I can absolutely do
8:54
that if that's what you like I'm just
8:56
telling you it's it may not go the
8:57
direction you want it to go I am not the
8:59
judge I'm not the jury I'm here to just
9:02
say this is the facts this is what's
9:04
presented but mom as guardian because
9:06
essentially juvenile cannot make that
9:07
legal decision if you want to proceed
9:09
with it absolutely I will have you write
9:11
out a statement I'll document it but I'm
9:14
going to have to do the same thing for
9:15
them and if they say that I'm going to
9:17
gather their information as well and
9:18
based on her own admittance on camera as
9:21
well as whatever else she essentially
9:24
started it yes you see what I'm saying
9:27
so so I'm not trying to dve the bus or
9:29
anything like that I'm just like you
9:30
know this is what will probably happen
9:32
going forward yeah but I can absolutely
9:34
do that if that's the documentation that
9:36
you would what through the criminal side
9:38
now through the school side the school
9:41
has their own it's a zero tolerance just
9:44
like the Vapes if all parties involved
9:46
everyone gets in trouble with this one
9:49
it's more of we're going to see we're
9:51
going to cut down and see what elements
9:53
meet any kind of specific crime um if
9:57
she
9:58
was
9:59
when she was first explaining to me hey
10:02
I didn't do a dang thing minded my own
10:04
business I went to the bathroom they
10:06
followed me in there and they attacked
10:08
me okay she's a true victim of assault
10:10
and battery mhm she did nothing but the
10:14
fact that she through that water it kind
10:18
of It kind of kind of puts her even
10:21
though she didn't put hands on them it's
10:22
still Sal batter it's it's salt the the
10:26
the water the water you see what I'm
10:27
saying if you have not have done
10:31
that absolutely victim all day long and
10:34
I got you and I still got you because
10:36
I'm here to just put the facts down I'm
10:38
not here to but I'm just telling you
10:40
this is a good chance of the direction
10:42
it will go when it goes to the Ada or
10:45
when he goes to the judges they're going
10:46
to look at it and say okay let's break
10:48
it down piece by piece element by
10:49
element who actually started the
10:52
situation run in the mouth is freedom of
10:54
speech yes unfortunately you can say
10:56
mean hurtful things all day long mhm
11:00
and you got to let it roll off your
11:01
shoulder the moment someone retaliates
11:04
or does something physically M or a
11:07
directive threat verbally now you have
11:10
something throwing that water on
11:13
there just cuz it's water doesn't make
11:15
it any better it could have been urine
11:18
it could have been paint it could have
11:20
been anything what about because there
11:22
was three of them and she only threw
11:24
water on one doesn't matter I mean it
11:27
matters for the school the school's
11:28
going to to everyone's going to be
11:30
disciplined that everybody that went in
11:32
there everyone that was in her her group
11:35
everybody that was in the other group
11:37
doesn't matter if there's 30 of them
11:38
fighting they're all going to be
11:39
disciplined in the school from a
11:41
criminal side of things it doesn't make
11:43
it okay you had three versus one it
11:45
doesn't matter what matters is who
11:47
started
11:48
it and how what where where how bad of a
11:52
situated like was there weapons involved
11:55
was there not things like that okay but
11:57
but the biggest part is the fact that
11:59
it's a mutual fight so they all are
12:01
victims but they're all suspects but
12:05
she's in a little bit more of a
12:07
situation because she's the one who
12:08
started it by throwing a object or an
12:11
item onto another individual starting
12:13
the incident she she's she's the one who
12:15
started the domino effect yeah if she
12:17
had never done that and I'm not blaming
12:19
you I know if you had not have done that
12:23
we may not even be here or they would
12:26
have went ahead and did their thing to
12:28
you yeah you know okay now again hey I
12:31
was in the bathroom my friends minding
12:32
my own business they started yapping we
12:34
started yapping but nothing happened
12:37
then they threw us in the wall okay now
12:40
I have where again a true victim but
12:43
again I'll show you essentially shut
12:47
your mouth as soon as you hit them with
12:49
water okay doesn't not give them the
12:51
right to do it by any means it's still
12:52
does not give them a right to put their
12:54
hands on you at all that's why I say
12:56
they're just as guilty as you are 100%
12:58
it's just I hate to see you both a
13:01
criminally wise get hung up on something
13:04
so minuscule but I am here to do that if
13:07
that's what you like okay what I want
13:09
done or what I would like done and I
13:10
hope you agree is that you go to the
13:13
school and find out why they did not
13:16
call you MH and and you know what I mean
13:20
I want that to be known because they are
13:23
in the wrong for that oh I I I agree
13:25
with you I was I was wrong I should have
13:27
I didn't know I could write there and
13:29
then they said okay well in 24 48 hours
13:32
when I get all of our statements and
13:35
this and that then we'll call someone in
13:37
if you want and I I'm like okay I
13:41
thought that's the way it was done and
13:42
then I talked with my sister and she
13:44
said no h when you take her up there get
13:46
someone up there right away yeah um and
13:49
I will certainly absolutely have their
13:50
talk um and I will document my own
13:54
internal with my notes because again
13:56
this there's a digital call here for
13:58
this m so so it's not like there's no I
14:01
mean it's not a formal report but
14:03
there's a digital and in that note I'm
14:04
going to explain you know I'll put in
14:06
there the fact I explain the options to
14:08
you you chose hey we're you know and I
14:11
don't want to put words in your mouth
14:12
but essentially you do not want a formal
14:14
Char prosecute right now yeah and right
14:16
now you would rather handle it civil
14:19
yeah internally if you will yes between
14:22
parent guardian and the school yes okay
14:25
um doesn't mean you can't civy sue them
14:27
it doesn't mean that you can't
14:28
protective orders against them I'm just
14:30
giving you those options I just want
14:31
those girls to know that they need to
14:33
cuz they actually started everything
14:35
from the get-go okay the they you know
14:38
from what I understand from um talking
14:40
with uh the friend you know I know all
14:42
the girls Okay and she told me and then
14:45
separately she told me and the stories I
14:48
mean it wasn't like they were together
14:49
saying okay this is what happen and and
14:51
that's my plan is to find out tomorrow
14:52
with with the admin what is all going on
14:55
from all sides all corners and if I can
14:59
get additional facts of anything mom um
15:01
I don't have a problem I'll contact you
15:02
and let you know hey look there's more
15:05
more to the story or this is what is
15:07
believed to be I want the parents to
15:09
know what yeah I want the parents to
15:12
know also what their their girls are
15:13
doing so so right and so with that um
15:17
because it's a
15:19
juvenile I can't tell you what is I I
15:23
just want you so what I can tell you is
15:26
I will be in on conversation with the
15:29
school however that capacity may be with
15:31
the parent yes so so if I'm able and I
15:34
have the ability to sit down with parent
15:36
and say look this is what's what which
15:38
is what I'm hoping for then absolutely
15:40
yes if it's a situation where it's
15:42
already been handled for whatever reason
15:44
and I'm behind on catching up to all
15:46
that I'm not going to call parents in
15:48
after the fact and
15:50
reash everything all over but with you I
15:53
don't mind calling you saying okay look
15:56
this is what school has said this is the
15:58
information I've gotten um Mom this is
16:01
where I'm at now at this point kind of
16:03
thing I have no problems with that okay
16:04
and and if you decide to change your
16:06
mind I mean tomorrow morning when I call
16:08
you mid morning you know before noon if
16:11
you say hey look I slept on it I really
16:13
feel like I want to go ahead and
16:15
absolutely Mom okay then then you can
16:17
come up to I can actually I can send you
16:19
an email with a digital um so you don't
16:21
have a a hard copy here I'll send you a
16:24
digital print of our witness statement
16:26
you can fill that out on her behalf MH
16:30
of what she told you kind of thing um I
16:32
don't know is she are you going to be at
16:34
school tomorrow or okay they're going to
16:36
keep you they suspended her okay so well
16:39
and again yeah that's that's the school
16:41
thing but you'll be home so if you say
16:44
look I was Restless sleeping last night
16:46
we we we think we'd rather go ahead and
16:49
do it not a problem okay I I'll still
16:51
take care of you I'll just reopen this
16:53
call I'll start a report I'll send you
16:55
an email you can fill it out with her
16:58
mhm um what she says don't add lit you
17:01
know just put but you know um put the
17:03
facts um and I will be asking you that
17:05
when I call you that'll be the first
17:07
thing I ask you before I give you
17:08
additional information okay because I
17:10
don't want to sway you one way or
17:11
another um well here's additional facts
17:14
oh well then this that and the other um
17:17
I would say Mom you've had 12 hours of
17:19
sleep on it as a guardian what do you
17:21
want to do as a parent um you make the
17:23
decision kind of thing if you stand by
17:25
it I'm with you if you change your mind
17:27
so be it
17:29
um and then once you send me the email
17:30
back and I get it all confirmed by
17:32
replying back um with the case number
17:33
and all that so that way you have a a
17:35
number associated you can go to the
17:38
records and obtain that if you want now
17:40
I won't give you very many facts of
17:42
anything it's going to be the basic who
17:43
what whenn were wise to everything but
17:46
um to to get the actual detail of
17:48
everyone's statements um schools parents
17:51
kids all that stuff you have to actually
17:53
subpena for it and all that records act
17:55
and all that but I don't think that's
17:57
necessary personally but that's your
17:59
prerogative um but I will follow up
18:01
tomorrow morning with you sometime okay
18:04
between 9:00 and noon that's fine um
18:07
depending on what other calls I get
18:08
through the 15 schools and we'll we'll
18:10
go from there okay if medically here
18:15
she's got a fractured this that the
18:18
other whatever it may be
18:20
um that documentation have that as well
18:24
because if if you decide to move forward
18:26
with wanting the press charges there is
18:29
something
18:30
legitimate more than just a scratch you
18:33
know what I'm saying you know something
18:34
that's okay then we can document that
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and and go from there okay um but but
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Associated Press - Video shows Oklahoma nonbinary teen after attack in school bathroom, the day before their death (link | archive)
BY KEN MILLER, PHILIP MARCELO AND JAMIE STENGLE
Updated 11:48 PM EST, February 23, 2024
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OKLAHOMA CITY (AP) — A 16-year-old Oklahoma student who died the day after a fight in a high school bathroom was conscious and alert when telling police about the attack by three girls that occurred after the teen squirted them with water, according to police video released Friday.
Nex Benedict’s mother called police to come to the hospital on Feb. 7 after the teen was attacked at school in the Tulsa suburb of Owasso. Nex, who identified as nonbinary and used they/them pronouns, died the next day after their mother called emergency responders to their home, saying Nex’s breathing was shallow, their eyes were rolling back and their hands were curled, according to audio also released by Owasso police.
In the video from the hospital the day of the altercation, Nex explains to an officer that the girls had been picking on them and their friends because of the way they dressed. Nex claims that in the bathroom the girls said “something like: why do they laugh like that,” referring to Nex and their friends.
“And so I went up there and I poured water on them, and then all three of them came at me,” Nex tells the officer while reclining in a hospital bed.
“They came at me. They grabbed on my hair. I grabbed onto them. I threw one of them into a paper towel dispenser and then they got my legs out from under me and got me on the ground,” Nex says in the video, adding that the girls then started beating Nex and they blacked out.
In the 911 call on Feb. 8, Nex’s mother, Sue Benedict, expressed concern about a head injury as she described Nex’s symptoms.
“I hope this ain’t from her head. They were supposed to have checked her out good,” said Benedict, who remained calm during the call and said she had been to nursing school. Benedict said in a statement on a GoFundMe page set up to help cover funeral expenses that the family was still learning to use the teen’s preferred name and pronouns.
Paramedics responding to the family’s house performed CPR and rushed Nex to the hospital, where they later died.
In audio of the call Benedict made to police on Feb. 7, Benedict said she wanted an officer to come so she could file charges. The officer who responded can be heard in the hospital video explaining that Nex started the altercation by throwing the water and the court would view it as a mutual fight.
According to a police search warrant, Benedict indicated to police on Feb. 7 that she didn’t want to file charges at that time. Benedict instead asked police to speak to school officials about issues on campus among students.
The Feb. 9 search warrant, which was filed with the court on Feb. 21, also shows investigators took 137 photographs at the school, including inside the girl’s bathroom where the fight occurred. They additionally collected two swabs of stains from the bathroom and retrieved records and documents of the students involved in the altercation.
While the two-week-old warrant states that police were seeking evidence in a felony murder, the department has since said Benedict’s death was not a result of injuries suffered in the fight, based on the preliminary results of the autopsy.
The police department, which didn’t respond to multiple messages sent Friday, has said it won’t comment further on the teen’s cause of death until toxicology and other autopsy results are completed.
Video released by police from the high school on Feb. 7 shows students walking into and then out of a bathroom after stacking chairs on top of tables in a cafeteria. Six students are seen entering the bathroom before Nex, who stops at a water fountain and then enters the bathroom along with two other students. A faculty member is then seen going into the bathroom, and the students walk out.
There is no indication from the footage, which only shows the bathroom door and part of the cafeteria, of what occurred in the bathroom.
The school district has said the students were in the restroom for less than two minutes before the fight was broken up by other students and a staff member. Police and school officials have not said what provoked the fight.
The family, through their lawyer, declined to comment Friday on the search warrant. The attorney did not immediately offer any comment Friday on behalf of the family on the video and audio released. Earlier this week, they said they have launched their own independent investigation into what happened.
Vigils are planned over the weekend in Oklahoma for the teen.
White House press secretary Karine Jean-Pierre said Friday that she was “absolutely heartbroken” over Nex’s death.
“Every young person deserves to feel safe and supported at school,” Jean-Pierre said.
Updated 11:48 PM EST, February 23, 2024
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OKLAHOMA CITY (AP) — A 16-year-old Oklahoma student who died the day after a fight in a high school bathroom was conscious and alert when telling police about the attack by three girls that occurred after the teen squirted them with water, according to police video released Friday.
Nex Benedict’s mother called police to come to the hospital on Feb. 7 after the teen was attacked at school in the Tulsa suburb of Owasso. Nex, who identified as nonbinary and used they/them pronouns, died the next day after their mother called emergency responders to their home, saying Nex’s breathing was shallow, their eyes were rolling back and their hands were curled, according to audio also released by Owasso police.
In the video from the hospital the day of the altercation, Nex explains to an officer that the girls had been picking on them and their friends because of the way they dressed. Nex claims that in the bathroom the girls said “something like: why do they laugh like that,” referring to Nex and their friends.
“And so I went up there and I poured water on them, and then all three of them came at me,” Nex tells the officer while reclining in a hospital bed.
“They came at me. They grabbed on my hair. I grabbed onto them. I threw one of them into a paper towel dispenser and then they got my legs out from under me and got me on the ground,” Nex says in the video, adding that the girls then started beating Nex and they blacked out.
In the 911 call on Feb. 8, Nex’s mother, Sue Benedict, expressed concern about a head injury as she described Nex’s symptoms.
“I hope this ain’t from her head. They were supposed to have checked her out good,” said Benedict, who remained calm during the call and said she had been to nursing school. Benedict said in a statement on a GoFundMe page set up to help cover funeral expenses that the family was still learning to use the teen’s preferred name and pronouns.
Paramedics responding to the family’s house performed CPR and rushed Nex to the hospital, where they later died.
In audio of the call Benedict made to police on Feb. 7, Benedict said she wanted an officer to come so she could file charges. The officer who responded can be heard in the hospital video explaining that Nex started the altercation by throwing the water and the court would view it as a mutual fight.
According to a police search warrant, Benedict indicated to police on Feb. 7 that she didn’t want to file charges at that time. Benedict instead asked police to speak to school officials about issues on campus among students.
The Feb. 9 search warrant, which was filed with the court on Feb. 21, also shows investigators took 137 photographs at the school, including inside the girl’s bathroom where the fight occurred. They additionally collected two swabs of stains from the bathroom and retrieved records and documents of the students involved in the altercation.
While the two-week-old warrant states that police were seeking evidence in a felony murder, the department has since said Benedict’s death was not a result of injuries suffered in the fight, based on the preliminary results of the autopsy.
The police department, which didn’t respond to multiple messages sent Friday, has said it won’t comment further on the teen’s cause of death until toxicology and other autopsy results are completed.
Video released by police from the high school on Feb. 7 shows students walking into and then out of a bathroom after stacking chairs on top of tables in a cafeteria. Six students are seen entering the bathroom before Nex, who stops at a water fountain and then enters the bathroom along with two other students. A faculty member is then seen going into the bathroom, and the students walk out.
There is no indication from the footage, which only shows the bathroom door and part of the cafeteria, of what occurred in the bathroom.
The school district has said the students were in the restroom for less than two minutes before the fight was broken up by other students and a staff member. Police and school officials have not said what provoked the fight.
The family, through their lawyer, declined to comment Friday on the search warrant. The attorney did not immediately offer any comment Friday on behalf of the family on the video and audio released. Earlier this week, they said they have launched their own independent investigation into what happened.
Vigils are planned over the weekend in Oklahoma for the teen.
White House press secretary Karine Jean-Pierre said Friday that she was “absolutely heartbroken” over Nex’s death.
“Every young person deserves to feel safe and supported at school,” Jean-Pierre said.
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It's interesting to see the initial kneejerk reactions by troons & troon media to this situation that people had, assuming immediately it was some transphobic attack, and then for video evidence to come out showing that Dagny started the whole altercation with tossing water at the girls.
Sounds to me like this was just a case of a bully victim fighting back and it going wrong. It's genuinely quite sad that she died, from the brief video she doesn't seem like an obnoxious person and whilst yeah it's a damn shame the gender cult got to her, she respects that when in important situations that people are going to call her what she is instead of the typical chimping out you see.
Again, a damn shame she died. This death was a tragedy, since the hospital effectively killed her from what it seems.
Sounds to me like this was just a case of a bully victim fighting back and it going wrong. It's genuinely quite sad that she died, from the brief video she doesn't seem like an obnoxious person and whilst yeah it's a damn shame the gender cult got to her, she respects that when in important situations that people are going to call her what she is instead of the typical chimping out you see.
Again, a damn shame she died. This death was a tragedy, since the hospital effectively killed her from what it seems.
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Not at all. The gender Goblin admitted that she had no contact with the younger (!) girls before. Not only that but she was with 3 other people when she went after the girls. She was the aggressor and she hurt one of the girls.
No, it's not.
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You've misread it. She was alone, and went against the three girls. There's no denying she was the aggressor, she made the first physical interaction and started the fight.
But it isn't the fight that's a shame. It's the fact she died because of a hospital's incompetence, most probably. Anyone dying at the hands of medical incompetence and malpractice is a tragedy, it shows utter negligence for the patients regardless of who they are.
That's why it's a tragedy and a shame.
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She WASN'T ALONE FFS! Watch the fucking videos & read the articles. There were 3 other people with her and they went after the girls. At least one of the trannies in her group was also involved in the fight.
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Going on the police transcript, repeatedly it's mentioned she was alone. Mind directing me to some of those videos & articles saying she was with a group?
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Bullied because of how she dressed makes more sense than because of the NB identity - I'm not 'murican but even I know woke shit is generally far less tolerated in the south, so it's likely many of her classmates wouldn't even entertain the idea of a non binary gender, especially the black kids who tend to come from deeply religious families. Can't say for certain if the school has a whole policy about respecting students' new names/pronouns because we haven't heard from any of the teachers, could be that the NB identity was only acknowledged amongst her particular friend group.
Seems like another case of the quirky kid being picked on - not that it isn't a tragedy that she died a completely preventable death, but there's a high chance that she just happened to have been indoctrinated into the gender cult and it has nothing to do with the incident.
Seems like another case of the quirky kid being picked on - not that it isn't a tragedy that she died a completely preventable death, but there's a high chance that she just happened to have been indoctrinated into the gender cult and it has nothing to do with the incident.
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When she talks to the cop she said she was with her friends - the girls made fun at how she and her friends were dressed and laughed, according to her. Later she said she thinks a friend came to her help but she just blacked out so she isn't sure.
I don't know, the fight might have been 3 on one, but it wasn't very long, quite quickly people came to her aid. She also managed to throw one of the girls to the toilet paper dispenser, it's not like she was just there being beaten, she reacted. Seems like it was a fight, rather than an ambush by three girls who bullied her (she didn't know these girls, as she said in the video herself), as the trans mafia like to portray it.
Honestly, I'm not even entirely sure she identified as a non-binary at that time. When she spoke to the cop - with much more confidence than I anticipated, to be honest - the cop and her mother/grandmother continuously called her "she". She didn't correct them and didn't seem bothered by it at all. The cop even called her by her "dead name" once, and she didn't react at all. I know that you can say she was too nervous (although she didn't seem nervous to me) to bring it up or thought that it isn't important at the moment, but then... maybe it wasn't so important to her, after all? Maybe it wasn't that much of a big deal? I hate how they make "gender identity" the most important thing in the world.
And I just loath the way the trans mob appropriate her death and use it in their claims of transphobia, when even if the death is from head trauma - which according to the autopsy, it isn't - it probably has nothing to do with her being non-binary at all.
Is her tombstone going to be read "Nex Benedict" now? Despite the fact that the family obviously wants to use her original name? You know, the people who actually raised her? Disgusting.
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I think Non-binaryism bothers me more then the transgender ('going from one gender to the other") simply because how stupid it is
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"Nonbinary" doesn't bother me anymore than plain old vanilla troonism. The mere fact that troons would dream up that shit goes a long way in discrediting transgenderism.
That's a good thing, actually.
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Most nonbinary seem to be teenage girls trying to not be like all the other girls. Even Eggys Benedict didn't seem to care when she was misgendered talking to the cop.
I assume they are gonna use Nex instead of Eggys Benedict or whatever her name is, just from them apologizing for upsetting the troons on their GFM.
It's always bothered me too for this reason. Trans, okay, I can kind of see how they get there, and there's at least historical trannies, even if they're utterly misrepresented by the trans community. But nonbinary is completely made up and has no basis in anything. I cannot and will never take a "nonbinary" person seriously.
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I think the reason non binaries slightly annoy me more than trans women or men is that most of the ones I've encountered are the most narcissist people who think they're special because like Mitt Doggy said its "I'm not like other girls."Another reason is that every time a trans study pops up to prove transgenderism, I've never once seen them ever explain how a non binary person's brain operates.TIMs will say shit that their brains operate like a "cis woman's" and TIFs will say the same about cis men, but NBs?Do their brains not operate at all?Like how does one prove a NB brain when even TRAs will tell you that male and female brains dont exist?Why is nobody calling these people out more?
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being "nonbinary" is the safest way to have all the padding of the gendercult with none of the actual effort (subjective) it takes to transition and pass and shit.
if someone troons out you can absolutely tell from a mile away. nonbinanas look and act the exact fucking same but with more ragebaiting
if someone troons out you can absolutely tell from a mile away. nonbinanas look and act the exact fucking same but with more ragebaiting
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It truly boggles my mind how NB seemed to go from a niche online thing to completely mainstream almost overnight, when it was just beginning to gain ground on Tumblr etc., I guarantee nobody who identified that way would go around admitting it to every single person they know because they'd get laughed at. Now here we are and it's half the reason such a fuss is being made over pronouns, with regular trannies at least you only have to worry about calling the ogre in a dress "she" or the short pooner with a sad wispy moustache "he", even if the person you're talking about is clearly not the sex they're claiming to be, at least you're still using your normal vocabulary, whereas this singular "they" to refer to a person whose sex you can clearly tell at a glance, or inventing whole new words, is just taking it to another level of absurdity.
Then you get stuff like "my gender is the ocean" and "plant gender" which is clearly just hippy dippy spiritual drivel under another name, but because they're trying to lump it in with being gay, under the LGBTQIA+ or however many letters we're up to now, it gets taken completely seriously. Not to mention it seems so based in stereotypes especially for the girls/young women, can't be a tomboy or a nerdy girl anymore, you have to be NB because being female doesn't have anything to do with what bits you have downstairs anymore in clown world.
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When I was growing up *, we had "weirdos" who went out of their way to be annoying to make up for being bland little people - we called them "pseudointellectuals".
The NBs are just the latest version of this, give it a generation or two and the new ones will find something equally dumb to cling on to.
* I use this phrase in a purely experimental fashion.
The NBs are just the latest version of this, give it a generation or two and the new ones will find something equally dumb to cling on to.
* I use this phrase in a purely experimental fashion.
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I found this nonbinatarian's post that checks every single box on the NB Bingo board. I don't think there was one buzzword she missed: joy, dysphoria, transkids, gender affirming, no ragerts, and bonus points for a shout out to her butcher Dr and mentioning her poly "partners". What really took this over the top was the 'merica nipless pic somewhere out in the wild. She is definitely not like other girls you guys.
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It's a gap in thinking created by the acceptance of the trans ideas that "gender has an innate feeling" or "identifying with a gender". When in reality normal people don't feel strongly one way or the other about their own sex.
NB idiots have decided their totally normal attitude towards their sex is something unique and special because they can't rectify their own experiences with the reported tranny experience.
As long as there is tranny shit there will be NB shit.